Red Flag Questions SP’s Receive

carvesg

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Honestly I've looked around on this forum and although there are questionable conversations and posts, it's nowhere near as bad as Merb - in my opinion the worst Canadian review board and the one I have to deal with here
Merb is definitely a misoginystic board with little to no moderation to speak of . Bad environment for a lady .

I remember a thread on Merb about a Lady who had sued a client for no payment after services rendered which equates to rape since the act is none consensual and the ladies trying yo explain that point of view being bashed . After I chipped in to that same thread i got nasty responses... Wild ! Not something that is tolerated on Perb where common sense and civility apply.

Good luck navigating on Merb
 

lunaseraphim

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Merb is definitely a misoginystic board with little to no moderation to speak of . Bad environment for a lady .

I remember a thread on Merb about a Lady who had sued a client for no payment after services rendered which equates to rape since the act is none consensual and the ladies trying yo explain that point of view being bashed . After I chipped in to that same thread i got nasty responses... Wild ! Not something that is tolerated on Perb where common sense and civility apply.

Good luck navigating on Merb
Ok, I'm glad I'm not crazy and even clients agree.. there is indeed no moderation on it. I stopped commenting because I was getting so much hate, harassment, etc. I'm not sure what's up with that
 

Larry's Torch

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At the end of the day its the girl's discretion, not our demand, that decides what happens. Being pushy and disrespectful is not going to get anyone anywhere. While some girls have gone the "extra mile" for me, it was because they wanted to, and that's fine, but definitely not an expectation. Maybe they did it because they like me, or maybe they just think it's good for business and I'm a safe client, but either way, it's their decision to make.
Perhaps I'm misinterpreting your post (easy to do in a text only environment), but I wasn't suggesting anything different than what the ladies lay out in their restrictions/boundaries.
Merely pointing out no matter what we think, the reality is usually something different.
As she stated.
 
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tzfang

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I did ask some awkward questions before, like 2 years ago when I just started; it came purely from curiosity.

It's a straightforward question, but I felt the cringe after I thought about it.

I asked:

How long have you been in this profession?

What is a day like? And average volume.

I will beat myself so hard right now.

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79Lurker

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“Can I bring friends, substances, or alcohol?”

I usually ask if a provider is 420 friendly. A lot of the times they are, and those that don’t partake are usually fine with it.
 

MikeyLikey99

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“Can I bring friends, substances, or alcohol?”

I usually ask if a provider is 420 friendly. A lot of the times they are, and those that don’t partake are usually fine with it.
If they are 420 friendly, how you usually partake? Inside, outside…vape or joint?
 

79Lurker

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If they are 420 friendly, how you usually partake? Inside, outside…vape or joint?
I usually just vape inside. We pass it back and forth during the session if she’s into it. I just hit it myself if she’s not. It hasn’t been an issue so far.
 
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