Moving to Kelowna has made me stop
- Thread starter Cstam
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Doesnt make these relationships fake though. They can still be genuine within the container
Calling these “relationships”, is funny to me. Nothing real about them.
They are 100% fake and do not exist without cash in your pocket. Next time ask your provider to hang out and do this shit without money and see what happens. They do not care about you.
Not sorry if this hurts peoples feelings and I’m sure there will be people on here saying no she really cares about me lol
And anyone can call me an asshole or a jerk or whatever this does not affect me in any way shape or form.
They are 100% fake and do not exist without cash in your pocket. Next time ask your provider to hang out and do this shit without money and see what happens. They do not care about you.
Not sorry if this hurts peoples feelings and I’m sure there will be people on here saying no she really cares about me lol
And anyone can call me an asshole or a jerk or whatever this does not affect me in any way shape or form.
No one is disputing these are transactional but to say they are fake and meaningless to a companion is straight up wrong
Im sure you’re the exact type of guy who only sees these women as holes to use, i wouldnt be excited to see you if i was them
Too funny. I never said anything negative about the providers,. You and them have no idea what I’m thinking lol.
Just keep telling yourself you’re special and they care. I’m sure after you leave they miss you and text you and just want to chat.
Not going to try to argue logic with you.
Just keep telling yourself you’re special and they care. I’m sure after you leave they miss you and text you and just want to chat.
Not going to try to argue logic with you.
You don’t have to be overly negative to know what you are 🤣 i have alot of good relationships with various companions over a long period of time. You’ve just never experienced it
Bro the stripper really loves me bro.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 where is that coming from? Im doing just fine. Just because i refuse to say “these relationships are fake”?
Well stated. Bless. 🙏
Please stop speaking for all SP’s as if we elected you to be our representative. If you haven’t experienced any genuine connection thus far, it could be that you cheapen SP’s down to individuals who don’t care about people beyond making money (which is both biased and downright negative). Self-fulfilling prophecy much?
I think there’s some confusion about our role here.
Anybody with strong boundaries in any field keeps a professional relationship within the confines of that relationship. I have clients that I’ve had for the whole time I’ve been on perb. You don’t retain longevity with anybody if you don’t treat people with care and consideration. And that’s just a fact. I’m human dealing with other human beings. I absolutely do care about my clients. Some I even consider friends. But will I see them for free? Why should I? That’s not the perimeters of our relationship. Why complicate a perfectly good thing?
Holes? No. That's just rude.
Very good actors who can put up a very good show and play into what you need at the moment?Yes.
At the end, that's what we all need. We go to movies to be entertained and feel feels. We go to ladies to be entertained and feel feels. They look at our eyes, ask how we're doing, how we've been, they make us feel good.
They wouldn't see us without money. We wouldn't see them if they're bad at acting. It's a business transaction like a movie ticket.
And i know that genuine connection exists. I became friends with a now retired companion and we still talk regularly even though she’s been out of the industry for half a year. I don’t share intimacy with her anymore but we absolutely do have a solid friendship and i’ve seen her for coffee here and there. Im grateful that i get to meet such amazing souls in this industry and its not all about money.
Wow, I really pushed some buttons, damn the truth stings .I love how it always comes down to people name calling or insults. Cheap providers? I wasn’t loved? These comments coming from sex workers is just classic….
That made my day. Hahahaha…. Thanks for that! These responses literally proved my point.
I especially love the one about why talk to a client after and ruin a good thing it’s not part of the “relationship”
I wasn’t rude to anybody and this is just my opinion. I think we’re allowed to have that on here right? People don’t necessarily have to like it and I’m ok with that. Believe what you choose..
That made my day. Hahahaha…. Thanks for that! These responses literally proved my point.
I especially love the one about why talk to a client after and ruin a good thing it’s not part of the “relationship”
I wasn’t rude to anybody and this is just my opinion. I think we’re allowed to have that on here right? People don’t necessarily have to like it and I’m ok with that. Believe what you choose..
You're missing the point. You wouldn't ask your therapist to see you for free, why would you ask a sex worker to do the same thing? Does that mean every service we seek out is fake from the eyes of the person providing that service? How it is impossible for you to wrap your head around the idea that people can care about another, enjoy their presence, enjoy the time they spend with their clients? Does that mean we need that person to violate their own boundaries to see us for free? No it doesn't. We all know these relationships are transactional, that doesn't invalidate the connection that forms from this. If you are unable to see that, why are you even seeing sex workers? Just to dump your load and move on? What kind of sex worker wants to see a guy like that? These people are human beings just like you and I, and i can assure you that the women who provide this service don't want to be around guys who have the opinion that you share such as yourself. you can have your own opinion, but be prepared to face consequences for what you say.
These are the type of men that ruin things for the rest of us who actually humanize the companions we see. The sex work industry would be 100x better if all the porn addicted review board men started seeing the truth. If they can treat sex workers like the way they do, i can only imagine how they treat their wives or other women in their lives. Yikes.
I’m not missing any point at all actually.
I see things very clearly with logic and common sense. I’m not expecting or saying they should do anything for free. I was making a point that they wouldn’t. You just don’t get it, but I’m not expecting you to. You think one way and I think the other and like I said that’s fine.
You fall in love with providers and I don’t.
and yes, to be honest, I see sex workers to dump my load and move on, that’s the point.
I do this for me, not them. I guess we are looking for different things from providers. I get that from real girls in my life..
I know these are human beings and you say they don’t want to be around people with opinions like me….well they have no clue what my opinions are as long as my money in my pocket that’s all that matters. 😂
Pretty crazy how defensive you are and I haven’t even said anything offensive.
Oh, no consequences over what I say! What’s gonna happen to me? I’m so scared.
Just sit over there all sad and upset trying to convince me that your way is the right way of thinking, but that’s not gonna happen.
I’m done.
I see things very clearly with logic and common sense. I’m not expecting or saying they should do anything for free. I was making a point that they wouldn’t. You just don’t get it, but I’m not expecting you to. You think one way and I think the other and like I said that’s fine.
You fall in love with providers and I don’t.
and yes, to be honest, I see sex workers to dump my load and move on, that’s the point.
I do this for me, not them. I guess we are looking for different things from providers. I get that from real girls in my life..
I know these are human beings and you say they don’t want to be around people with opinions like me….well they have no clue what my opinions are as long as my money in my pocket that’s all that matters. 😂
Pretty crazy how defensive you are and I haven’t even said anything offensive.
Oh, no consequences over what I say! What’s gonna happen to me? I’m so scared.
Just sit over there all sad and upset trying to convince me that your way is the right way of thinking, but that’s not gonna happen.
I’m done.
Me and him do have different needs from providers but this response is exactly feeding my point about how many review board guys treat this industry snd women in general. Ive said my piece
yep, exactly! I understand some men only want sex and i get that, there are plenty of providers for that purpose, but i cant see how this man respects any of the women he sees based on his entitlement and his responses
