Moving to Kelowna has made me stop

Rigidone · May 15, 2026

Calling these “relationships”, is funny to me. Nothing real about them.
They are 100% fake and do not exist without cash in your pocket. Next time ask your provider to hang out and do this shit without money and see what happens. They do not care about you.
Not sorry if this hurts peoples feelings and I’m sure there will be people on here saying no she really cares about me lol
And anyone can call me an asshole or a jerk or whatever this does not affect me in any way shape or form.

Rigidone · May 15, 2026

Believe what you want to….
I guess out of all the numbers they’re pushing you’re the special one.

Rigidone · May 15, 2026

Too funny. I never said anything negative about the providers,. You and them have no idea what I’m thinking lol.
Just keep telling yourself you’re special and they care. I’m sure after you leave they miss you and text you and just want to chat.
Not going to try to argue logic with you.

The_perbateer · May 15, 2026

Rigidone said:
Too funny. I never said anything negative about the providers,. You and them have no idea what I’m thinking lol.
Just keep telling yourself you’re special and they care. I’m sure after you leave they miss you and text you and just want to chat.
Not going to try to argue logic with you.

Bro the stripper really loves me bro.

TheBellaRoseXo · May 16, 2026

johnmoor said:
Doesnt make these relationships fake though. They can still be genuine within the container

Well stated. Bless. 🙏

Rigidone said:
Calling these “relationships”, is funny to me. Nothing real about them.
They are 100% fake and do not exist without cash in your pocket. Next time ask your provider to hang out and do this shit without money and see what happens. They do not care about you.
Not sorry if this hurts peoples feelings and I’m sure there will be people on here saying no she really cares about me lol
And anyone can call me an asshole or a jerk or whatever this does not affect me in any way shape or form.

Rigidone said:
Too funny. I never said anything negative about the providers,. You and them have no idea what I’m thinking lol.
Just keep telling yourself you’re special and they care. I’m sure after you leave they miss you and text you and just want to chat.
Not going to try to argue logic with you.

Please stop speaking for all SP’s as if we elected you to be our representative. If you haven’t experienced any genuine connection thus far, it could be that you cheapen SP’s down to individuals who don’t care about people beyond making money (which is both biased and downright negative). Self-fulfilling prophecy much?

Harmony-bc · May 16, 2026

Rigidone said:
Calling these “relationships”, is funny to me. Nothing real about them.
They are 100% fake and do not exist without cash in your pocket. Next time ask your provider to hang out and do this shit without money and see what happens. They do not care about you.
Not sorry if this hurts peoples feelings and I’m sure there will be people on here saying no she really cares about me lol
And anyone can call me an asshole or a jerk or whatever this does not affect me in any way shape or form.

I think there’s some confusion about our role here.

Anybody with strong boundaries in any field keeps a professional relationship within the confines of that relationship. I have clients that I’ve had for the whole time I’ve been on perb. You don’t retain longevity with anybody if you don’t treat people with care and consideration. And that’s just a fact. I’m human dealing with other human beings. I absolutely do care about my clients. Some I even consider friends. But will I see them for free? Why should I? That’s not the perimeters of our relationship. Why complicate a perfectly good thing?

Brian's Second Testicle · May 16, 2026

johnmoor said:
Im sure you’re the exact type of guy who only sees these women as holes to use, i wouldnt be excited to see you if i was them

Holes? No. That's just rude.

Very good actors who can put up a very good show and play into what you need at the moment?Yes.

At the end, that's what we all need. We go to movies to be entertained and feel feels. We go to ladies to be entertained and feel feels. They look at our eyes, ask how we're doing, how we've been, they make us feel good.

They wouldn't see us without money. We wouldn't see them if they're bad at acting. It's a business transaction like a movie ticket.

Rigidone · May 16, 2026

Wow, I really pushed some buttons, damn the truth stings .I love how it always comes down to people name calling or insults. Cheap providers? I wasn’t loved? These comments coming from sex workers is just classic….
That made my day. Hahahaha…. Thanks for that! These responses literally proved my point.
I especially love the one about why talk to a client after and ruin a good thing it’s not part of the “relationship”
I wasn’t rude to anybody and this is just my opinion. I think we’re allowed to have that on here right? People don’t necessarily have to like it and I’m ok with that. Believe what you choose..

Rigidone · May 16, 2026

I’m not missing any point at all actually.
I see things very clearly with logic and common sense. I’m not expecting or saying they should do anything for free. I was making a point that they wouldn’t. You just don’t get it, but I’m not expecting you to. You think one way and I think the other and like I said that’s fine.
You fall in love with providers and I don’t.
and yes, to be honest, I see sex workers to dump my load and move on, that’s the point.
I do this for me, not them. I guess we are looking for different things from providers. I get that from real girls in my life..
I know these are human beings and you say they don’t want to be around people with opinions like me….well they have no clue what my opinions are as long as my money in my pocket that’s all that matters. 😂
Pretty crazy how defensive you are and I haven’t even said anything offensive.
Oh, no consequences over what I say! What’s gonna happen to me? I’m so scared.
Just sit over there all sad and upset trying to convince me that your way is the right way of thinking, but that’s not gonna happen.
I’m done.

Rigidone · May 16, 2026

Whitneyknows555 said:
I mean do you go to work for free??

I guess people don’t actually read these because if they did, they wouldn’t leave such a dumbass comment.

Rigidone · May 16, 2026

johnmoor said:
yep, exactly! I understand some men only want sex and i get that, there are plenty of providers for that purpose, but i cant see how this man respects any of the women he sees based on his entitlement and his responses

Wild assumptions.
Not sure where you would even get this from.
Every woman I interact with gets treated with respect and providers I see get paid very well.
You act like I’m going in there all abusive and rude lol ok. This is a service that meets our needs however we see fit.
The best part is it doesn’t matter what you think or feel about how I am because you have no idea. You’re entitled to your opinion and I am to mine, but you can’t seem to accept that and let it go.
Too funny.

Rigidone · May 16, 2026

johnmoor said:
I thought you were done? Go ahead and claim that all you want. Your words speak a different story

😂

The_perbateer · May 17, 2026

justanotherregularguy said:
have you seen Lia Haven House? Super fun and smoke show, everything you're looking for. Yeah kinda pricy but soooo fucking worth it

Thanks Lia

blueman2 · May 17, 2026

The_perbateer said:
Thanks Lia

So much of this going on and the mods are napping..

DV6 · Jul 20, 2026

Rigidone said:
Calling these “relationships”, is funny to me. Nothing real about them.
They are 100% fake and do not exist without cash in your pocket. Next time ask your provider to hang out and do this shit without money and see what happens. They do not care about you.
Not sorry if this hurts peoples feelings and I’m sure there will be people on here saying no she really cares about me lol
And anyone can call me an asshole or a jerk or whatever this does not affect me in any way shape or form.

I do see your point, and for the most part I actually agree. Especially if it’s someone you’ve only met once, or maybe for just an hour out of your life.
But I’ve also had some of the deepest conversations, experiences and connections with several of these woman over the years.
So yes, I’ve absolutely loved few, cared deeply for many, and watched as some have left the industry for bigger and better goals, with a smile on my face knowing they’re onto something brighter.
I don’t think a “true” friendship or relationship beyond the sex and the money happens often.
But I do believe it can happen.
Mostly depending on the chemistry between the two, and the willingness they have to show their true sides to one another.

bcstud · Jul 20, 2026

It all depends on the chemistry exactly

Faye Collins · Jul 20, 2026

TheBellaRoseXo said:
Well stated. Bless. 🙏

Please stop speaking for all SP’s as if we elected you to be our representative. If you haven’t experienced any genuine connection thus far, it could be that you cheapen SP’s down to individuals who don’t care about people beyond making money (which is both biased and downright negative). Self-fulfilling prophecy much?

Bingo! Well said Bella 💗

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