How many enjoy “silent sessions”?

TheBellaRoseXo said:

How many enjoy their sessions free from conversation - as an escape from the noise of the day-to-day, from people pleasing, allowing the SP fervently work on you like a legit RMT?
Also, how do we feel about the music?

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Dream session. Communicating with words is hard. My best expereinces are always when the non-verbal communication is peak

Content matters more than anything. If there are good things to talk about then it enhances the experience. Start yapping about politics, dating, other clients etc. and yeah, silence is golden!

Music ... please lose the rap unless requested. Mother of God, how anyone expects an old white dude to enjoy that shit, let alone be able to fuck to it is beyond me.

If a silent session = no background music/noise, no convo during sexy time, only noises coming from our bodies clashing, then 100% Yes.
But I like having a conversation with the girl (preferably post-coitus). Now sometimes it gets awkward, but when if you "clicked" it enhances the session for me.
It also makes futures dates even better.

If its fs talking is nice when it adds to the session such as dirty talk but anything beyond that would just be a mood changer for me. Save the longer chit-chat for later. I dont care for constant over the top dirty talk though. I like a nice flow that blends together. The worst is when a provider is trying to make you finish with their words. Its like they want it over before the session has even started.

In a more authentic rmt massage experience its nice to be in a silent setting with tranquil music in the background but I dont mind some talking at the extras portion or in a sensual massage experience.

I had a great sensual massage experience this one time where the provider liked to talk. She asked me about this one massage popular provider in my city and the reasons of why she gets booked so much.
It was fun telling her some x rated wild details on what makes her experience so special. She was just starting out and was learning the ropes so it was fun giving her some lay of the land. Turns out the one I was saying this too was pretty special in her own way also.

When it comes to music my experiences can get pretty amped up for me when the right mix is added to fs. I find music can guide me in a way to really connect and move to the music. For example when I was in mexico on my recent trip I made latin mixes that fit perfectly to my desires. If you want to take a session to a higher level get good rhythm music going with a great beat tempo and turn up the heat to the music in all different positions. It can even work in different fourplay scenarios. It can all be connected and blended together.

One of my tricks is to create a mix for however long my session time is so I dot have to worry about time issues.

Theres nothing like a latin beauty on top of you or on all fours that has the moves feeling the music bouncing to the beat while she rides your pole.
The same goes for you moving to the beat as you give it to her. It all blends together. Now take this idea and use it with different races from all different places.

I remember having this latin beauty ride on top of me in my resort room to a beautiful instrumental song and it was like I had died and gone to heaven in that very moment. Just looking into her bright glowing eyes while we flowed in sync to the music as I grabbed her beautiful soft breasts had me in a trance that I cant shake out of my head. I didnt have to wonder if I was turning her on or not because white cream was all over my pole as she moaned away. This was an experience that dreams are made of and the right choice of music 🎶 made it even more special. 🥰 😊

I have generally preferred having my mouth on her pussy and hers on my cock, which leads to slurping more than conversation.

If I want an RMT massage I’ll go to an RMT

I like the small talk and banter leading up to the sex, it adds a sense of reality. The very few times I’ve been unable to talk with an SP due to a language barrier have left me cold, so some talk is essential for me it seems.

As for the music, some smooth jazz or R&B is fine, but rather have silence than something distracting.

I love the dirty talk too much , both saying and hearing it said to me .

I have massage clients that clearly just want to lay there and have me work my magic with zero conversation. I find no conversation makes the session feel longer. But I’m also just there to give the experience they’re looking for. So I’m totally ok with zero conversation during the session.

I can’t go silent for music tho. But I also try to match music to the vibe I’m/they’re looking for and to the client.

I’m not submissive but I still aim to please 😘

i personally feel that some music is necessary. but i'm personally very sensitive to 'awkward silence'. that being said, forced conversations are also painful. dirty talk definitely helps make things more playful.
I've found that in my typical romantic relationships, the dirty talk isn't really prevalent. there was a time where i escalated it from like R-rated to like X-rated and my girlfriend was like "what the fucK?!!"......and ever since then i've been more cautious about matching partner's comfort level.

so although silence can be a welcome escape for some.....the fantasy and allure of dirty talk is also an escape

I'm good at conversation and reading people so I enjoy chatting with new girls I'm with to build that rapport and gauge their energy. That banter is also a bit of an escape from the professional world where communication is sterile and conversations are all shallow small talk that lead into business discussions. It's nice to have casual conversation with a sexy girl who I am going to boink.

I always preface my conversation with a recognition that ladies are not expected to provide any information they are not comfortable with, but I like hearing people's stories. Could be about a trip they took, their hobbies or pretty much anything. Hearing a persons stories changes the connection. I share stories of my experience. I find this works as I mostly go with massage.

TheBellaRoseXo said:

How many enjoy their sessions free from conversation - as an escape from the noise of the day-to-day, from people pleasing, allowing the SP fervently work on you like a legit RMT?
Also, how do we feel about the music?

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Are you asking only in the context of a massage session? FS vs massage is very different energy for me

I always want to be silent while getting flogged, the mistresses disagree for some reason....

No music, please. There’s always the risk of the music being the “wrong” kind, or you begin to associate a certain music with the act.

I once was sharing a band with a girl, but turned it off before getting back to the action. I didn’t want to create that association.

Talk, though? I love it. I like to build a bit of connection.

I'm a talker, and am genuinely curious about people, so I enjoy a session with good conversation topics.

As for music - none, please. Worst for me is too loud, hip hop.

Pumped said:

Content matters more than anything. If there are good things to talk about then it enhances the experience. Start yapping about politics, dating, other clients etc. and yeah, silence is golden!

Music ... please lose the rap unless requested. Mother of God, how anyone expects an old white dude to enjoy that shit, let alone be able to fuck to it is beyond me.

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This dude would rather listen to music he doesn't like ...instead of the cat puking under the bed...

Sounds like it's happened before.

sybian said:

This dude would rather listen to music he doesn't like ...instead of the cat puking under the bed...

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PipeLayer said:

Sounds like it's happened before.

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Yup….you just can’t make that shit up