New to the Hobby, and looking for recommendations and a answer

coalface92

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Hi I'm new to this community, and have only recent started visiting a few different providers, such as Frida, Anastasia, and Ellie. I've had a pretty great time with each one, and there are a couple I plan to continue seeing. Yet at the same time I am interested in exploring further, such as with BDSM and being in dominate position though, and I was wondering if anyone had recommendations for providers who are open to it? I ask because most descriptions of providers state that they are submissive, but I doubt that. My main criteria is I am not a fan of tattoos, and prefer taller woman.

And for a separate question, the various Asian spa's around Victoria, are they actually just walk in's? And do you just choose from who is available when your there?
 

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First thing I'm gonna say. Where are you reviews of the ladies you have seen.

I for one don't care to help those that just take take take without providing some content to the community.

Till you start showing some active participation. Your only friend is the search function.
 

coalface92

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First thing I'm gonna say. Where are you reviews of the ladies you have seen.

I for one don't care to help those that just take take take without providing some content to the community.

Till you start showing some active participation. Your only friend is the search function.
Fair enough. As I've said I've only started visiting providers, so I've only visited a few, and my review is completely subjective.

Frida-My first provider, I had a great time just exploring her body, and she was very kind and caring. Also very hot. A negative was that she was wearing a very strong smelling body lotion, and it was almost to much for me.

Anastasia-Very fun, hot, and blond all in a taller package with great legs. I had great time and she was great to talk to. Slight downside was that her portfolio hadn't been updated after she had gotten a new tattoo. It was small and unobtrusive enough that I didn't mind though.

Ellie-My best time so far, she was very enjoyable and her long hair was freaking hot. Very polite, and the shower afterwards with her was great.

Aria- Not the best time, but still very enjoyable. Unfortunately she was running late, so our time was cut short, and she was wearing a body lotion that I really didn't like. She was very cute though, and I loved her pale skin and red hair.

Madeline- I had a fun time, and she was great to talk to, both naked and clothed. Very responsive and willing to let me explore her body. A slight downside was that I didn't get my full hour, but I also didn't notice until after I left.
 
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llanus

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Some provider advertise being submissive but you will have to be patient and probably have 2 or 3 sessions before you can start building enough trust. Taller women without tattoos will definitely narrow the field.
 

coalface92

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Some provider advertise being submissive but you will have to be patient and probably have 2 or 3 sessions before you can start building enough trust. Taller women without tattoos will definitely narrow the field.
Ah ok, that makes a lot of sense.

And yeah, taller with no tattoos is a little hard to find.
 

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I think the agencies are pretty professional so in addition to seeking recommendations from reviews and the lads on Perb, I suggest calling/sending emails/texts to the agencies and ask if they have anyone who fits your criteria. Also Tryst is full of independent ladies who provide descriptions of services offered and their personality.
 

coalface92

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I think the agencies are pretty professional so in addition to seeking recommendations from reviews and the lads on Perb, I suggest calling/sending emails/texts to the agencies and ask if they have anyone who fits your criteria. Also Tryst is full of independent ladies who provide descriptions of services offered and their personality.
I will give that a try as well, thank you for the recommendation.
 

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Myself when it comes to the BDSM, I have always been on the receiving end & not the dominant side. But over time gaining huge trust with the lady involved to the point if i did ask to switch. I really dont think it would have been an issue, as i have earned her trust.
I would suggest that you look around, find a BDSM friendly SP that you like, become a regular and earn her trust. Let her know before hand what you would like to do in the future and then gain that trust.
Ask yourself this. Would you let a stranger tie you up ? Get to know her first

The Asian Spa`s. Well i guess i kinda walk in, If i get the urge i just call while walking there, if i dont like what i hear i change direction and call another place. Usually get in within 10/15.
Cheers mate
 
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coalface92

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Myself when it comes to the BDSM, I have always been on the receiving end & not the dominant side. But over time gaining huge trust with the lady involved to the point if i did ask to switch. I really dont think it would have been an issue, as i have earned her trust.
I would suggest that you look around, find a BDSM friendly SP that you like, become a regular and earn her trust. Let her know before hand what you would like to do in the future and then gain that trust.
Ask yourself this. Would you let a stranger tie you up ? Get to know her first
Your point a couple good things; yeah trust is the probably the best way to go, as well as being clear and open. Thank you for the advice.

The Asian Spa`s. Well i guess i kinda walk in, If i get the urge i just call while walking there, if i dont like what i hear i change direction and call another place. Usually get in within 10/15.
Cheers mate
That is a good way to go about it. And you get a walk in, which is a plus.
 

phool

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Keep asking questions on here all you like. If it's in the wrong section they'll move you and some people will be gatekeepers about it but eventually you'll likely get the answers you're looking for.
 

coalface92

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Keep asking questions on here all you like. If it's in the wrong section they'll move you and some people will be gatekeepers about it but eventually you'll likely get the answers you're looking for.
Works for me; I'll hold off asking again in a new thread for a bit though.
 

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Hi I'm new to this community, and have only recent started visiting a few different providers, such as Frida, Anastasia, and Ellie. I've had a pretty great time with each one, and there are a couple I plan to continue seeing. Yet at the same time I am interested in exploring further, such as with BDSM and being in dominate position though, and I was wondering if anyone had recommendations for providers who are open to it? I ask because most descriptions of providers state that they are submissive, but I doubt that. My main criteria is I am not a fan of tattoos, and prefer taller woman.

And for a separate question, the various Asian spa's around Victoria, are they actually just walk in's? And do you just choose from who is available when your there?
Sorry for that unpleasant dude’s response. Yes AMPs are walk in and choose but Amanda with EOS has a rotating lineup of mostly asian women at nice incall location near downtown that you can schedule with. Lots of reviews here under EOS. Amanda is lovely to work with. Transparent and no scamming in my experience. Regarding dom stuff I have no experience but you might check with Vienna Banks on Tryst. She is opposite of your type: Short, short dark hair, and tattooed but she is absolutely lovely in every regard. If nothing else she might have recommendation. Good luck.
 
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coalface92

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Sorry for that unpleasant dude’s response. Yes AMPs are walk in and choose but Amanda with EOS has a rotating lineup of mostly asian women at nice incall location near downtown that you can schedule with. Lots of reviews here under EOS. Amanda is lovely to work with. Transparent and no scamming in my experience. Regarding dom stuff I have no experience but you might check with Vienna Banks on Tryst. She is opposite of your type: Short, short dark hair, and tattooed but she is absolutely lovely in every regard. If nothing else she might have recommendation. Good luck.
Oh its fine, thank you though.

Good to know about AMP's; I just didn't want to show up to a one and try to open the door to discover it was locked/by appointment only. I'll take a look into EOS and Amanda, thank you.

As for Vienna Banks; I looked her up, and she is so close to what I am looking for. And your right, she might have some good recommendations. So thank you again.
 
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phool

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Oh its fine, thank you though.

Good to know about AMP's; I just didn't want to show up to a one and try to open the door to discover it was locked/by appointment only. I'll take a look into EOS and Amanda, thank you.

As for Vienna Banks; I looked her up, and she is so close to what I am looking for. And your right, she might have some good recommendations. So thank you again.
Can co-sign Vienna. She’s one of the best providers on any coast imo
 
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Oh its fine, thank you though.

Good to know about AMP's; I just didn't want to show up to a one and try to open the door to discover it was locked/by appointment only. I'll take a look into EOS and Amanda, thank you.

As for Vienna Banks; I looked her up, and she is so close to what I am looking for. And your right, she might have some good recommendations. So thank you again.
You want to search EoA (5771)on leolist
 
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