How much have you spent this year on SPs?

DV6 · Jan 17, 2026

nan said:
Having seen this topic, I got curious for myself how I spend. Unfortunately I wasn't quite tracking every appointments accurately but started to in late October last year. Initially just jotting down the appointment dates and cost, but then I thought since I like data that I'd track things on a spreadsheet to track not just the dates and cost but also duration, the provider and their ethnicity. With enough the data over time, I'm thinking I can find some trends.

Anyways I thought it's good for me to do this to see if I'm over or under budget. I'm budgeting $5K per year at an average of $300 per visit.

I know a few providers who do the $300 all inclusive visits. Which is great if I can line it up. But they’re next to impossible to book around my work schedule. So I only stick to the agencies now.
It’s a little more costly.
But always worth it.

DV6 · Jan 17, 2026

westwoody said:
A brand new beautiful Snap-On digital torque wrench just landed on my desk. I wanted it for ages and I’m thinking I could have bought a dozen of these for what I wasted on sketchy asians.
2026 will be seeing only two ladies i trust…not taking any chances.

That’s the only way to go about it tbh. Once you find an Sp who knows you well enough to always leave you smiling, it’s hard to want anyone else.
Plus, I won’t let anyone in my home I don’t trust.

jgg · Jan 18, 2026

westwoody said:
A brand new beautiful Snap-On digital torque wrench just landed on my desk.

Post a review.

Austinpowersmojo · Jan 18, 2026

The amount spent on the hobby needs to have some context. For example how much are you spending relative to your income.?Spending 10k on a year on the hobby when you make 50k is way different than if you make 900k

phool · Jan 18, 2026

Austinpowersmojo said:
The amount spent on the hobby needs to have some context. For example how much are you spending relative to your income.?Spending 10k on a year on the hobby when you make 50k is way different than if you make 900k

Maybe people will be comfortable with that, I'm not, but only because I don't think that was the point of OPs question considering he didn't disclose either. It isn't "who spent the most unreasonable % of their income on sex workers this year?", just "what did y'all spend?"

Swordholder · Jan 19, 2026

If someone could solve this problem in a way that could keep up with inflation and sex be affordable to anyone... versus there being the perception of scarcity around sex - that would make them billions or even trillions...

I know of men who actually worked things out around sex where they don't actually want or need it... kind of strange being around them because they are truly free of the needing or having to have sex...looks to me like that would be heaven being "free" of that constant drive to want to get in a woman's pants...such that you could just hang with a beautiful woman not feeling like having to get somewhere with her at all and just be present with her...free from the need to ever have to pay for it up front...

How they got there was really interesting...they had a committed partner but worked through all the jealousy, inadequacy, etc such that they were completely free to have other sexual partners outside of the primary relationship, where they could talk openly and no "emotional charge" until it became as insignificant as talking about the weather and a big whatever... Very ironic to discover that when a man can have sex anytime he wants, it eventually becomes a big insignificant "whatever" and he ends up focusing on other things and loses the desire to want to be with other women... I hope some women are reading this post... It seems like it is almost impossible for a woman to hear this...

An example of this is the movie "Hall Pass" where the wives give their husbands a hall pass and total freedom to go and have sex with whoever they want over a weekend in Ft. Lauderdale at Spring Break...one of the easiest places in the world to get laid and none of the men call pull it off...

I have wanted to explore doing this sort of work with a woman... But super rare to bump into one who actually has this as something she wants to explore and I realized that unless she wanted to do it...it would never happen... what I would be curious to know ..if you gave a woman everything she ever wanted, would she be open to wanting to explore something like this...just an inquiry I had and something I have wondered about (like if that is something that women would like to be free of - free from the constant fear other women coming and taking their guy)

DV6 · Jan 19, 2026

Swordholder said:
If someone could solve this problem in a way that could keep up with inflation and sex be affordable to anyone... versus there being the perception of scarcity around sex - that would make them billions or even trillions...

I know of men who actually worked things out around sex where they don't actually want or need it... kind of strange being around them because they are truly free of the needing or having to have sex...looks to me like that would be heaven being "free" of that constant drive to want to get in a woman's pants...such that you could just hang with a beautiful woman not feeling like having to get somewhere with her at all and just be present with her...free from the need to ever have to pay for it up front...

How they got there was really interesting...they had a committed partner but worked through all the jealousy, inadequacy, etc such that they were completely free to have other sexual partners outside of the primary relationship, where they could talk openly and no "emotional charge" until it became as insignificant as talking about the weather and a big whatever... Very ironic to discover that when a man can have sex anytime he wants, it eventually becomes a big insignificant "whatever" and he ends up focusing on other things and loses the desire to want to be with other women... I hope some women are reading this post... It seems like it is almost impossible for a woman to hear this...

An example of this is the movie "Hall Pass" where the wives give their husbands a hall pass and total freedom to go and have sex with whoever they want over a weekend in Ft. Lauderdale at Spring Break...one of the easiest places in the world to get laid and none of the men call pull it off...

I have wanted to explore doing this sort of work with a woman... But super rare to bump into one who actually has this as something she wants to explore and I realized that unless she wanted to do it...it would never happen... what I would be curious to know ..if you gave a woman everything she ever wanted, would she be open to wanting to explore something like this...just an inquiry I had and something I have wondered about (like if that is something that women would like to be free of - free from the constant fear other women coming and taking their guy)

Good points

Scorpio69 · Monday at 11:15 AM

This reminds me of the joke about the fellow on his deathbed who declares "I spent half my money on wild women, fine whiskey and shady gambling joints. The rest of it I wasted."

justbrowsing1 · Monday at 3:41 PM

Kind of crazy to think.... even if you make 6 entry 6 figs spending a modest 5k is like 5% of your income spent on pooning lol

As long as you don't go into the red. Sometimes I'll go twice a month, sometimes only once. But these guys go on adventure 6 times back to back is insane to me lol. From a cost standpoint.

DV6 · Monday at 3:46 PM

justbrowsing1 said:
Kind of crazy to think.... even if you make 6 entry 6 figs spending a modest 5k is like 5% of your income spent on pooning lol

As long as you don't go into the red. Sometimes I'll go twice a month, sometimes only once. But these guys go on adventure 6 times back to back is insane to me lol. From a cost standpoint.

I use to be like that. And you’re right, it’s a form of insanity to throw away everything you have on someone who would never do the same in return.
But It takes a while to clue into these kinda things when you’re first blinded by the game.

Once you go black · Tuesday at 12:27 AM

DV6 said:
I use to be like that. And you’re right, it’s a form of insanity to throw away everything you have on someone who would never do the same in return.
But It takes a while to clue into these kinda things when you’re first blinded by the game.

Maybey the sex w these particular woman was out of this world . In that case , it’s understandable .

Maybey a handful of times in one lifetime you meet someone who rings your bell on a level unlike most others .
When you first meet such an individual , for a while it can feel a bit like Crack !

erdt80 · Tuesday at 12:45 AM

I go maybe once every 2-3 months. That's what I need to fill up the things I can only find there meter and leave happy until the next time. So, about $800/y ~ . I know it's on the low side, just writing to have others like me know they're not alone

I try to see the same one/place if possible, as the down side is that I have less option to risk a visit, and this site helps a lot with that.

Once you go black · Tuesday at 1:18 AM

erdt80 said:
I go maybe in 2-3 months. That's what I need to fill up the things I can only find there meter and leave happy until the next time. So, about $800/y ~ . I know it's on the low side, just writing to have others like me know they're not alone I try to see the same one/place if possible, as the down side is that I have less option to risk a visit, and this site helps a lot with that.

I seem to average about 8-9 times a yr

westwoody · Tuesday at 8:07 AM

erdt80 said:
I try to see the same one/place if possible, as the down side is that I have less option to risk a visit, and this site helps a lot with that.

Risk mitigation is critical for anyone on a tight budget. Don’t play the field when the scammers are more and more plentiful.

DV6 · Tuesday at 5:35 PM

Once you go black said:
Maybey the sex w these particular woman was out of this world . In that case , it’s understandable .

Maybey a handful of times in one lifetime you meet someone who rings your bell on a level unlike most others .
When you first meet such an individual , for a while it can feel a bit like Crack !

Well, I’ve never been the biggest fan of crack! lol.
But ya, there’s only a few opportunities in life to meet someone who really rocks your world on a level unlike anyone else.
And that was pretty much the case for me.
It was worth every visit & dollar spent.
( I don’t regret it one bit! )
But that’s doesn’t mean I still don’t recognize how delusional it was on my part.😉

oktrythis · Tuesday at 6:05 PM

Really don't want to think about it. Somewhat embarrassing.

But I know I'll just keep going on...

OTT.

Fingus · Wednesday at 2:55 AM

500 dollarydoos, was worth it.

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