Questions about ads on LL and texting etiquette

briddums said:

1. Some SP's will include working hours, eg: 2pm - 10pm. Does that mean they stop working at 10pm? Or do they take their last booking at 10pm, but continue working past that for the length of the last booking?

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It is impossible to tell you what every person does. We all do business differently.

For myself, my phone automatically goes to do not disturb at 11. My schedule on my website says my hours and a little bit more info. If somebody books an appointment for 10 to 2am, I’m happy to do that. Other days I’m off at 6 because I have somewhere to be and I need my place to myself ar 6 to get ready for my evening plans for example.

briddums said:

2. Many ads don't include the hours that the SP works. Is it ok to text and ask what their hours are before making an appointment? Ot should I be doing my standard intro (name, age, race, build, duration), and ask for their hours are as part of that?

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Nobody works the same. So read their ads and follow instructions.

For myself, I like everything to be in one text. Texts or emails with lots of info right off the bat don’t get ignored. I sometimes ignore texts that don’t come off as friendly or don’t include enough info. Also introduce yourself. Hi my name is so and so and I was wondering what your hours are.

For myself I don’t care what your build is or race. I kind of care about age. But mostly I just want sweet nice fun people. Some women might care about completely different stuff than others. But it’s good to just send a complete first introduction even if your hours aren’t compatible.

briddums said:

3. Following up on 2, some ads request we include our desired time & duration. If we don't know their working hours, is it ok to not include a desired time? Or would that be a rejection for not following instructions?

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If an ad requests something, always do your best to follow instructions. But again, we’re all different people with different ways of doing things and different tolerances. I keep a schedule that I try to update daily but for those that don’t, if you’re flexible with dates say that.
Hi my name is so and so, blah blah, I was wondering if you have availability on this day at this time. If that doesn’t work, I’m flexible with my time. What hours and days work for you.

Sometimes people want right now. Others say are you available on this day in October at this time? Nice friendly respectful texts get my attention.

briddums said:

4. Many ads don't list what the provider does. Is it normal to ask what the SP provides? As well as any restrictions they have?

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If she doesn’t describe anything in her ad, it’s totally normal to ask. Politely tho. I have a detailed website and just direct people who ask me anything to my website. I will clarify sometimes through text. But I like people to already know they’re gonna see me before they contact me. Sometimes I don’t answer certain questions. Sometimes I will.

If she doesn’t have any info somewhere, be careful. Come here and make sure she’s reputable. But yes ask away. You’re allowed to know what you’re spending your hard earned cash on before you spend. Always be polite and nice

briddums said:

5. I understand SP's post ads when they're working, and conversely aren't working when their ad isn't up. So I'll go days or weeks not seeing some ads because we're not sync'ing up. If it's been a few months since I've seen a SP's ad, is it ok to send a message asking if they're still working or if they're retired? Only one message, because more than that would be disruptive and creepy.

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People save my number and contact me off a months old ad all the time. My ads are always up. I’ll go weeks without bumping them sometimes but they’re always there. I like to keep them up because people will use the search function and contact me off a 2 week old ad. Gents that search me out are 90% of the time better clients. I’m not hiding from anybody tho.

Number 1 thing to remember is we’re not all the same. We didn’t all go to the same escorting school. We all have our own little quirks. Standard advice I can give tho is always err on more info than not enough. And always be polite

If you don’t want to text a big long text every time you text someone new and you’re single, you can save an introduction in your notes on your phone or computer. Copy and paste, add the new persons name. Hi whoever (persons work name) and then your copy and pasted body.

I am a big fan of copy and paste replies. It saves my sanity and is much quicker to communicate information.