Tbh I do think Japan comes with a bit of a learning curve especially with the language barrier but there are plenty of really incredible experiences to be had. More often than not the service is incredible.
Once you've done some research and know what you're looking for Tokyo is hard to beat. Especially if you have any kinks you want to explore as there's shops that specialize in many things.
I agree with you here especially Cyrano D just randomly jumping onto a thread about someone he clearly has no interest in seeing just to say something about their physical appearance gives them the willies
Well theres more than just that but certainly the majority of talent is still in town and I'm not sure of any providers actually moving out here recently due to the cost of living like the op suggests.