Recent content by only_lurkn

Time and money aren't the problem; but I've accepted that the container isn't going to evolve

Ladies / Gents , I really appreciate the thought provokin comments and feedback. I've learned that both perspectives are valid. But I'm leaning toward the guys being right on this one. From what I've seen with the ladies, it's situational and I respect that. But for me, it's not about...

This is a good point of view, that I appreciate I work with consultants, ive worked in consulting I play SimCity in real life, except the budgets are real and the consequences are slightly more stressful I understand the billable hours spectrum. I've had genuine friendships come out of those...

Thank you for sharing your experience! Ive been at this for about 3 years now. I am strong in terms of supporting whatever dreams the person i am into wants, they want to go back to school am there for them, wants to continue working am there for the roller coaster, i identify in the millenial...

I understand and agree every transaction in life is a barter

Ive never asked or would ask for freebies or discount. I respect that her time nd presence is valuable, the hardships she puts up with. Id never want someone to make my job more difficult than it is,

Thank you; i really appreciate your perspective 🙏 No pressure to respond to this, but I've realized my kink is the mental stimulation of getting to know someone over dinner and longer dates. It makes the build-up to physical intimacy feel more interesting and intimate lol I work with...

Thank you everyone and yes Banged_Up you are right, I'll ask her

I’ve been seeing someone for just over 2 years now, and while the dynamic started as a professional arrangement, there’s been real warmth, affection, and consistency. She’s remembered personal details, been playful, and shown up warmly ; but the structure is still transactional at its core. I...

The fact you are over thinking it shows that it isnt for you If you cant give up your ego to allow a woman to decide and choose for her own, then youve already loss the point You already sound anxiously attached , a secure person understands they are there to support her with w.e she wants...