ManitobaHedonist

*Just a placeholder for the moment, but first off, I'm totally new at this. I'll try not to step on anyone's toes while I learn this dance, but if I do please kindly correct me.*

Secondly, to any esteemed professionals:
I promise the utmost respect. I'm not obsequious, but I will treat you like an equal, no different any other partner, for the entirety of our interaction; before, during, and after. I want a Yes means Yes experience. I'm not after a mechanical service, I'm looking to share passionate experiences, and if I contacted you, it's usually going to be for the expressions of your face and body language, and what I imagine might be behind your eyes. In short, the vibe.

I'm in a long term, committed, open relationship, I get tested regularly when playing outside the yard, and I desire to give everyone I meet my undivided attention and enthusiasm in return for their time, so there will be absolutely zero drama from me.

And thirdly, for some detail about myself.

When We Meet: I'm Gaelic/Hungarian if that matters, a touch over six foot and slender built, with pale skin, freckles, hazel eyes and long, dark auburn hair. Middle aged but could pass for 30-35 with too much sun, with a shy, wry smile.

At Dinner:
The hottest coals come from burning long and slow ahead of time. This is when I get to build the anticipation, finding out what makes my companion laugh, what makes their eyes light up, what makes the breath catch in their throat for a moment.
If you told me my way with words was my most attractive quality I would be flattered. I love to talk deep, and listen, about the details of topics both novel and familiar, and the topics I have a conversational knowledge of run a broad variety. I can have eccentric takes, but my maturity lends itself to a deep kindness and sense of humour, and means I will take my company seriously, giving them my full attention and doing my best to return thoughtful, insightful replies to whatever they wish to share.

In the Evening:
I come in a couple of of flavours, like many providers. I can, if I want to, go full masc, knowing where to place a firm or gentle touch and taking the lead from start to finish. For those willing to indulge me though, I prefer to express my non-binary, transfem self. Different than the usual, you get an eclectic mix; soft and tender, an engaging back and forth between supple compliance and playful, gentle aggression, with an intense, traditional finish. At least, that's the ideal.

I tend to prefer more easygoing, traditional style dates, but I'm familiar with all of the more adventurous options and have a wicked, creative imagination for the right collaborator.

I'm very generous and reciprocal, but I know everyone is different in what they like and from whom, and that goes double in this context. If my partner is willing to help me with what makes the experience most enjoyable for them though, I will do my best to oblige. Sincerely, giving another person pleasure is far more gratifying to me than pleasing myself.

And of course, I make sure to present myself in my cleanest, most presentable condition. Including, usually, nice and smooth all over.

When we Part: You will leave satisfied with the evening, in whichever way is important to you, and if everything has gone well, we will both have very positive memories of one another.

If you're doing a reference check and made it all the way to the bottom, please tell me! It's a great sign of things to come. 😘