Just to be clear on this, im not saying anything bad towards her and have only read positive things this is or was probably a phone issue and just some unfortunate communication problems.
I messaged her trying to make sure I had the right place and still didnt have a response with like a minute to when I was supposed to arrive so figured I was getting ghosted, when this happens I usually put the number on block unfortunately
Literally for over a decade I've periodically text and even met in person at a function but have never pulled the trigger. Always bad timing on my part.