I jerked off to threesome fantasies for decades. Getting to do interactive duos IRL with gorgeous women is not something I thought I could ever pull off until I got comfortable seeing SPs. Bless the women in this hustle!
I've come to be the same way and enjoy the conversations before sex. Very important to sound off vibes and establish boundaries without needing to fire off acronyms. And hey, it's always good to get to know new people no matter how you meet them!
There are countries where review communities can be like that unfortunately, leading to few SPs using them and making navigating the scene sketchy. We're very lucky to have a place like this.