While working out at the gym, I noticed this girl standing right next to me. After talking for a while, I asked her out for dinner this weekend. This was a second time I met a girl at the gym. I am wondering where is the best place to meet a girl for potential date. A bar, grocery store, gym, Sea Wall, club, etc.
The best place to meet a girl
- Thread starter exuberanttoki
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you seriously believe that? take a trip out to surrey to a beer drinking palace and do a survey...
Yeah but then you would have to invest 100 dollars into a ed hardy, affliction, tapout shirt and I would have to act like a complete douchebag that trains strikeforce. And I'll I would end up with is a skank.
yoga mat - $35
yoga lessons - $10/session
evening of beers - $100
skank in surrey - priceless
For all the rest, there's Mastercard
I think the best place to meet a girl is the grocery store. The grocery store is a neutral place. If I go to a bar or club and some guy puts the mack on I will shut him down, where as meeting someone at the grocery store, gym(not so much depends on how dedicated to the gym you both are), restaurant is a lot less forward and you have more in common(food is an amazing starting topic to lead into asking for a dinner date).
What's wrong with a beer drinking man? Chicks dig that way more than yoga bending man-pussies
Personally, I think the best place to meet somebody is while doing something YOU love. It doesn`t matter if it`s running, photography, a book club, the gym, church, volunteering, school, etc.
April is definitely right. The best and most enduring relationships are those which are founded on friendship first. When you meet somebody doing something you both love, you already have one major thing in common. It`s much easier to establish or build a relationship if there are already the makings for a solid foundation.
I would also agree that the best thing to do is always to be open, but never to be actively looking. When we are trying to attract somebody, we aren`t being ourselves. We are the best version of ourselves, (and likely the other party is as well). You can waste months in a relationship which will go nowhere because both parties were pretending to be something they weren`t, and six months down the road when the true colors come through, you realize that you have nothing in common, and don`t actually like the other person for who they really are.
I`m a big believer in just being yourself and being open to the possibility of friendship and relationship. No one can accuse you of being yourself wrong - and it`s amazing how people flock to you when there are no pretenses.
April is definitely right. The best and most enduring relationships are those which are founded on friendship first. When you meet somebody doing something you both love, you already have one major thing in common. It`s much easier to establish or build a relationship if there are already the makings for a solid foundation.
I would also agree that the best thing to do is always to be open, but never to be actively looking. When we are trying to attract somebody, we aren`t being ourselves. We are the best version of ourselves, (and likely the other party is as well). You can waste months in a relationship which will go nowhere because both parties were pretending to be something they weren`t, and six months down the road when the true colors come through, you realize that you have nothing in common, and don`t actually like the other person for who they really are.
I`m a big believer in just being yourself and being open to the possibility of friendship and relationship. No one can accuse you of being yourself wrong - and it`s amazing how people flock to you when there are no pretenses.
I can agree with you dood, who wouldn't want to be a fit manly man in a room full of hot bendy women, but you say you met A woman, as in one?!? Doesn't really sound like it's a boon of social interaction or horny hook ups.
This may sound stupid or desperate, but if you really want to meet a woman and get laid with relatively little effort.....BINGO!!
Seriously, I was a volunteer once at a Bingo hall and got more advances than I could imagine, and it wasn't all old grannies either, lots of horny housewives and single women too.
Mind you I was 20 then and could do a mean Sirsha-asana.
+1 To airport bars. I find air hostesses are down for a bit of "fun" too....
A good place to go are community centers with gyms and mixed gender saunas. Usually people who work out at these place, they often end by going to the pool areas/saunas/steam rooms. You can use biology to your advantage here: excercise increases testosterone levels, release of endorphins, and improves blood flow in people. Subsequently, this makes someone quite horny; maybe two-fold when they're in a hot sauna room with other almost naked adults. Sounds like an ideal place and time to make a move.
A good place to go are community centers with gyms and mixed gender saunas. Usually people who work out at these place, they often end by going to the pool areas/saunas/steam rooms. You can use biology to your advantage here: excercise increases testosterone levels, release of endorphins, and improves blood flow in people. Subsequently, this makes someone quite horny; maybe two-fold when they're in a hot sauna room with other almost naked adults. Sounds like an ideal place and time to make a move
.If it were me hitting on you at the club, you wouldn't shut me down. I got mad game.
I think the best place to meet a girl depends on what kind of girl you are looking for. I've met girls at the clubs, and they are the most fun... some of them have even turned into relationships. I also like hooking up with girls from work.... THat's always been fun, especially since I worked in retail clothing and the restaurant industry when I was younger.
In general though, with the right words you could meet a girl anywhere.
It is true that you can me a girl anywhere, but I think certain places have better opportunity not to get shut down by a girl when you ask her out. When I was living in Washington DC, the best place to meet a girl was the metrorail during commute. There were lots of young people all over the states and the world working in DC commuting through this train system. It was so easy to start conversation with them, and I went out with several girls during that summer when I was there. It was little different environment than skytrain though.
I have never considered Yoga and Bingo as a place to meet a girl, but I like Yoga so I will consider that in the future. My buddy had lots of luck meeting a girl at the grocery store. He usually goes there after work so he dresses in suits and tie hanging out at the produce section asking advice from a girl. He always wears nice cologne so he gets compliment from a girl about his outfit or cologne.
I had a lesbian friend who liked to go to a club quite often. She was the best wingman or wingwoman to have at the club because she was quite attractive and started conversation with girls for me. It was awesome most girls felt very comfortable to hang out with us, and she did the hardest part, striking first conversation with girls. The only problem was that we were sometimes competing for the same girl!!! It was a sad day for me when she moved away with her girlfriend!
I have never considered Yoga and Bingo as a place to meet a girl, but I like Yoga so I will consider that in the future. My buddy had lots of luck meeting a girl at the grocery store. He usually goes there after work so he dresses in suits and tie hanging out at the produce section asking advice from a girl. He always wears nice cologne so he gets compliment from a girl about his outfit or cologne.
I had a lesbian friend who liked to go to a club quite often. She was the best wingman or wingwoman to have at the club because she was quite attractive and started conversation with girls for me. It was awesome most girls felt very comfortable to hang out with us, and she did the hardest part, striking first conversation with girls. The only problem was that we were sometimes competing for the same girl!!! It was a sad day for me when she moved away with her girlfriend!
I agree with Lady Companion 100%. I wouldn't WANT to meet a woman at a bar, because I would end up with someone who likes to go to bars and drink (I may drop in for a beer about once a year).
When it comes to one of the best cities to meet a girl, I'd go for Boston over LA, Miami, or Vegas. Truly Ivy League. Harvard, BC, MIT, etc. Beauty and Brains
Yeah definetly. Gym = sex appeal and sex drive up.
Maybe you should dress like this then. Girls love this guy for some reason; must be the pink tassels
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you think so eh! quite confident of your abilities... but i guess having met you already.... i might agreeIf it were me hitting on you at the club, you wouldn't shut me down. I got mad game.
Reminds me of my second and last try at Bikram (hot yoga for sub masochists)..guy beside me dressed only in underwear standing on an old beach towel and in front of me, Mr. Gandhi Kitsilano sloshing around in a wading pool of his own sweat which like water torture would drip on my mat when he extended his limbs..and the stench..i was ready to do corpse pose and fetal position before class even started.
Home Depot hawter.
Home Depot hawter.
My friend walks his dog at the park frequently. He has an English bulldog, and girls love his dog. The best wingman?
