guys don't make the mistakes i did,

[sevenofnine]

i got over my head emotionally with a lady, though that was the last thing i wanted was any emotional attachments.


i felt loyal to her, maybe even loved her, i thought it was very special what we had between us.
as it turned out she had or has maybe three or four guys in love with her perhaps all at the same time, for sure recently.
to top it off she wasn't even filling my needs in an physical sense,
i even spelled it out for her what i needed, she wouldn't give it to me.

i had a session with another lady tonight actually,nice in a physical sense. in this hobby that lady is the best i know
and i was worried, because im older and at times, i have just felt nothing no libido, what ever the fuck they call it, i almost cancelled becuase i just didn't feel like it.
two shots on goal, and i didn't think i was up for anything,
and it wasn't me,

i give all credit to the lady, not me,

guys, there are lots of ladies out there,
it it doesn't feel right move on, if she is not pleasing you tell her what you want, and if it still doesn't work move on,

and as far as emotions are concerned, its nice if you can connect with a lady, have fun and laugh,
but unless she is refusing to take your money its not real.

 

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[sevenofnine]

i really don't get that attitude,
im done crying,
im just trying to help guys out,
when i started this i was pretty nervous, not alot of varied sexual experiance,
maybe i wish some one would have told me, the lady i was falling for, has three other guys at the present moment who were in love with her as well
one of them even attempted sucide,

maybe it would have made a difference, maybe not

i have moved on, seeing another lady quite happy, a fantastic women.

but i know there are guys out there that are crazy in love with an sp, or feel they could be getting there, maybe the same sp,

guys there is alot of fucking heartbreak out there, ruined lives and marriages.
i was luckey i moved on, it only costed me a few bucks on some wasted sessions.


and ladies i know your hearts have been broken as well, a few ladies have told me they have fallen for clients, and it was a mistake,

i know guys are struggling out there with emotions, feelings for there sp,
maybe some of them are like me, new confused, thought it was special i was the only one.

take it for what its worth i guess.
if you want to tell me to go fuck myself, fine,
like i haven't heard that before,

 

[blazejowski]

That was harsh!
I loved it!

 

[schizo_man]

holy, buddy you need some help.

 

[FortunateOne]

In the truest sense of the word, escorts are not girlfriends/SOs. They offer what they offer at the fees they charge, and pressuring them for more than that will get you shown to the door lol. If they want pressure or to get guilted for not providing a sexual favour, they'll get married.

It is what it is. Trying to project romantic feelings onto any woman (or anyone for that matter) that are not or will not be reciprocated is your problem, not theirs.

 

[itooam1]

In the truest sense of the word, escorts are not girlfriends/SOs. They offer what they offer at the fees they charge, and pressuring them for more than that will get you shown to the door lol. If they want pressure or to get guilted for not providing a sexual favour, they'll get married.

It is what it is. Trying to project romantic feelings onto any woman (or anyone for that matter) that are not or will not be reciprocated is your problem, not theirs.

FO....your job doesnt define you ,your actions do! Women are women no matter what there job is everyone needs love (not just sex).As far as projecting goes i am pretty sure all us men have done it one time or another(just in different ways)like how much of a slut she is, secretary,fantasy is part of the sexual experience.......now believing your own imagination is another thing all together.

 

[simpeplan]

lol

She just not in to you

 

[namssa]

i really don't get that attitude,
im done crying,
im just trying to help guys out,

If you seriously want to help out....learn about sentance structure and paragraphs.
On the mental/emotional part, maybe get a dog from the SPCA and take him for walks or whatever till you get your head screwed on straight.

Blah, blah, blah, blah........yada, yada, yada...........

 

[deslicher]

If you seriously want to help out....learn about sentance structure and paragraphs.
On the mental/emotional part, maybe get a dog from the SPCA and take him for walks or whatever till you get your head screwed on straight.

Blah, blah, blah, blah........yada, yada, yada...........

LMAO....well that didn't take long.

I feel bad for this man and yes he needs some assistance. I could say more but I don't want that responsibility. Just keep in mind he was like this on the other board as well, so try not to waste your energy too much. Afterall, he could be sitting back laughing at all the attention he is getting....who knows.

 

[FunSugarDaddy]

This is certainly more common

than is being acknowledge here, either that or most people here are relatively new to this site.

Hell I recall a certain SP I got to know quite well who had damn near every 2nd client she met fall in love with her. It was a real problem. Most of it had to do with perception and boundaries, both hers and the clients.

And having see the same girl for almost 3 years, I've been part way down that path myself.

Don't know if he needs any counselling other than to realize that if one can't deal with what it is and realize there's boundaries, it's best not to partake in this activity.

 

[deslicher]

than is being acknowledge here, either that or most people here are relatively new to this site.

Hell I recall a certain SP I got to know quite well who had damn near every 2nd client she met fall in love with her. It was a real problem. Most of it had to do with perception and boundaries, both hers and the clients.

And having see the same girl for almost 3 years, I've been part way down that path myself.

Don't know if he needs any counselling other than to realize that if one can't deal with what it is and realize there's boundaries, it's best not to partake in this activity.

Well they are trying to make money, they are escorts. Some will perhaps target the unusually affluent and get them to have feelings. Not only does it make her feel powerful, it's a regular friggin paycheck for her. Obviously there is a higher % of women who are in this line of work that have issues of their own.

I just realized the 1st part of my paragraph includes a high % of women who aren't escorts either.....fuck I'm depressed.

 

[booblover]

hey guys, leave those emotions in the trunk of your cars along with your wallets when visiting SP's.....

 

[blazejowski]

hey guys, leave those emotions in the trunk of your cars along with your wallets when visiting SP's.....

Very wise words... it's never about emotion for me, it's about sex - if I wanted to have sex and emotion be tied in together, I'd be a woman...

 

[Rotcod]

Granted, its nice to have an emotional connection with a select few ladies, but I agree, when I go see a lady its to get mine, (and hopefully her) rocks off.

 

[HeMadeMeDoIt]

Didn't you say this same bullshit on nother thread? Grow a fucking pair you whiny pussy. You sound like a real douche fucking hos then falling for them and whining about it on a board.

That and while you're at it learn how to fucking type your posts give me a headache to read and that not only because of their stupid content.

 

[namssa]

Didn't you say this same bullshit on nother thread? Grow a fucking pair you whiny pussy. You sound like a real douche fucking hos then falling for them and whining about it on a board.

That and while you're at it learn how to fucking type your posts give me a headache to read and that not only because of their stupid content.

At least he has a different name on the new board, but the typing skills or lack of is the same.

Quick, pull your head out buddy!!

Shades of trintrin.......

Connection with an SP is fine, but I feel it is the guy's responsibility to ensure that there is a clear break and not get into a personal relationship with the SP he is seeing.

HeMadeMeDoIt, I concur with your remarks, lol. That is kind of how I would tell my friend....if he was fucking up big time.

 

[sevenofnine]

its rather interesting,
that people resort to mudslinging,


and they think i need a counsellor,
and no one really gives a shit about some poor slob attempting sucide,

and lives being ruined,

i wonder who needs the counsellor,

but oh well,

 

[schizo_man]

what's interesting is that you are a massive cry for help, but you choose to come to a pooners board for that help instead of going where you should.

 

[trackstar]

Didn't you say this same bullshit on nother thread? Grow a fucking pair you whiny pussy. You sound like a real douche fucking hos then falling for them and whining about it on a board.

That and while you're at it learn how to fucking type your posts give me a headache to read and that not only because of their stupid content.

Absofuckinlutely