Are sales calls to pooners acceptable for an SP?

[miss meiko]

You're on the right track. You go girl.



See, that is the difference between you and I, crazy girl. I say what I think every post I make. I'd be posting the exact same thing whether I was still working or retired. That is the difference. No games, it is what it is. I'm sorry you have felt like you had to hide your true feelings and true self all this time -- THAT, perhaps is what causes you to be as jaded as you sound. But miss meiko, don't kid yourself. The only person to blame for that is YOU. Not the business, not the men, not anything else but YOU for making the choices you made eventhough it's clear you had serious issues about a lot of it and now end up resentful and bitter about a lot.

It's you that is to blame. Not anyone else.





I'm glad I could do that for you. Believe it or not, I'm not trying to be harsh or a bitch... I'm just saying what I think and exactly what is on my mind. No games, not detours. That is what I choose.


cheers.

Don't you wish you were me?
Too bad...you still have to fuck ugly, fat people for money huh?

 

[belair]

we wish you weren't like you

Don't you wish you were me?
Too bad...you still have to fuck ugly, fat people for money huh?

Ugly is as ugly does; introducing miss meiko.

 

[maxx50]

Know one know who you are?

It is funny how we think that know one knows who we are .. there is not a ponner here that does not have his name in some ones black book , let a lone on the secret list that only the escorts have access to. Perb is not the only place that escort talk . they have there own little forum where there talk about the clients. the good and the bad.
For Meko or any other girl to have client names and addresses is only commen since. It is not necessarily for blackmail . but for protection . when they are done with this business. and want to live a normal life..Know one want someone from the past trying to screw up their life.
The one thing that i wish all girls would do .. is always notify someone as to who they are are seeing. you need to be safe . and keeping names and numbers can help... We may be the nicer side of the business , but it still can be very risky..especially when the other side wonder's over here.
Be safe and do what you have to to stay that way.

 

[miss meiko]

the real miss meiko is coming out and you my dear are turning uglier than any man on this board.

Oh, I'm not worried about that. I actually like the idea of being able to say what I wanted to say. Very rarely I can do it in real life. Letting my shadow come out here is better than anywhere else...

 

[threepeat]

Back to the original question:

I love booty calls from SPs. Even if I have to bring my wallet.

 

[miss meiko]

It is funny how we think that know one knows who we are .. there is not a ponner here that does not have his name in some ones black book , let a lone on the secret list that only the escorts have access to. Perb is not the only place that escort talk . they have there own little forum where there talk about the clients. the good and the bad.
For Meko or any other girl to have client names and addresses is only commen since. It is not necessarily for blackmail . but for protection . when they are done with this business. and want to live a normal life..Know one want someone from the past trying to screw up their life.
The one thing that i wish all girls would do .. is always notify someone as to who they are are seeing. you need to be safe . and keeping names and numbers can help... We may be the nicer side of the business , but it still can be very risky..especially when the other side wonder's over here.
Be safe and do what you have to to stay that way.

It is not funny maxx, some people actually surprise to know that?

 

[sinfulsydnee]

we all have our own way of doing business

I've been wondering about emails...



Your thoughts?

Do the same rules that apply to phone numbers and phone calls also apply to email?
Is it inappropriate to email the way I have been with information and dates for my visits?
Or is it acceptable?

I send out an email newsletter periodically...if someone wants to be removed from that list, I always remove them...I don't think there is anything wrong with this unless a client has specifically asked not to receive email from me...I also send clients thank you notes bi email (or sometimes PM) after an appointment...the newsletters are a marketing tool but they are also an opportunity for clients to find out about upcoming tours, promotions, events and new colleagues who are working with me...the thank yous are just that - thank yous for choosing to spend time (and money) with me - there are a whole lot of choices for a pooner so when one chooses me I want to show my appreciation...I also like to send out birthday ecards if I have that info...

as for phone numbers - I simply will not book an appointment without a confirmed name and phone number - that is for my personal safety and if a potential client doesn't want to provide that I simply will not see him...

addendum

I would never consider calling a client bi phone without his express permission and even then it is within a timeframe i.e. to confirm a booking or address...discretion is assured to my clients as well as expected from them...this is a very insightful thread btw...

 

[curvy_nympho]

Wow. I find this thread very frightening. Maybe I am too naive, but I wouldn't dream of keeping a "log" book. I wouldn't contact a client via email unless I had permission or an understanding (as I do with some long time clients).

I think an e-mail marketing tool is a great idea, but only if the clients are asked for permission in advance.

Discretion is what this business is about.

Bella

 

[Booger]

I saw a gal a couple of times a number of years ago who took to calling me consistently on my cellphone but it was never to get together to hook up.

I got calls from her wanting:

1. my signature on her passport application;
2. a reference for a job (no, it wasn't a blow job)
3. to marry me
4. to threaten to turn me into the cops because she was underage and because I didn't take to well to requests 1, 2, or 3; and the ultimate/
5. to get me to stop her from killing herself. She left a vm for that one as I was in a meeting and did not have my phone with me.

Haven't heard from her since. It was a freaky experience and not at all appreciated. If I call you, you do not have the right to call me without my permission ladies, I'm sorry.

 

[LittleAsianGuy]

There's this place which this guy was running and he had binoculars with him. As im waiting for the gal to get ready i asked if those where needed. This guy told me it's necessary to keep track of the clients license plates just incase something goes wrong. Glad im usually taking the skytrain and this sob has nothing on me.

 

[miss meiko]

Has anyone of you been on Jerry Springer???

Am I good or what?
I have been entertaining people for a few hours now and I did it for free. Darn!

 

[Fullhouse]

Quite the war of words

Tantelizeme, allow me to start by stating that you have a envied, uncanny aptitude of creating intelligent, interesting and controversial posts on this board, -- in the form of a personal question.

Recently you asked: "How much to offer an SP for a sleep over" - which generated 56 replies so far. They ranged from good to bad, smart to dumb, interesting to boring, nice to rude and everything in between. Regardless, a lot of opinions and interests were displayed. Great Topic.

Now you've come up with another gem: "Are sales calls to pooners acceptable for an SP.??" Already there are about 70 replies, with the same range of variety as mentioned above, plus the addition of some absolute useless ranting and raving - and way off the topic. Another great topic.
(For now, I'll just give my opinion on the original topic)

Here is my personal opinion, but to relate to my answer, it should be mentioned that I have no SO. Only I read my e-mails, and answer my land line or cell phone or answering machines.

I have been pooning for a few years, have seen many of the higher class ladies in Vancouver. I do have to 2 ladies that I consider to be my favorites and have many repeats with them, even though sometimes the excitement of variety gets the best of me.

I would have no objection of receiving a "sales call" from one of my favorites once in a while.

I am sure that if their "sales skills" boost my male ego by telling me that they would like to see me, enjoy my company and my sexual abilities, humor, smiles and cuddling, I would accept with glee, and immediately turn on my flashing porch light for ease of locating my place.(I know I'm only dreaming)

Many of the SPs are quite skilled at using various sales techniques, and like most sales people, the ones with good skills in sales and service are quite successful. Sales skills such as sexy, charming phone voice, professional and alluring advertising or web sites, up selling, touched up pictures, listing all additional services available with the main course, discounts and specials, etc., etc., etc. ------ and a lot of these ladies have greater earning power than most of the high end sales pros, and good for them. (What would we do without them???)

Of course there are many, many instances where a sales call would be strictly taboo. I think a bit of self-serving preventive maintenance during the first initial contact with a SP could solve any uncomfortable phone call or e-mail.
Just advise her that you can't receive messages from her on certain phone numbers or e-mail, but do give a number where you can be reached safe - even if it's only during a few restricted hours. I think most SPs would accept that.

 

[SexyBoy]

I've been wondering about emails...

Example - Every time I am planning to go to Calgary or Edmonton, I usually try to email gentlemen I've seen on previous visits or gentlemen who've themselves contacted me in the past, either requesting information on my next visit, requesting that I keep them informed or requests for appointments I was not able to meet during my previous visit. I don't go all out and spam everyone every single time I visit, I'll do some random and some from the list of emails I have from my previous visit or after.
I've always assumed that:
1) if you emailed me from any given account, it's sort of agreed that it's a safe email and I can write (within reason)
2) you've created some type of hotmail/yahoo account if your personal account is shared or not safe.

Now, I've never had any problems with this until this past visit. By the way, I don't write explicit messages.. I basically reply to the last email I have and politely advise the gentleman that I'll be visiting soon from such that to such date. Usually, this is how regulars know I'll be around and they know to book.. everyone's usually happy as it gives them a chance to book before everyone else and so on..

But this past visit, I emailed a gentleman this way.. I had 2 separate emails from my past 2 visits with multiple messages (back and forth) but we still had not met because of being unable to find times that worked for both of us. So I assumed he would appreciate the gesture and thought.. but instead got a reply in which he seemed slightly freaked out. His reply was: this email was from Dec.01 (2 weeks before - and during my previous visit), I'm not interested, please remove me from your list.

I was a little surprised and kinda thought WTF? It was a home email account so I can only assume it was not a safe one (I guess?? ) and it freaked him out to receive an email from me..I guess. OK fair enough. But why the hell would someone use their home email account if it isn't safe?? Anyway, I felt kinda bad but didn't feel like I did anything wrong.

Btw - The guy actually ended up emailing me a few days later requesting an appointment!! I did as I was asked...... I did NOT reply.




Your thoughts?

Do the same rules that apply to phone numbers and phone calls also apply to email?
Is it inappropriate to email the way I have been with information and dates for my visits?
Or is it acceptable?

I use a email and cell phone both can be used by a SP to contact me. Only when I am comfortable I tell a SP more about myself real name etc.

I am not happy when a SP keeps asking me what I do for a living. This especially happens if I am wearing a suit etc. That is just something I do not wish to discuss unless I get to know her and trust her.

 

[smackyo]

Yeah, I remember that. I got banned there and here too, for a week or so. I think. I still have the book and keep it in my box in the bank, just in case.

I met someone from the biz that trained me really well. She used to work with her husband. They told me how to find out people's real name by having someone following them, of course without their knowing to their cars and write down their car's plat numbers...
She also did teach me to have a camera and do some little things to protect myself...and it worked. Well, escorting business is a different kind of business...

anybody how comes into to contact with this women should turn and walk the other way immediately. this woman is nuttier then mr. peanuts stool sample for his 2006 physical.

there is protecting yourself like having a friend nearby or letting someone know to check in on you at a certain time or things of that matter, then there is your psycho shit. threatening to out someone for a bad review and thats really all it was, is totally not acceptable. but hell hath no fury then a woman scorned so if you were going to out anyone i can understand it being the man, but to out that persons favourite sp for no other reason then she is his favourite and you want to hurt him is unforgivable.

i think a life time ban for you is more then charitable given your past actions and the fact that you have nothing but contempt for men.

also please be a little more original in your comeback then to flaunt your jet setting lifestyle in my face and saying "don't you wish you were me?" cause no, i don't.

you are a dangerous woman.

 

[SexyBoy]

that thinks miss Meiko sounds sort of hot? haha besides all the craziness...her bitchiness is kind of a turn on

HUH?

She is bitter and most bitter women I know are butt ugly or they are awful at sex. She got out of the bus why? No one wanted to see her anymore.

 

[SexyBoy]

I think Miss Meiko and Ma1234 are the same person!

Please someone tell me I am right

 

[SexyBoy]

black mail is a dangerous and stupid game.

I say go for it black mail everyone in your book. See what happens.

 

[Fullhouse]

Miss Meiko - take a Heiko - like, get lost

Wow, this has turned into quite the thread.

Tantalizeme has the aptitude to come up with these unique topics, but I'm sure even he must be amazed at how many replies have been received, and I'm sure there are many more to come.

I don't usually get involved or get between cat fights such as are displayed in many of the above posts. Some of the ladies sound quite intelligent, informative and helpful, while a couple come across to me (and that's just my opinion) as if they are writing for an entry exam for enrollment to the local physic ward. One lady - and I use that word lightly - seems to come out as the most qualified candidate for that ward.

Miss Meiko

I may regret at a later date to make the following comments. My handle (Gentl-man) really depicts my character, attitude and behavior towards ladies, any ladies. Bashing or insulting a member of the opposite sex is not my normal forte, but your ignorant, insulting and self serving comments really piss me off.

Miss Meiko, even though you have been around for some time, I don't know you, we have never spoken, and I have never met you.

I really enjoy this hobby of pooning, and I always search to meet very high class, gorgeous, intelligent and well reviewed ladies. And I guess the reason I never met you or found you in my searches is that your name never came up under "classy", "gorgeous", "intelligent" and "well reviewed", and by judging your comments, I can see why.

I can't believe some of the despicable habits and methods you practiced while imitating a professional escort. And what is even more amazing is that you come on here and brag about them. Boy, if that doesn't reek of stupidity, I don't know what does.

There isn't enough room or time to repeat all the idiotic comments you made, and nobody really wants to read them again, but I will touch on a couple.

Starting and keeping that black book with all your (you want us to believe) millionaires phone numbers, addresses, personal info including career and family reeks of possible blackmail, not protection.

Writing threatening e-mails or posts to some former client or competing SP is inexcusable

Having some guy write down clients license numbers so you can get more personal information on them really sucks, and may not be as safe as you think it is. Some client noticing that his lic. # is being written down while visiting a SP may get really pissed off and may do something that wouldn't enhance the facial features of said "spy". - or even yours.

If that's your idea of running a professional, service oriented business, I sincerely hope that our local ladies don't follow your "mental midget" advice, and don't incorporate those disgusting practices into their business.

Miss Meiko, I understand that you are now out of the escorting and spying business. and sincerely hope that black mail is not your next venture.

I think most of us would enjoy a sigh of relieve if you disappeared as quick as a lot of your clients must have!!!!!!!!!

 

[Miss*Bijou]

Don't you wish you were me?

Yes, it is my greatest wish to be a bitter, vengeful, miserable retired sp.
Please let me have your life and let me be just like you, miss meiko.
You just seem so happy, I'm dying to know what it feels like to fake it every day of my life so I can let it all build up into anger.

Please miss meiko...

 

[tantalizeme]

Ah, lots of food for thought for his roaming wolf

Three things have become clear to me from this thread:

1. Pooners' attitudes toward the idea of being contacted by an SP vary widely—ranging from those who say “NO NO NO” to those who “love booty calls from SPs.”

2. SPs also vary widely in their business styles, ranging from those who find contacting clients “tacky” to those who take steps to keep in touch with satisfied, well-behaved clients.

Based on the comments made by quite a few pooners, my impression is that gentle reminders to make repeat visits may actually translate into serious cash for some SPs—especially if those reminders are couched in words flattering to a pooner's ego.

There seems to be wide consensus that the least objectionable way for SPs to drum up repeat business is by first requesting a client’s permission to "stay in touch with a great guy like you" via an occasional phone call or e-mail. Making this request calls for courage and tact, and ideally a bit of humor and vulnerability. A provider certainly has the right to ask—just as a client has the right to say no.

3. SPs differ greatly in their desire to snoop into a pooner’s personal background—for the sake of safety, or just curiosity, or more sinister motives. Most pooners’ fierce resentment of SPs that admit to snooping comes as no surprise.

But why such vehement acrimony among allegedly non-snooping providers toward a retired SP who admittedly snooped?

I agree, it's the height of nastiness for an SP to threaten to out a pooner or other provider in retaliation for a critical review. Yet, in spite of this disturbing lapse of judgment in the past, I often find Miss Meiko's sincere perspective to make for provocative, entertaining reading.

I can certainly identify with her defiance of majority opinion. And somehow I don’t visualize her as a bitter washed-up psycho-freak, but as a wickedly feisty ex-SP who hasn’t completely lost her spark of attractiveness, likes to reminisce about her adventurous past, and has probably invested her loot wisely in real estate while putting her Asian background and language skills to profitable use in some business capacity.