Unfortunately this evening I got one of those phone calls. I had set up an appt with someone for tomorrow afternoon, and apparently their wife was able to read the email and called me tonight. She was quite obviously upset, and asked me a bunch of questions, to which I kept answering "I'm sorry, I can't answer that." I really hate being put into this position. I know most of you guys on here are pros at this and I doubt this guy was from on here, but please please please make sure you email me from an email acct that your SOs don't know about and don't have access to. Not sure what else to say...
Guys - Please be discrete
- Thread starter Elise
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Elle,
Is that why you removed your ad from EC?
anyhow, there are so many ways to get busted; I guess thats what makes it so much fun!
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The initial inquiry : EMAIL
(1) The cookies, and auto log in functions on some web based email sites are just pure evil;
- Del Cookies/Files and clear history :
(2) Outlook Express / Outlook just logs you in without requesting no information!
- Set OE/O to require you to log in manually, and delete all emails in trash upon exiting :
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The confirmation : PHONE
Gotta love cell phones, which keep track of calls you make out, and calls you receive, ahhh and then the phone bill which shows you who you've called
- Delete all incoming / outgoing call history
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The day itself : Good times, definitely good times!
(1) Finding a excuse to step outside of the house;
- Dont' use the same excuse too many times in a row
(2) Going into a HOTEL/MOTEL or entering a residence
- This is a tough one; if you're seen going into a hotel/motel you're pretty much busted.
And just when you thought it was safe, and you made it home safely, when you notice traces of lipstick on your clothes, and you smell like women's perfume.
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The closest I've been to getting caught was being seen in an neighbourhood I don't normally venture into to...She was running late, and I had to wait outside for her; when she finally arrived she gave me a big hug, natural thing to do but on second thought it was dumb as shit, considering we were outside in front of the appartment still lol!
Is that why you removed your ad from EC?
anyhow, there are so many ways to get busted; I guess thats what makes it so much fun!
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The initial inquiry : EMAIL
(1) The cookies, and auto log in functions on some web based email sites are just pure evil;
- Del Cookies/Files and clear history
:(2) Outlook Express / Outlook just logs you in without requesting no information!
- Set OE/O to require you to log in manually, and delete all emails in trash upon exiting :
*******************************************************
The confirmation : PHONE
Gotta love cell phones, which keep track of calls you make out, and calls you receive, ahhh and then the phone bill which shows you who you've called
- Delete all incoming / outgoing call history
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The day itself : Good times, definitely good times!
(1) Finding a excuse to step outside of the house;
- Dont' use the same excuse too many times in a row
(2) Going into a HOTEL/MOTEL or entering a residence
- This is a tough one; if you're seen going into a hotel/motel you're pretty much busted.
And just when you thought it was safe, and you made it home safely, when you notice traces of lipstick on your clothes, and you smell like women's perfume.
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The closest I've been to getting caught was being seen in an neighbourhood I don't normally venture into to...She was running late, and I had to wait outside for her; when she finally arrived she gave me a big hug, natural thing to do but on second thought it was dumb as shit, considering we were outside in front of the appartment still lol!
Hope her
husband has the cast iron frying pans locked up when he is sleeping. Course then there is the guy I worked with who after an arguement with his wife woke up when his wife started the pull process of waxing his beard. This just goes to prove another pooners quote that "if it flys, foats or fucks you are better off renting". After reading this thread, I'm glad I'm a renter.
husband has the cast iron frying pans locked up when he is sleeping. Course then there is the guy I worked with who after an arguement with his wife woke up when his wife started the pull process of waxing his beard. This just goes to prove another pooners quote that "if it flys, foats or fucks you are better off renting". After reading this thread, I'm glad I'm a renter.
No, I was just lazy about getting my butt out the door to drop a money order in the mail to renew it this month LOL. So it expired. I sent one off today so it should be back up shortly. =)Elle,
Is that why you removed your ad from EC?
Maybe that was lucky for me that its down at the moment.
This guy actually used his isp issued email addy, not hotmail, gmail or yahoo like most of you guys use.anyhow, there are so many ways to get busted; I guess thats what makes it so much fun!
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The initial inquiry : EMAIL
(1) The cookies, and auto log in functions on some web based email sites are just pure evil;
- Del Cookies/Files and clear history
(2) Outlook Express / Outlook just logs you in without requesting no information!
- Set OE/O to require you to log in manually, and delete all emails in trash upon exiting :
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I met a women on AFF about a month ago, who told me she was looking to find herself a boy toy because her husband is a on perb and checks on escorts canada on a regular basis. The funny thing is she a very nice looking lady for her age, and seems to have a very high sex drive.
There's two ways of looking at this.
1)I guess the guy had nothing to hide.He wants a new playmate and wifey not giving some lovin'skills so be it.That's why we're here for SEX.
I heard one story on how a marriage couple just stopped having fun and the man would seek other women and doing it,while she was in the house hearing the moans of pleasure,while wifey cried her eyes out.
The alternative way is get a seperate e-mail account. He must have shared the home e-account with his wife.So wifey just opens up and checks out the details and possible link.l
Now she won't trust him anymore,will be tailed on a short leash.Depending who wears the pants in the house.If couple have kids,it's a dark cloud for 18years.
I met another couple which the guy met a young hottie ,just a kiss.The guy felt guilty and told his loved wifey very much.So no divorce,just he had to sleep on the couch for a few weeks and no SEX either.
Plus the married couple shared an e-account.But he was a sneaky guy with multiplies e-handles.
'That's the way to do it,and chicks for free'---Dire Straits.
1)I guess the guy had nothing to hide.He wants a new playmate and wifey not giving some lovin'skills so be it.That's why we're here for SEX.
I heard one story on how a marriage couple just stopped having fun and the man would seek other women and doing it,while she was in the house hearing the moans of pleasure,while wifey cried her eyes out.
The alternative way is get a seperate e-mail account. He must have shared the home e-account with his wife.So wifey just opens up and checks out the details and possible link.l
Now she won't trust him anymore,will be tailed on a short leash.Depending who wears the pants in the house.If couple have kids,it's a dark cloud for 18years.
I met another couple which the guy met a young hottie ,just a kiss.The guy felt guilty and told his loved wifey very much.So no divorce,just he had to sleep on the couch for a few weeks and no SEX either.
Plus the married couple shared an e-account.But he was a sneaky guy with multiplies e-handles.
'That's the way to do it,and chicks for free'---Dire Straits.
That's absolutely right, but some guys are just plain dumb. The other thing pooners should do is download a "washer" like Ccleaner, and clean their computer every time they log off. These programs remove all easily found traces of internet history. Also, never use a "remember me" or "remember my password" feature for any web sites you don't want someone else to know you've been on.
http://www.ccleaner.com/
Is it really that tough?
Get a hot mail account, or a Perb handle
When you're done using the computer:
1) Delete cookies
2) Delete files
3) Delete history
This not only covers your tracks (I hear a true computer geek could still track some of it) but it clears off those nasty tracking cookies which make your machine run slow.
Works for me
Get a hot mail account, or a Perb handleWhen you're done using the computer:
1) Delete cookies
2) Delete files
3) Delete history
This not only covers your tracks (I hear a true computer geek could still track some of it) but it clears off those nasty tracking cookies which make your machine run slow.
Works for me
That's awfully mean
, wouldn't be too hard for her lawyers to just destroy him in court...emotional/mental distress etc..etc...Actually...
There are two checkmarks when you go too www.hotmail.com
remember my username & password ; that automatically logs you in. Another person doesn't necessarily need to have your Username & Password they just need you forget to cover your tracks or be clumsy, and step away from the computer temporarily.
So say you don't have that checked? oh okay...
Hotmail is usually attached to msn messenger, and if you're logged into messenger all you have to do is click on the little mail icon and it automatically logs you in through messenger,
(1) Don't log into messenger
(2) There is also an option in messenger that you can check that requires you enter a pword.
I guess he won't be taking that appointment *cough* pencil me in as a replacement
*cough*I'm just kidding...
Everytime you have in-call, I find myself at work...hmmm oh well one day I guess the stars and planets will align
one step further
if you do happen to phone from home..... if wifey not around make sure you clean call history or stored redail if you have call display feature....even if you don't and you use *67 ...after you hang up then go back on the line and hit any single diget. That way if she does come home, and she is seeing what you were up to and hits redial you don't get nabbed. Trust me this has happened.!
if you do happen to phone from home..... if wifey not around make sure you clean call history or stored redail if you have call display feature....even if you don't and you use *67 ...after you hang up then go back on the line and hit any single diget. That way if she does come home, and she is seeing what you were up to and hits redial you don't get nabbed. Trust me this has happened.!
what if ???
ok so the poor fellow gets busted...first of all - i truly feel for the sp who has to deal with the fallout phone call...what an awful thing to have to go through...
so, if the husband uses this as an opportunity to communicate his needs/desires with his wife - perhaps they could come to an understanding...if its a money issue, then she gets the equivalent amount out of the budget for her own discretionary use...if its a sex thing, then she should have that same option as well...ultimately, the gentleman is using an sp because he doesn't want to have an affair/relationship outside of his marriage - this could be the best thing for their relationship as it opens all kinds of doors and challenges the couple to face whatever it is they are lacking...
ok...i know...but hey, i'm an eternal optimist
ok so the poor fellow gets busted...first of all - i truly feel for the sp who has to deal with the fallout phone call...what an awful thing to have to go through...
so, if the husband uses this as an opportunity to communicate his needs/desires with his wife - perhaps they could come to an understanding...if its a money issue, then she gets the equivalent amount out of the budget for her own discretionary use...if its a sex thing, then she should have that same option as well...ultimately, the gentleman is using an sp because he doesn't want to have an affair/relationship outside of his marriage - this could be the best thing for their relationship as it opens all kinds of doors and challenges the couple to face whatever it is they are lacking...
ok...i know...but hey, i'm an eternal optimist
BRAVO,BRAVO...ok so the poor fellow gets busted...first of all - i truly feel for the sp who has to deal with the fallout phone call...what an awful thing to have to go through...
so, if the husband uses this as an opportunity to communicate his needs/desires with his wife - perhaps they could come to an understanding...if its a money issue, then she gets the equivalent amount out of the budget for her own discretionary use...if its a sex thing, then she should have that same option as well...ultimately, the gentleman is using an sp because he doesn't want to have an affair/relationship outside of his marriage - this could be the best thing for their relationship as it opens all kinds of doors and challenges the couple to face whatever it is they are lacking...
ok...i know...but hey, i'm an eternal optimist
BRAVO. BRAVO.ok so the poor fellow gets busted...first of all - i truly feel for the sp who has to deal with the fallout phone call...what an awful thing to have to go through...
so, if the husband uses this as an opportunity to communicate his needs/desires with his wife - perhaps they could come to an understanding...if its a money issue, then she gets the equivalent amount out of the budget for her own discretionary use...if its a sex thing, then she should have that same option as well...ultimately, the gentleman is using an sp because he doesn't want to have an affair/relationship outside of his marriage - this could be the best thing for their relationship as it opens all kinds of doors and challenges the couple to face whatever it is they are lacking...
ok...i know...but hey, i'm an eternal optimist
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