It sounds like the OP landed himself a basket case, with a good deal of self loathing. Sex Workers who hate clients are no different than drug dealers who hate on people for using. Sex work is probably not for her and instead of just throwing in the towel or finding other avenues she's probably just taking it out on clients. You may as well share with the crowd here who this provider so we know who not to waste our time on.
Only losers pay for sex?
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OP had clearly legitimate question under these circumstances of such SP business if it was delivered in polite manner simple no answer is just fine and make end of this discussion simple as that. Some SP's are clearly in wrong line of work , there are always Mc Donalds jobs etc.
I thought the majority of guys paying are married or have long term GFs and getting some on the side without the dangers of getting caught with a civvie.
Quite the thread going here. And I do not know exactly what the deal was that prompted the OP and SP to end a session like that. Hey, shit happens.
But here, what Ms Charlee writes. I also truly believe men can do better. A lot better and for those who are already doing better, great! It is in men's chromosomes to adapt, be capable, and if mindful enough, to be a general all around good guy. I figure pooning with a wide variety of woman really helps in that department as you learn how to listen, to respond, to take direction if called for, to take charge if called for, all respectfully. The rewards cum to those who do better
On the pooning side, I can quite definitively state I for one am not losing! Paying for sensual time? Only a loser does that? Fuck off. Turn that around and compare the sheer volume of and the variety of sensual sessions a serial pooner has vs a (you can insert almost anything in here but maybe regular non pooner?) has. No comparison I am absolutely certain. And that paying for sex comment. Man I have been paying for my poon since I had the nerve to ask a girl for date. Paying for dinner, movies, shows, the hotel, paying through the fucking nose in divorces. Hell pooning is a full on bargain compared to all that other stuff.
So keep on not losing I say!
And that's all I have to say about that.
I had some wild and kinky sex with SP’s since I began that I doubt I can do with a regular GF.
Loser is going on dating sites and doing the song and dance and paying for dinner or drinks and getting zero in return. Cheaper to pay for sex and get exactly what you want with whom you want .
This !
Years of unadventurous sex made me step out. Majority of the SP’s I visited enjoyed their work and it made it a mutually enjoyable time.
I had a sugar baby throw the “Losers pay for sex” comment at me. I said something like “You are the one selling it and must feel awful having this loser nutting in your mouth”.
I won't volunteer the information and I'll tip-toe around it, but if asked directly I will not lie. I won't lie about any aspect of my personal history to anyone I have a relationship with, it's not something I can comfortably live with.
I've been asked and told the truth, I've been with someone who knew about it and was cool with it prior, but brought it up in arguments, and I've been snitched on by friends.
I lost my virginity to a provider, and most of my sex partners have been providers. It's a hard conversion to avoid without a rat's nest of lies.
There are women in different social circles,who know of my E.H./perb activities.
These women also know that I'm a red-pilled MGTOW
Unless a man is exceptionally physically attractive;these women will only have sex with men who can PAY for a lifestyle ,beyond these women''s own means.
One of my best friends,"qualified" for marriage by telling his fiance,that she would never have to work & earn,anymore.
His reward was to be financially objectifed,exploited & abused,for the rest of his life.
That,while his wife never STFU with her,"Me Too" rhetoric.
High status wife,she gets the,"who-ing".
Low status husband,he does the,"do-ing".
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These women also know that I'm a red-pilled MGTOW
Unless a man is exceptionally physically attractive;these women will only have sex with men who can PAY for a lifestyle ,beyond these women''s own means.
One of my best friends,"qualified" for marriage by telling his fiance,that she would never have to work & earn,anymore.
His reward was to be financially objectifed,exploited & abused,for the rest of his life.
That,while his wife never STFU with her,"Me Too" rhetoric.
High status wife,she gets the,"who-ing".
Low status husband,he does the,"do-ing".
Engelbert Humperdink
We as men really starve for love, care and sex. Since childhood, women get it at every step of life even without asking but men have to beg, pay etc etc to get it. So yes, we are kind of losers, but these words don't suit from someone who is selling sex.
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You not knowing what these things are is one of the biggest ones.
There’s a touring lady I spend multi hours with.
One time I was in her home town and texted her just to say hi.
She texted back and said we should get together, we hooked up and she drove me all around town. No sex, but a whole day with a beautiful and charismatic lady - for free - was priceless.
If you treat a lady as a human being and not just a nympho provider they appreciate it.
Well said !
given of course that they treat you w respect ( it’s a two way street ) then she of course deserves the exact same respect.
Providers are after all people w feelings and boundaries like anyone else , not just sex workers .
You would then describe yourself to be a MGTOW member against cohabitation, long-term relationships, and marriage but mostly participating in short-term relationships to satisfy your sexual needs?
A men’s online group that advocates Men Going Their Own Way and avoiding traditional relationships with women.
Probably thats the future due to current society, laws etc.
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