when does someone become a "regular" ?

[bxyxz]

for both hobbyists and SPs:
when do you personally consider yourself or a client a "regular"?

and do you have any criteria you base it on?
number of visits? frequency of visits? etc

curious to see what ppl thought, and i couldn't really find anything from searching threads

 

[angry anderson]

"when do you personally consider yourself or a client a "regular"?

 

[luvsdaty]

When you regularly visit her would be my best guess

 

[Hawker17]

How long have you seen your regular?

 

[bxyxz]

How long have you seen your regular?

i dont have a regular lol. only have seen new providers once, since im still pretty new to all this

 

[taster]

i dont have a regular lol. only have seen new providers once, since im still pretty new to all this

When will you consider yourself "not new to this ?"
What criteria will you base it on ?
Number of visits ?
Christmas comes once a year....Do you consider Christmas a regular occurrence ?

 

[bxyxz]

When will you consider yourself "not new to this ?"
What criteria will you base it on ?
Number of visits ?
Christmas comes once a year....Do you consider Christmas a regular occurrence ?

i'll probably consider myself not new to this in a couple months or a couple more visits to providers. i mean i wasn't looking for ppl to answer with extremely detailed specifics like "regular means every 26 days and 13 hours" 😂😂
i understand that this is all fluid with no objective definition. that's why i'm asking for ppl's opinions

sure, xmas is regular. would seeing a provider once every year or even let's say 3-5 years often enough to be regular to you?

A regular just kind of happens. It's not the number that matters, at least to me, it's frequency and the nature of the interaction. You have had several visits and are seeing her periodically, weekly, monthly, quarterly even. It's ongoing, and it it stops for a long period, you lose the momentum and the level of connection and almost start over. You start to learn more about each other. Sometimes, rules aren't rules, the CBJ that others get is replaced by a BBBJ as one example. Sometimes, more details about life are shared. Sometime, social interaction happens, you grab dinner before or after a session, often off the clock, go see a concert or a movie together. It's delicate and can get fucked up easily. Someone catches feelings, the provider gets a jealous BF, boundaries are pushed too far, lots of things can fuck it up, most of all just taking each other for granted.

thanks for an actual answer lol! i appreciate the input. so regular to you means often to have built up a some connection

 

[SolidSnake]

I'll take the bait: why not ask the girl directly?

But don't presume earning the "regular" label automatically means improved or extra service. You may or may not get priority booking, but don't presume you will get the "grandfather" rate when the prices go up. Girls can "get comfortable" with you over time, taking you for granted and thus give you less mileage.

The only thing you can be sure is that certain agencies offer a loyalty program when you have used them 10-12 times, as long as the plan is there.

 

[bxyxz]

I'll take the bait: why not ask the girl directly?

But don't presume earning the "regular" label automatically means improved or extra service. You may or may not get priority booking, but don't presume you will get the "grandfather" rate when the prices go up. Girls can "get comfortable" with you over time, taking you for granted and thus give you less mileage.

The only thing you can be sure is that certain agencies offer a loyalty program when you have used them 10-12 times, as long as the plan is there.

oh i def won't assume that. i had no complaints when my physiotherapist upped their rates. if i want/need a service i'll go regardless. and just like with a physio or any other service, i can def see an SP taking someone for granted

appreciate the input

 

[masterpoonhunter]

So sometime ago, I thought I was a regular. Then I went for her pooper and she said something along the lines of "you never tried that before".
And THAT was the end of me being a regular. Kinda like my marriages.
I agree that being a regular just happens and can un-happen as easily.
Why label it, I say.

 

[bxyxz]

So sometime ago, I thought I was a regular. Then I went for her pooper and she said something along the lines of "you never tried that before".
And THAT was the end of me being a regular. Kinda like my marriages.
I agree that being a regular just happens and can un-happen as easily.
Why label it, I say.

lol yeah, i can agree on not necessarily having to put a label on anything since these interactions are transitory in nature and are always changing
thanks for the answer!

 

[Dick Ford]

You know when you know. I knew after it became routine for me and my regular to meet every month or so on the "regular", and after my interest in other providers dwindled. More importanly, after certain levels of intimacy were reached which I previously thought were unattainable, I definitely knew.

 

[bxyxz]

You know when you know. I knew after it became routine for me and my regular to meet every month or so on the "regular", and after my interest in other providers dwindled. More importanly, after certain levels of intimacy were reached which I previously thought were unattainable, I definitely knew.

i like that! intuition + intimacy + somewhat cyclical (after all i guess that's what regular means 😅)

 

[angry anderson]

 

[wintersurfer]

IMO seeing someone 3/4X a month qualifies as being a “regular”

 

[Hawker17]

i just watched this whole interview, its amazing the part she said she has seen some clients for almost 20 years and i totally understand

 

[bxyxz]

i just watched the part with the 20 years thing! thats kinda incredible lol, more than 2/3rds my life lol 😅. will try to watch the whole thing!

IMO seeing someone 3/4X a month qualifies as being a “regular”

thatll definitely be regular!! lol

 

[JackRyder]

A person becomes a regular when they see you on the regular which could be once or twice a week, every two weeks, once a month, or every few months. And they see the provider exclusively.

Being a regular make for the best connections over time!

 

[bxyxz]

A person becomes a regular when they see you on the regular which could be once or twice a week, every two weeks, once a month, or every few months. And they see the provider exclusively.

ah, i didn't think of the exclusivity angle! interesting!

 

[Bunghole1]