Yes but in FinDom the power structure is reversed. And it involves destroying the male ego, not blowing it up. And no hope in hell of getting into the pussy
Beware of Crazy Women
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Thanks Edward.
The lady I wrote about has tried being a SB as well but without much success. She found it involved a lot of communication (which I already mentioned she is not into ) without any assurances of an actual date. A lot of time wasters on the SB/SD sites she tried was her conclusion. I should probably just be happy that she does not have a lot of clients that I have to compete with. She is always talking about advertising on LeoList to get moe clients but her place needs a lot of work before she could entertain at her place and she is not your typical LeoList girl and might not get a lot of interest, which is likely why she has not done so.
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Out of curiosity do you believe your response was normal and acceptable for the client of any arbitrary business?
Personally, I use the two strikes you’re out rule.
Send one polite message indicating a choice of days and a range of hours I could be available to play.
After 48 hours an equally polite message is sent enquiring if I ended up in her Spam folder?
Beyond 72 hours, I assume she’s not interested and I book with someone else. Sometimes they are out of town or on vacation and they email back to me weeks later. Some don’t, it’s all good, meh, there are lots of great escorts to choose from in our city.
This scenario really doesn’t bother me so much. I think some are obviously taking care of their most frequent visitors (which they should) and a guy like me who they haven’t seen in a year is less priority.
Send one polite message indicating a choice of days and a range of hours I could be available to play.
After 48 hours an equally polite message is sent enquiring if I ended up in her Spam folder?
Beyond 72 hours, I assume she’s not interested and I book with someone else. Sometimes they are out of town or on vacation and they email back to me weeks later. Some don’t, it’s all good, meh, there are lots of great escorts to choose from in our city.
This scenario really doesn’t bother me so much. I think some are obviously taking care of their most frequent visitors (which they should) and a guy like me who they haven’t seen in a year is less priority.
I briefly stayed with an SP when I was kicked out by my SO. They can receive a shit load of messages. A possible reason for the ads being posted is apparently many girls use autopost. And they are human too, maybe she was miffed that when her place was not to YOUR standards, you were not a loyal client? Did that happen to come up in the longer than usual chat? Just saying.
That's what I love about this industry. It doesn't matter if you're a minimum wage worker who has saved up enough for a visit, a billionaire, or a guy who just won the lottery, just because you have the money and contact an sp, doesn't mean its gonna happen. We're all equal in their eyes. I bet sp's get flooded with texts daily, its a large city and there are lots of clients who want sex all the time.
If an sp doesn't respond via text in an hour, I move on.
If an sp doesn't respond via text in an hour, I move on.
Keep in mind that although you might remember her, she may not remember you, especially if you had not seen her for a year. She likely has many clients.
I think, if you send someone a number of messages, then follow up with something like " if there was a reason you didn’t want to see me", that will almost certainly be seen as confrontational by most people, not just SPs. SPs have to deal with a lot of negative personalities routinely, so if you send them a text like that it is very likely that they are going to see you as another one of those negative personalities, and that will immediately get her red flag radar into high gear. Once that happens you are tainted, probably for good.
So just don't do it. If she does not reply then move on. It is not a personal offence and having a reply to your liking is not a right.
I think, if you send someone a number of messages, then follow up with something like " if there was a reason you didn’t want to see me", that will almost certainly be seen as confrontational by most people, not just SPs. SPs have to deal with a lot of negative personalities routinely, so if you send them a text like that it is very likely that they are going to see you as another one of those negative personalities, and that will immediately get her red flag radar into high gear. Once that happens you are tainted, probably for good.
So just don't do it. If she does not reply then move on. It is not a personal offence and having a reply to your liking is not a right.
For the record, if I send a text, or leave a message, and don't get a reply, I move on if it's someone I'd never seen before.
I had seen this SP about 6 times over the last 3 years & we knew each other, and her responses were fairly regular, and I wasn't enquiring about a time, just if she was available on weekends.
I recently had asked another regular why she hadn't responded, and she sent a hilarious reply about all the goofy things that had happened to her, which is why I thought I'd ask this SP, never expecting such a brutal reaction. Also, I was enquiring because something had changed about me, which is why I was trying to make sure she was still comfortable seeing me. Again, not expecting anything but a direct, but polite response, either way.
I could have posted her name, and a review as a non-appointment, but instead thought I'd share as a story, rather than a slam at an SP maybe dealing with other things.
These ladies owe us absolutely nothing outside of the time we pay for. Ghosting happens in every day life with "civilians" as well. People get busy,frustrated,just want to disconnect from the tech bubble. Sps that I've gotten to know have mentioned that calls and texts number in the hundreds literally. Lots of time wasters and game players,as well as genuine clients. I've always found it better not to take that type of stuff personally. And I definitely wouldn't text just to try and get an answer why I'm being ghosted,that just backs people into a corner which usually leads to more ghosting or confrontation.
Which makes ghosting, or worse insulting a safe, prompt, no-haggle, respectful, polite and gernerous regular so stupid. Losing that client means weeding through the pranksters, no-shows, tire-kickers, or obnoxious, possibly dangerous left-overs, but if that's the way some SP's prefer to spend their time I know plenty of others who show respect, and don't make losing their shit their go-to first response.
I wish I knew the point of this thread if you're not going to name the "crazy woman." It just seems rather self-serving.
Best response! Just like the time a friend of mine purchased some off the books "pharmacy" products that wasn't up to standards.
Good luck writing a bad Yelp review on that purchase.
Sometimes self care involves ignoring one’s texts/emails/DMs for a bit. And it’s much better to ignore inquiries than to flake on appointments that have already been arranged.
Self care is necessary in this business to avoid a complete burnout. Dealing with so many men and the needs of their dicks wears out a lady. And there’s the emotional component. Some men do this for more than just to get off. Many do this to get some companionship/emotional care taking as well.
Self care is necessary in this business to avoid a complete burnout. Dealing with so many men and the needs of their dicks wears out a lady. And there’s the emotional component. Some men do this for more than just to get off. Many do this to get some companionship/emotional care taking as well.
And now there’s a 3 page ..and counting.. thread on PERB over what originally was something as harmless as a couple unanswered texts...:doh:
And you have contributed 9 posts plus those deleted by mods. Thank you for your contribution to the 3 pages. Irony or hypocrisy?
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