Hi Tara,
Welcome to Perb ... and to the industry.
Your reputation already precedes your very refreshing self-introduction and outreach to the community. It's clear that you've been wisely taking advice and counsel from some knowledgeable and respected providers ... many of whom have already been singing your praises and foreshadowing your arrival.
That's an auspicious way to start.
Moreover, the fact you're already asking for customer feedback is also endearing. In my experience the most successful providers in this business have tended to be customer-centric. Success in this business is not always guaranteed by just looks and physical attributes (although that certainly helps - and judging by your early photos, you're well positioned there as well).
Since you were kind enough to ask, I'll do my best to answer your questions (just one person's opinion FWIW)
1. What attracts you to an SP (looks, personality, attitude, authenticity, etc.)?
Boobs.
I wish I could say I was kidding, but I'm not. This is always a starting point for me. They have to be natural (no silicone please). Can't be too big or too small. Interesting nipples always clear you to the next round. (love yours BTW)
After that it gets trickier. I'm most attracted to intellect and humour. Someone who is highly intelligent and clever - both with their ads and their commentary (whether on Perb, other fora, or twitter) , or on a screening phone call, is an instant turn on. Over the years this has been a dependable predictor for me of many outstanding experiences ( Celina, Alix, Bree, and the inimitable Catherine the Great, etc).
Given I'm older, I tend to prefer mature women. It's very rare that I'm interested in anyone under 30 - unless they are precocious, brilliant and breathtaking (ie, Mira Lynne, Priya, Scarlett Rose, Megan, etc).
Given how well you write, it might be a good idea to invest in a twitter presence. Great way to show your personality.
2. What are you looking for in your interludes (sex, intimacy, an escape, etc….)?
Boobs. (Still not kidding).
But it's more than just sex though. I'm looking for a connection. Some interesting conversation. A few laughs. A good time. As real a "date" as possible. Some call it enhanced GFE. A mutually good time.
Intimacy is tough. That's harder to fake. As some women will tell you, many men (particularly more mature and at the higher price points - I"m not talking about the 20 yo bargain hunters or bangers) are as interested in making it a fun experience for YOU as the other way around. That's a huge conundrum that many SP's never figure out.
3. What do you like about spending time with an SP?
I'm pretty sure I mentioned boobs already. I like an SP who prepares and tries to tailor an experience to the individual client (if that's what they want). Not one size fits all or going through the motions. Again, not every SP can pull that off and that's OK. There are many different kinds of customers.
However, if you're looking to charge $300/hr and up, and hoping to book multiple hours, or overnights or trips - then the same old script isn't going to cut it with everyone. You're selling an experience and filling a missing "gap" in an unique, individual human being's life . You're not just selling access to your body at that point (otherwise, anyone can get that for an $80 BNG).
4. What makes you want to see the same SP on a regular basis?
I rarely see the same SP on a regular basis. I travel a lot, am from out of town, and like some variety. It has to be an exceptional SP (like Catherine) who has the breadth of intellect and character that drives you to keep coming back for more (like the veritable Fountain of Youth).
That said, some guys love regulars and, once they find someone they connect with, stop looking. Again, we're all different so don't rely on one guy's opinion.
5. What have been your most memorable experiences?
That's easy. Some duo and multiple person play events but you should PM me for the details.
6. Is there anything that would heighten an already amazing experience?
Probably not and there doesn't need to be. However, if you set your bar at delivering an "already amazing experience" and then worry about how to improve on it.....then you'll be remarkably successful.
Hope that helps. Look forward to meeting you on my next visit to Vancouver.
I love your approach and attitude already Tara.
That's why I'll be waiting with baited breadth. :fish2: