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*~* would you date an sp? *~*
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Who told you it wasn't? I think that being your authentic self and ring honest about your thoughts and feelings and who you really are on the inside is a wonderful thing.... And besides, a guy that's a hopeless romantic is more likely to turn into Prince Charming.... And ladies love that!
Honestly, It is really challenging to find a partner that is ok with the lifestyle, It would be like a fairytale come true, but would most likely end bittersweet, in my experience. Sometimes I wish there was a man with enough courage to date me, but he would he be the right man for me, in the long run and it could also be too emotionally draining to try to balance a relationship with work, etc. He would have to be a very confident man to be able to handle what I do, and that would be worth it to make time for someone with that quality, although I also value my independence and freedom, so as I said, would take a very special person to be able to handle dating an sp and although I have met some amazing people in my lifetime, I prefer to technically stay single and reserved for those who need me most. If I met Prince Charming who was equally interested in me I would end up no longer being an sp and that would be fine if his heart was true and sincere...so far that has not happened and I'm happy the way my life has unfolded thus far! 
Oh to be enough of a man to date You would be a level to strive for!!!
Honestly, It is really challenging to find a partner that is ok with the lifestyle, It would be like a fairytale come true, but would most likely end bittersweet, in my experience. Sometimes I wish there was a man with enough courage to date me, but he would he be the right man for me, in the long run and it could also be too emotionally draining to try to balance a relationship with work, etc. He would have to be a very confident man to be able to handle what I do, and that would be worth it to make time for someone with that quality, although I also value my independence and freedom, so as I said, would take a very special person to be able to handle dating an sp and although I have met some amazing people in my lifetime, I prefer to technically stay single and reserved for those who need me most. If I met Prince Charming who was equally interested in me I would end up no longer being an sp and that would be fine if his heart was true and sincere...so far that has not happened and I'm happy the way my life has unfolded thus far!
LaLani - I would think you would be able to beat your Prince into acceptance ;-)Honestly, It is really challenging to find a partner that is ok with the lifestyle, It would be like a fairytale come true, but would most likely end bittersweet, in my experience. Sometimes I wish there was a man with enough courage to date me, but he would he be the right man for me, in the long run and it could also be too emotionally draining to try to balance a relationship with work, etc. He would have to be a very confident man to be able to handle what I do, and that would be worth it to make time for someone with that quality, although I also value my independence and freedom, so as I said, would take a very special person to be able to handle dating an sp and although I have met some amazing people in my lifetime, I prefer to technically stay single and reserved for those who need me most. If I met Prince Charming who was equally interested in me I would end up no longer being an sp and that would be fine if his heart was true and sincere...so far that has not happened and I'm happy the way my life has unfolded thus far!
About 10 years back after a session with a regular SP, she told me that if we where married we could do what we did every night. Never went back to her.
so true, luv2lickpussy, being strong in one-self is very important and having no expectations in the other person is always a good idea. Lol, @ bcpete I would most likely date someone I did not have that issue with, they would have to be happy being with me for the sake of being with me, if you love something, set it free, lol, I do believe we are not anyone else's keeper, what's meant to be will be, without definition... and yes vancouver1992, it would indeed have to be someone spectacular to be able to keep up with me, as you know Me so well by now!
Im married not really dating an sp, but for all intense and purposes I am, that is how our relationship is
I saw her today we put all our cards on the table, not going to go into what was said.
But I think it comes down to trust.
Do you trust and accept the other person, if not why the hell are you there.
And I think number two, relationships are hard there is good and bad, and things details to be worked out.
But the bottom line is, there has to be something there you want or need. Friendship love sex whatever, whats In this for me or for her, it has to work for both of you. if not
Again why the hell are you there.
All I will say about me and the women I see,
is Im still seeing her, ten years in now.
We keep putting our cards on the table and there is enough there for both of us to want this to work.
it isn't at all easy.
I saw her today we put all our cards on the table, not going to go into what was said.
But I think it comes down to trust.
Do you trust and accept the other person, if not why the hell are you there.
And I think number two, relationships are hard there is good and bad, and things details to be worked out.
But the bottom line is, there has to be something there you want or need. Friendship love sex whatever, whats In this for me or for her, it has to work for both of you. if not
Again why the hell are you there.
All I will say about me and the women I see,
is Im still seeing her, ten years in now.
We keep putting our cards on the table and there is enough there for both of us to want this to work.
it isn't at all easy.
LOL, Yes i do get that previlage when Yi9uy grant me an audience to Your povwer and control! You are a Goddess to be worshipped and honored...and yes vancouver1992, it would indeed have to be someone spectacular to be able to keep up with me, as you know Me so well by now!
Your minion,
van '92
Honestly, I just wouldn't want the drama and political-correctness conversation, thus dating is nowhere on my radar. When I retire from this world, I will have no problem sharing what I used to do.
What a crazy thread at this point of time.
I am a single full time father and have seen quite a few ladies over the last few years. I had a girlfriend for a while but she didn't like to come behind my kids priority wise. Needless to say that ended and here I am enjoying life and seeing sps which worked great.
Right now I see 1 and she sees me that's it. Things are really heating up and we have been pondering the idea of taking it to the next step. I am apprehensive not because of anything to do with her but I guess it is my kids. We have a fantastic relationship right now and i don't want to fuck it up. At the same time I would be proud to walk around with her on my arm and not keep her this secret. It is me that keeps paying her to keep the relationship on a business level.
There is my dilemma. Have a great day!
I am a single full time father and have seen quite a few ladies over the last few years. I had a girlfriend for a while but she didn't like to come behind my kids priority wise. Needless to say that ended and here I am enjoying life and seeing sps which worked great.
Right now I see 1 and she sees me that's it. Things are really heating up and we have been pondering the idea of taking it to the next step. I am apprehensive not because of anything to do with her but I guess it is my kids. We have a fantastic relationship right now and i don't want to fuck it up. At the same time I would be proud to walk around with her on my arm and not keep her this secret. It is me that keeps paying her to keep the relationship on a business level.
There is my dilemma. Have a great day!
I look forward to us dating in the future.I know you're teasing me, but I'll indulge you Baby!
Deal?
This is a really interesting perspective. So the monogamy is suspect because the (numerous) penis (es) is (are) entering the (singular) vagina.
Whatever happened to that age-old excuse (delivered mostly by guys), "C'mon honey, that was only sex...I LOVE you..."
Thus, as long as she has other penises that are entering said vagina, even if they are work-related and give her limited amounts of personal pleasure (read: personal choice), he should enjoy the same/opposite right/privelege, ie. placing his penis into as many vaginas as he wishes (pay would be nice but not likely and thus not necessary)?
As I said in my earlier comments in this post, I so don't wish to ever have this conversation while 'dating'!
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Hmmm, so what is the deal then...as long as she's a sex worker, it's ok that he gets as much sex from whatever source he sees fit?
What if she's supporting him? Does that change their 'agreement'?
At the risk of repeating myself, this is NEVER a conversation I'm going to have with any man...
I think it ultimately comes down to the couple and what they are both comfortable with. It seems rather quaint that an SP would want to pay for a man to be sexually exclusive with her in the first place, almost as if he were her SP on call 24/7. To each her own. I suppose that's a trade-off that some men might be willing to make and others not.
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Larry Storch
Hmmm, I believe I see potential for a new multi-million dollar dating site. :eyebrows:
For an hour at a time.Is that your subtle way of asking out Cami, UhOh!?!?!
Im about to go to sleep. Imagine a case where you're getting read for bed while your girlfriend is calling a cab to go bang a drunk dude somewhere. The guy thats okay with that, now thats a guy with few other options or else is off his meds.
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