Are Vancouver women cold/snobs/stck up?

[Cancerous]

I say yes.

You see, the beach is the one place where Vancouver women exercise a particular kind of double entendre. They spend 80 percent of the year getting fit, choose the perfect bikini, and then lay by themselves on a gorgeous beach with a book. But don't you dare intrude on their beach Zen. Seriously, what am I supposed to read from these visual cues? That you want to be left the fuck alone? Obviously.

http://donlak.wordpress.com/2012/01/14/typical-vancouver-women-diss-men-i-take-them-to-task/

http://www.vanmag.com/News_and_Features/Do_Vancouver_Women_Suck_A_Readers_Response

 

[*emmanuelle]

Seriously, what am I supposed to read from these visual cues? That you want to be left the fuck alone?

Um... yes?

Believe it or not, I don't work out for the sake of being approached by strange men on the beach while I'm relaxing with a book. Shocking, I know.

Don't forget that cute, fit girls are approached ALL THE TIME while trying to do regular things (work out, shop for groceries, have coffee with a book, sit in the park, even study at the library). It doesn't really bother me. What DOES bother me is when guys have this attitude that we somehow OWE you a friendly conversation. Strangers don't owe you anything. That doesn't make us snobs.

 

[kauffman]

maybe women enjoy looking good and being able to dangle it in front of people in the same way some dangle money or other things. And they may be trying to be enticing but itg doesnt mean YOU are the one they want to entice. So when a guy displays his wealth to a woman is she then enittled to spend his money? No but men use it to entice women and then get pissed off when women like them for their money. Whats the difference

 

[blazejowski]

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[Cancerous]

Isn't that kind of like saying a woman gets raped because of the clothes she's wearing?

Not at all. If a women is being raped she's gonna tell the guy NO NO NO NO NO. Women dress up to get looked at. You don't need a mini skirt in Janurary.

 

[Cancerous]

Yeah, but they are probably saying NO NO NO NO NO when they get approached by you right?

If a woman is gonna shut me or any guy down before I even say anything she's obviously a snobby cunt that isn't worth my time.

 

[bcneil]

Clearly it is her loss then right?

Dont feed the troll dude.

He cant seriously be so stupid that he doesn't understand that, while a woman might be dressing to attract a man.......doesn't mean she is trying to attract him.

 

[mik]

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white girls dont like asian guys
i met a few white guys and they like asian girls and also i met asian girls who also only date white guys-mostly the cbcs chinese born canadian and even some fobs too.<br />but you hardly hear of a asian guy who likes to date white girls-i met a few asian guys who did ,but most of the asian guys i met all tell me they only want to date and find asian girl . and also never hear white girls liking asian guys. i tried going after some white girls through Plenty of fish, sarging pick up-(randomly approachint them via malls, coffee shops) and so far havent gotten any number or luck wit white girls.
if they are with an asian guy its b/c hes probably paying for everything or something. like loaded doctor
what do you guys think. any asian guys think so too. any thoughts on this

cbc local asian girls are harder to get while i find foreign esl girls a lot easier
any chinese cbc guys here find that cbc asian or local asian girls are harder to get in getting a number and getting a date compared to esl foreign fresh off the plane girls. the japanese, korea, taiwan, china that just come to vancouver to learn english for a year or very recent to canada. i find the esl foreign girls are a lot more friendler , open to dating and meeting stranger, and easier to get number. i go after both and that my experience.
this not just at coffee shops, malls but even at my local cross fit gym i started going. they have a 50 to 50 ratiio of guys and girls and the girls are mainly canadized asian since i talk to them and english is good and they hard to get. they wont give me their number or standoffish.
while i just approach this taiwan girl whose been to canada for 4 months and shes so nice and kind. we chatted for so long on the bus. btw we were talking english and i dont speak manadrin dialect at all or very very little. my japanese is better and im chinese.
i find its just they more cliqeuy and stick to their own crew and friends since they been there for so long while foreign girls are new and open to making new friends.
i talk to a few guys and they also agree. white and asian guys who do the PU and other that are normal friends or co workers
what your experience

 

[Cancerous]

Dont feed the troll dude.

He cant seriously be so stupid that he doesn't understand that, while a woman might be dressing to attract a man.......doesn't mean she is trying to attract him.

I understand that. Now wrap your head around this, or at least try.........

If a woman is dressed up like she's going to a club, shes got her boobs hanging out, etc...... she should expect to get hit on. Then those same women who get hit on 500 times per day complain that there aren't any good men.

 

[bcneil]

I understand that. Now wrap your head around this, or at least try.........

If a woman is dressed up like she's going to a club, shes got her boobs hanging out, etc...... she should expect to get hit on. Then those same women who get hit on 500 times per day complain that there aren't any good men.

Perhaps she should expect to get hit on.....so here is what happens.

If a male she is interested in hits on her, she will show interest back, and go from there.

When a male she is not interested in (you) hits on her, she will show disinterest. Then hope you go away.

 

[kauffman]

you sound charming

 

[Cancerous]

Perhaps she should expect to get hit on.....so here is what happens.

If a male she is interested in hits on her, she will show interest back, and go from there.

When a male she is not interested in (you) hits on her, she will show disinterest. Then hope you go away.

My point is women, especially the super hotties get hit on hundreds of times per day, shut every guy down, then say no good men out there.

 

[mik]

My point is women, especially the super hotties get hit on hundreds of times per day, shut every guy down, then say no good men out there.

 

[Cancerous]

Wait... shouldn't superhotties deserve superhotties? So, unless those hundreds of times they get hit on a day are from superhotties then I guess they can truthfully say that there aren't men out there that are good enough for them...

Or their standards are unrealisticly high.

 

[Cancerous]

their standards are their standards, why should they lower them? I'm not going to lower my standards, and nobody should, I would rather be single than lower my standards, it would be stupid to spend time with/on someone that I don't feel like being with

Key word UNREALISTIC.....

 

[Tugela]

Not at all. If a women is being raped she's gonna tell the guy NO NO NO NO NO. Women dress up to get looked at. You don't need a mini skirt in Janurary.

They are not getting dressed up to be looked at, they are getting dressed up because it is fashionable.

 

[Tugela]

Dont feed the troll dude.

He cant seriously be so stupid that he doesn't understand that, while a woman might be dressing to attract a man.......doesn't mean she is trying to attract him.

They are not getting dressed up to attract men, they are getting dressed up to establish their place in the pecking order among other women.

That is what most guys don't get - it is not for your benefit!

It is the same reason why men dress they way they do, so that they can establish their persona, place and power among other men.

 

[Cancerous]

there is no such thing as "unrealistic", they can choose to be single if they want, you seem confused in thinking that they need to set lower "supposedly realistic" standards and hook up with someone.... if they want to stay single that is their choice and their standards are fine

That makes no sense at all. Why have standards if you plan on being single? You wouldn't have standards if you planned on being alone.

Now if you do wan't to meet someone, and you have UNREALISTIC standards then how can you meet someone? Just so you know unreal is something that doesn't exist. Might as well ask to date a Leprechaun.

 

[Tugela]

My point is women, especially the super hotties get hit on hundreds of times per day, shut every guy down, then say no good men out there.

They shut you down. You are not every man. Those women don't go to bed lonely. They are just not going to bed with you.

 

[Cancerous]

They shut you down. You are not every man. Those women don't go to bed lonely. They are just not going to bed with you.

Would be nice if common sense wasn't completely lost on some of you. If I was talking to an expired jar of mayonnaise I'd get a more intelligent response.

The point of the thread was women complaining about no men even though they get hit on lots. Has nothing to do with me being rejected or not. Does that compute? Should I dumb it down a little more?

Ad hominem attack FAILED!