Pros and cons of "rescuing" a micro girl

tantalizeme

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I've often wondered what one would be letting oneself in for if one "rescued" a no-longer-young but still lovely (and love-hungry) Chinese micro girl. There has been some discussion of this in recent review threads.

When I talk to these girls in Mandarin about their future plans and dreams, as I often do, many—if not most—admit they'd like a boyfriend and get married some day. And, typically, they'd love the opportunity to stay in Canada.

On the pro side, I can think of five reasons why an older Western guy would want to "rescue" a cute micro girl who's tired of her job and wants to move on:

•Many of them are way prettier than other women such a guy is likely to qualify for.
•They're are generally great at sex and understand a guy's promiscuous needs.
•They're usually sweet, humble, appreciative, vulnerable and, initially at least, warmly grateful.
•They'd be great company for trips to swinger clubs.
•They may be quite willing to work hard to fit into the local Chinese economy.

But there're also serious risks:

•They're often psychologically scarred by their work experience, and their dark side could easily erupt in conflict or other irrational behavior.
•They may have a cynical outlook on life and men, and often carry inner demons like gambling.
•They're used to making relatively easy money selling sex and may find it difficult to adapt to a regular $10/hr job.
•They haven't acquired much education or developed non-sexual talents (and may be sexually jaded to boot).
•They'd need to be sponsored as immigrants and could easily become a massive economic drain.
•They're rarely very fluent in English and become quite boring to hang out with if there's no real conversation.

But I'm sure, the occasional relationship between an ex-micro girl and a Western guy does get off the ground and may work out quite well...better, perhaps, than most male-female relationships in our culture.

While I generally take a dim view of relationship prospects between SPs & pooners, things might just work out for some guys with a more mature micro girl who's dying to get out of this job and move on to the next stage in her life.
 

novemberrain

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I remember one time I was at a social party, I remember seeing this older white man, a dentist, come in with this young, cute asian girl. I didn't know they were married until my friend told me. Apparently, she's was a thai escort. It was pretty cool to see, although she kept to herself most of the party, she seemed quite happy. I think a big con is, even though the western guy is okay with people knowing, it's going to affect the people they deal with on a regular basis like family, co-workers, friends, strangers.
 

oh3421

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The big risk would be that for her to stay, she would have to immigrate under the family sponsorship program, meaning she has to be your "wife" plus you will have to sponsor her. In a few years she will leave and sue you for all of your life's achievements, and then the government will knock at your door and sue you for the sponsorship part - good luck.
 

jnewton

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The big risk would be that for her to stay, she would have to immigrate under the family sponsorship program, meaning she has to be your "wife" plus you will have to sponsor her. In a few years she will leave and sue you for all of your life's achievements, and then the government will knock at your door and sue you for the sponsorship part - good luck.
Can anyone spell "pre-nup"?
 

uncleg

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Can anyone spell "pre-nup"?
Your point ? Just try to sponsor somebody under the family program with a pre-nup and see where that gets you. Mind you you might be able to sneak her in while the immigration staff is rolling around the floor laughing.
 

FunSugarDaddy

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Sorry but rescuing woman isn't my bag, especially it they either don't want 'rescuing' or have gotten themselves into situations of their own accord, and are likely to repeat this.

Over the years, I've come to realize that with a few exceptions, most people in live are pretty much where they deserve to me. Of course this excludes those born in the third world.
 

tantalizeme

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Your point ? Just try to sponsor somebody under the family program with a pre-nup and see where that gets you. Mind you you might be able to sneak her in while the immigration staff is rolling around the floor laughing.
Yeah, sponsoring a Chinese girl as your wife is admittedly risky business—but thousands of Canadian guys sponsor overseas brides every year, and it's surely not invariably a disaster?

You've got to consider: for some highly-sexed older guys (though not, of course, for uncleg, oh3421, FunSugarDaddy or tantalizeme), what's the alternative? Spending the best remaining years of one's life alone, except for costly pooning? Or hooking up with one of those crabby, bitter, shaming, unfeminine, typically weight-challenged Western women?

Or taking a risk with a sweet, mature, shapely Asian sex kitten who has a pent-up hunger for love and stability and seems sincerely willing to give a relationship her best shot?

It's not just that you'd rescue her—she'd rescue you too, from loneliness or realistically available Western women. And, FunSugarDaddy, being born in China is, in the huge majority of cases, being born in the third world!
 

uncleg

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Yeah, sponsoring a Chinese girl as your wife is admittedly risky business—but thousands of Canadian guys sponsor overseas brides every year, and it's surely not invariably a disaster?

You've got to consider: for some highly-sexed older guys (though not, of course, for uncleg, oh3421, FunSugarDaddy or tantalizeme), what's the alternative? Spending the best remaining years of one's life alone, except for costly pooning? Or hooking up with one of those crabby, bitter, shaming, unfeminine, typically weight-challenged Western women?

Or taking a risk with a sweet, mature, shapely Asian sex kitten who has a pent-up hunger for love and stability and seems sincerely willing to give a relationship her best shot?

It's not just that you'd rescue her—she'd rescue you too, from loneliness or realistically available Western women. And, FunSugarDaddy, being born in China is, in the huge majority of cases, being born in the third world!
Nobody is saying anything about it being a disaster, it's the pre-nup while doing a family sponsorship. Immigration frowns on that, in particular if it looks like you are trying to avoid the financial responsibilities that go with the sponsorship. I know more than a few guys that have married asian girls and brought them over, and they are just the happiest campers going. Most of the disasters I've run into have been with the Russians and Mexicans.

Let's say you hook up with a girl from one of the micros, how do you answer the questions? How, where did you meet? How long have you known each other?
Who you going to produce as the person that introduced you. if you go that route, etc. etc ............. Not saying it can't be done, but it could be a long expensive route.
 

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I am not presenting myself as having any personal direct experience with this nor am I an expert in any way.

My recommendation would be to consult with a lawyer familiar in Immigration Law first and foremost. It is my (limited) understanding that there have been some unfavorable changes in the official polices of Immigration Canada effective June 01, 2010. In these recent changes many applicants with investment income less than $300,000 and with less than one advanced degree are being immediately 'weeded out' in favour of well educated and 'well heeled' Asian applicants.

Applicants from the Caribbean, Indonesia, Philippines etc., who are traditionally seen as labour force workers, are not welcome. There have been many discussions on forums similar to this, like ISOC for those that know.

Research first and save yourself a tonne of headaches!
 

FunSugarDaddy

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One thing to consider if you choose to assist someone to immigrate into Canada and marry them, you're financially responsible for them for 10 years. I know this first hand, because my wife is from Europe.
 

wilde

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One thing to consider if you choose to assist someone to immigrate into Canada and marry them, you're financially responsible for them for 10 years.
If that someone ends up on welfare, the government will try to recover the money from the sponsor.
 

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Wow. Are you seriously basing your assumptions, presumptions and information about all asian women based on sex workers you spend up to an hour with, ones who indeed you attempt to cookie cut your appts into exact duplicates of each other, like they are some kind of living dolls??

lol, really this is too much. For this, I wish upon you an arranged marriage with an Asian woman asap. For your own sake, you'd better hope you get a sharp wack upside the head from one of those fat cranky bitchy white women you despise so much, because life with one of them would be paradise compared to life with a bitchy Chinese woman, and frankly I would bet you would make any woman cranky.

Love the way you believe Asian women are submissive, tho, that's classic. Have you spent any time at all with one?

lmao, be careful what you wish for, dude.
 

Cock Throppled

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Many Asians think they want to live here and then decide home is better. Then what happens?
 

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To the OP

You raise an interesting subject and it is something that has crossed my mind....though I have not considered it "rescuing" as the gals that work in micros know exactly what they are doing and getting into....the spin on "human trafficking" and the like is perpetuated by femnazis(though femnazis harangue all prostitution) as well as western SP's that dont like the competition.

I have seen well over 30+ gals at Sugarland that I would quite happily have as a wife due to their sexual skills/looks/attitude&nature but it is a hard line to draw in the sand...these gals are not doing this to blow $300 on a fancy pair of sunglasses or a pedigree dog on a whim....for the most part they are doing this to pay for an education or to provide for their family in one way or another....if you were to remove the gals means of income and support for her family you would have to replace it to some degree....the median income in China is less than $8000.00 per annum and it would be a huge hit for a gal to pass up making $160-$200 an hour.

Also there is the worry/concearn as others have stated about having half of your net worth being stripped away should a divorce happen.....yes there is a prenup but that also complicates things a lot as well as cultural differances.

It is a very touchy situation and something not done lightly but if it were the right gal and the right circumstances where everything could work out I would very seriously consider it.....it would still be better than marrying a western woman who has an attitude....hell I met a white gal a few years ago whose ego was writing checks her body/looks could not cash that was of the opinion that a guy would have to buy her a house before she would put out....I told her "yeah well good luck on that"....and this was well before I explored pooning or visited a micro.

It is a good idea but you wont be "rescuing" the gal....you will be enticing her to leave.

Just my .02



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As I said...western women dont like micro gals....hence pillowtalk's post.

Pillowtalk...the micros wont go away no matter how much you and every other white SP hates them...wake up and smell the coffee.

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You cannot outplay a Asian girl who has made it to Canada and ended up as a sex worker. Behind your back you will get stabbed sooner or later. Us Western guys are wimps compared to how devious it is in Asia to make it big.
 

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....it would still be better than marrying a western woman who has an attitude....hell I met a white gal a few years ago whose ego was writing checks her body/looks could not cash that was of the opinion that a guy would have to buy her a house before she would put out....I told her "yeah well good luck on that"....
Sad isn't it? What is even sadder is that the men who have the kind of money women like that are looking for can spot that kind of woman right away. Unless she is very lucky, he will use her for his amusement and pleasure and toss her aside for a younger model when he tires of her. It all makes sense ... like attracts like. She uses him for the bling he can buy her, he uses her for his pleasure. The tragedy comes when she realizes he didn't love her. Her heart gets broken and she blames men for being such pigs, not realizing that she herself set the conditions of the exchange when she sold her heart for "stuff".
 

Cock Throppled

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People being people and women being women, a lot of guys would assume they "rescue" a wild sex machine but will she remain one when she isn't being paid to be one? Sorry, but once a sex worker is out of the business I'll bet most are no different than any woman in a long term relationship.
 

tantalizeme

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I am sorry if this is a silly question but what is a micro?

And why do all white SP`s and Pillowtalk hate them? Kisses Melina*
Assuming your question isn`t tongue-in-cheek, you find some good answers here: https://perb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?140167-What-are-Micros&highlight=micro

There`re obviously positive and negative perspectives of what micros (short for "micro-brothels") have to offer. They`re home-based operations, usually run out of an apartment or rented house, with 2-4 Asian girls and a papasan or mamasan who looks after publicity, phone communication, security, food, rent etc.

The vast majority of Vancouver-area micro girls come from China (including Taiwan & Hongkong), but some are from Korea, and a few from Singapore, Japan or other Asian countries. In my experience—which has been overwhelmingly positive—micro SPs are usually age 20—40+, though the older ones generally misadvertise their age as 5-15 yrs younger.

From what micro girls have told me, rumors of them being trafficked against their will are total hogwash. They generally apply, mostly via Hongkong`s extensive erotic services networks, to be sent here for economic reasons—often, I gather, because they`ve become too old for the insanely competitive overseas Asian market and perhaps think Western guys here won`t notice or care.

Standard 45 min donations at micros currently range from $100—$140 (for most Chinese) to $160 (for most Koreans). Commonly, services include accompanied showers, BBBJ (unless you prefer CBJ), DATY, digits, FS, and often kissing & rimming. Greek is $40 extra, for those relatively few (and generally older) Asian girls who do it.

I suspect the downward pressure micros exert on local SP pricing is a big part of why even radiantly desirable ladies like yourself may feel motivated to offer FS under $$—and probably also the main reason some Western SPs hate micros with a passion.


People being people and women being women, a lot of guys would assume they "rescue" a wild sex machine but will she remain one when she isn`t being paid to be one? Sorry, but once a sex worker is out of the business I`ll bet most are no different than any woman in a long term relationship.
Yes, Cock Throppled, that`s precisely one of my worries. I wouldn`t go so far as to generalize about "any woman in a long term relationship"—because not all women in long-term relationships are equally unmotivated or strategically withholding about sex.

All a guy can do about this is play the odds, and perhaps the odds are better with a ready-to-quit micro girl for whom having sex is a habitual part of her identity.

But there`s of course no guarantee; probably such a woman is just as likely to have become oversaturated and bored with sex—but plays a pretend game to snare some starry-eyed guy into commitment.
 
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On the pro side, I can think of five reasons

•Many of them are way prettier than other women such a guy is likely to qualify for.
•They're are generally great at sex and understand a guy's promiscuous needs.
•They're usually sweet, humble, appreciative, vulnerable and, initially at least, warmly grateful.
•They'd be great company for trips to swinger clubs.
•They may be quite willing to work hard to fit into the local Chinese economy.
I can think of one more....they are desperate! Which is what I can only think your pool of prospective partners has been reduced to. :rolleyes:
 
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