Red flags, provider edition

CharleeBeckett said:

Providers: What are some red flags when a potential client contacts you?

For me it's
"hey" as an into message
calling me pet names right off the bat
sending a selfie/photo
asking for a selfie/photo

I'm sure there are more but I can't think of any right now and I'm super engrossed in animal crossing lol

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O.K. I'll bite....what's animal crossing ?

I find guys who make lingerie requests to be a red flag. I get dressed up and they no show
Guys who say they are nervous or concerned about privacy, I notice those guys cancel more often than others
I prefer short notice appts so guys who want to book two hours or more in advance are also red flags for me. Too much can happen in two hours, leading to no shows or cancellations. imo
Out of town phone numbers can also be red flags, (possible texting apps) this is why I have different security protocol for out of town numbers.
Anyone sending graphic messages including dick picks, often do not pan out

That feels like a load of my chest, good topic choice!

As already mentioned; hey, hi, hiii intro messages
Sending unsolicited pics or asking me for more pics
App numbers
Explicit gutter talk that they try to disguise as a booking request , these guys are usually WOTs who just want to chat about their fantasy.

When its obvious they haven't even bothered to read my ad
Expecting me to mollycoddle them and hold their hand during the booking process
Excessive amount of messages. Most legit bookings are arranged and deposit is sent within a very small number of messages.

The good old ..I dOnT pAy DePoSiTs IvE BeEN sCaMmEd bEfOrE
^^this excuse is ridiculous, I've been in the industry many, many years. They are the unknown factor in the equation, not me.

Any attempts at challenging my booking protocol or negotiating my rate.

Demanding outfit requests. Unless it's a specific fetish item, or asking if I have a certain uniform for a role-play request, otherwise I get annoyed. I'm a grown woman, I can dress myself. If you want to dictate each and every item you want a woman to wear, go buy a doll and dress her up.

The carrot on a stick "I'll become your regular IF.." "I'll pay extra IF.." "I'll start with a short session and extend IF.." ,"I know you dont do XYZ & LMNOP but I'll book you IF you make an exception for ME"

The "are you at your incall alone?" question

I’ve heard from ladies who don’t use deposits that app numbers are more likely to waste time, make fake bookings harass etc. The provider has little recourse as it’s like a buck or two to change the app’s number. There is the personal security concern too

One word texts
“Sup”
“Hey”
“Hey gorgeous “ (ok that’s two but ..)
“Nice tits”

Or
“I plan to see you weekly so , .... can we arrange a deal?”
“I’m “good looking “athletic “ “white “
“Do you party” ?
“I just want a Bj , is that cheaper”?
“When are you available? (real clients know when & where they want you ) .
God , there’s so many .....

Miss Hunter said:

The carrot on a stick "I'll become your regular IF.." "I'll pay extra IF.." "I'll start with a short session and extend IF.." ,"I know you dont do XYZ & LMNOP but I'll book you IF you make an exception for ME"
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Oh yeah, how could I forget. Once, after Collecting the money for an hour, the client basically said IF I could make him cum in the hour, And he might not be able to cum In an hour because of his age, then he would give me an extra $20.!! . I asked. Him if he spoke this way to all ladies and he said no. I gave him his money back and he left. I was not up for the challenge!

mmrr1234 said:

Just curious, what is suspicious about app numbers? I have been using those to conduct all kinds of business, but there must be something I am missing.

(Very illuminating thread, dealing with humans can be difficult).

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Sometimes app numbers require data to use them and there is no WiFi by my apartment. Some guys will even tell you this then expect you to give your address, buzzer and suite number to them well before they get to the area and park

If a client is running late and I search his number, if it comes back as a texting app then I do not hold my breath for them to arrive

CharleeBeckett said:

I’ve always wondered this. As long as a gentleman confirms his identity or is willing to make a deposit, why do app numbers matter?

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A real gentleman uses his real number to book.

Fiona said:

One word texts
“Sup”
“Hey”
“Hey gorgeous “ (ok that’s two but ..)
“Nice tits”

Or
“I plan to see you weekly so , .... can we arrange a deal?”
“I’m “good looking “athletic “ “white “

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That just ruins it for those of us who really ARE “ good looking, athletic ,and white”
I’m telling you, sometimes it’s not easy being a piece of Cowboy eye candy, on the internet.

mmrr1234 said:

Except the app number can be your real number (data plan costs a fraction of a cell phone plan, and I call rather than text rarely if at all). But I get it, whatever works, I was just curious. Thanks for the clarifications.

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The problem with apps is the majority who use them use them for malevolent reasons. Harassment, threats, fake bookings, etc. And it only takes a few moments for them to change their number, rinse & repeat.

mmrr1234 said:

Except the app number can be your real number (data plan costs a fraction of a cell phone plan, and I call rather than text rarely if at all).

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The question is not whether you use an app or not - you still can. It's whether you use a number that can be screened.

If you must use an app, get a real number and port it to the app. There is a one-time effort and cost (a SIM, activation, porting). It's negligible in the long run for you, but it does make all the difference for screening purposes.

Miss Hunter said:

The problem with apps is the majority who use them use them for malevolent reasons. Harassment, threats, fake bookings, etc. And it only takes a few moments for them to change their number, rinse & repeat.

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Disapproving app numbers seems redundant considering there are other options to hide your identity when contacting an SP, like cheap burner phones.

CharleeBeckett said:

gotta love unsolicited business advice

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Especially business advice that has no logic to it lol.

JD

texts that are not in any reminiscence of a sentence
carrot dangling
not willing to screen but expecting me to be okay with inviting some random man into my personal space

Asking for a face pic or a "fresh" pic.