Noon Questions

It sounds like you would be better off on a website like SA.
I will try to answer your points but no expert here.
1) Very few escorts would be willing to do this. However, the ones that will do this are usually of a higher quality IMO but will likely expect their full fee.
There was a lady in Calgary that did dinner dates simply for the cost of her meal. Said she enjoyed meeting people and a free meal is a free meal.
2)I can't think of a way to definitively tell unless the girl comes out and says she is being exploited. I have my thoughts about a few well known agencies out there, but I will keep
my mouth shut.
3) Easiest answer, start with ladies that don't require a reference. Another way is to build up your credibility on a site like this.
4) For the most part I find people in this hobby/ industry very discrete. Unless you are a well known figure in your community or the country I wouldn't
worry about it.

1: most ladies have a social only fee. Don't expect them to meet you for free, spending billable hours on you costs them money.

2: look for ladies with a twitter account or who post on perb to see their personality.

3: some take prepayment if you have no reference, but check their reviews to make sure they are legitimate.

4: legitimate ladies are trustworthy, and have an established reputation and clientele they want to protect.

luispiogo said:

I meant noob questions in the title*

This probably has been asked a million times, however I have some questions regarding a SP.


1. How is perceived to look for someone just to have a conversation to know each other better until some further happens (me paying lunch, dinner plus fee ofc)?, this being my first time with an SP I think it will give us an opportunity to trust each other. Plus I would be nice to ask some questions directly.

2. I am concerned about sex trafficking and I would like to be with someone obviously who wants to be part of it and not being forced to, how can you tell this? Or which are some services/agencies with a good reputation?

3. I have been asked for references, however it's like i mentioned my first time, so your typical catch 22, how do you break this cycle?

4. And lastly, who discreet is this world? Any tips? Bad experiences?

Thank you

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westwoody said:

1: most ladies have a social only fee. Don't expect them to meet you for free, spending billable hours on you costs them money.

2: look for ladies with a twitter account or who post on perb to see their personality.

3: some take prepayment if you have no reference, but check their reviews to make sure they are legitimate.

4: legitimate ladies are trustworthy, and have an established reputation and clientele they want to protect.

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Hi Luis P !

I think westwoody, answered most of your Questions very accurately !

I would like to add, a few other Suggestions .

You'll have to do the Research, as I'm not sure what Type of Woman, physically appeals to You .

There are quite a few reputable Ladies, who offer a Social Package . Which would be comprised of Lunch or Dinner, followed by Dessert . Maybe a 3-4 Hour Encounter, with the Donation weighted a lot lighter, on the Social time aspect .

As far a References go...

In my personal Experience, if I wrote whichever Lady I was interested in, a polite and respectful Email introducing myself .
Only a very small percentage, actually asked for a Reference, after that initial Contact .
I would suggest, if that becomes the stumbling Block with a particular Lady, just move on to your next preferred Lady ?
You can always come back, to the 1st Lady, once You've got a bit of a Track Record ?

If there's any One piece of Advice, I could give You, before You make that initial Contact .


Read the Lady's Advertisement, and Website, very thoroughly !


Most of the Questions, will be answered there ?

If They're not, most Ladies don't mind fielding a Question, that may have possibly been overlooked ?

But, nobody appreciates answering Questions, that have been thoroughly covered !
Here's a few Threads, that might offer, a little more Insight ?

https://perb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?254815-Truely-independent&highlight=Independent

https://perb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?250089-SPs-that-made-you-feel-comfortable

https://perb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?260833-Recommendations-Van-Escorts

There's lots of Breadcrumbs, in this Thread !
But, You'll have to read, between the Lines ? LOL
Starting, with Post # 26

https://perb.cc/vbulletin/showthrea...e-Overly-Sensitive-Please-Steer-Clear-!/page2


Hope it helps !

Cheers

P.S. It's really not that complicated, after all is said, & done ?
It's just like the 1st Time, You purchased something off of Amazon or E-Bay ?
You're just not sure, until You've done it a few Times !

luispiogo said:

Thank you for your reply, can you pls PM me what do you mean by SA?

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I think Johnny D, is referring to "Seeking Arrangement" ?

I could be wrong ?

But, I think Google, will be your Friend on that One ?

Cheers

P.S. Do You really want, to make It, that complicated ?

https://perb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?260796-Seeking-Arrangement-(SA)

"No Strings", is so much easier !
You've just got a case of, "Rookie Apprehensiveness", which comes with the Territory IMHO ?
After a few Experiences, You'll look back, and Laugh !

Vulva Man said:

I think Johnny D, is referring to "Seeking Arrangement" ?

I could be wrong ?

But, I think Google, will be your Friend on that One ?

Cheers

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Sí señor. Estás en lo correcto

Its not that complicated. Just go see one of the outlook girls.

um its about the money right,

so you put your money down and you can do whatever you want, like go for coffee

most of the ladies are no bull shitters, so its going to cost you to get to know her if you ever do.
I mean its an act a roll they play,

um post a lot,
girls on a forum will research your posts, and either like you or not.
so be prepared for some girls to think your weird,

research the lady your interested in,
a girl with a long history that can be searched here and other websites is most likely legit, as in not trafficked
and is who she says she is.

um finally protect yourself.
don't brag how rich you are or your art collection etc etc,
just be joe six pac regular guy, looking for something a bit interesting.

don't reveal a lot of yourself. or anything, till you get a feel for the person your dealing with, or never maybe,

don't give the girl a reason, I mean don't piss her off,
they collect a book on each client, most of it is just general stuff on
stuff like what did he like special requests like clothing etc all harmless.

but they file away things like where you work, married all of that gets filed away too,
they do it for there own protection in case things go side ways.

so don't give the girl a reason too. and be careful what you let out,
not to many scams,
but the odd one,

like paying a head of time for future dates etc,
paying a head of time for travel,

so don't get carried away one date at a time,