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Newbie here, I'll appologize now in case this question has been asked before, or if is just stupid paranoia.....but I am hesitant to call from my cell phone (company phone) or home phone (married) in case the SP calls back at inopportune times, or uses it for the wrong purposes i.e. vindictive...Haven't yet contacted a SP, but am considering it and am a little concerned.

As the SP's seem to mandate unblocked phone calls, (and I can understand why) what's a guy to do. Has anyone had any negative experiences in this regard? Any comments are appreciated.
 
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mikster777 said:
Newbie here, I'll appologize now in case this question has been asked before, or if is just stupid paranoia.....but I am hesitant to call from my cell phone (company phone) or home phone (married) in case the SP calls back at inopportune times, or uses it for the wrong purposes i.e. vindictive...Haven't yet contacted a SP, but am considering it and am a little concerned.

As the SP's seem to mandate unblocked phone calls, (and I can understand why) what's a guy to do. Has anyone had any negative experiences in this regard? Any comments are appreciated.
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I think you would have to be an idiot waiting to get caught by your SO or fired from your job if you gave out your number. I'm sure there are reputable sp's that some guys trust, but you do not know them. Your call, but you better be sure it's worth the risk. My advice is just to get a cheap pay as you go cell phone for pooning.
 
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get another fucking sim card pop it in when ur free and easy to hide 25 bucks plus 10 bucks pay as u go will go along way
 
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It would appear that I am an idiot.:)

I have been seeing professional companions for more than ten years. I use my own cell phone and do not block the number. I have never had a significant issue. I am not married but I do have a gf.

Cheers,
JC
 
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Claptix said:
It would appear that I am an idiot.:)

I have been seeing professional companions for more than ten years. I use my own cell phone and do not block the number. I have never had a significant issue. I am not married but I do have a gf.

Cheers,
JC
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Not a work cell phone, am I right? And has your g/f lived with you for the past ten years? Less risk if she hasn't, no? A divorce and a break-up with a g/f are entirely different things. You lose a g/f, he loses over half of everything!
 
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Bottom line: if you want to actually talk to and book an appt with almost any sp, you'll call from an unblocked number.

If you call and get voice mail LEAVE A MESSAGE. The only way you might get an unwelcome callback is if you don't, but you call her 15 times in 10 minutes. Call once, leave message and say when NOT to call back.
It is NOT a big deal, as Claptix says. Anyone that paranoid (trackstar lol) needs to get out of the hobby. Fer gawds sake people, you plan on getting nekkid with her, the least you can do is let her safety concerns be met by showing your phone #.
 
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Start with an email and if you want to book then yes you will have to call her from an unblocked number. Just make sure you tell her, tell her in the email, on the phone, in a voicemail, whatever, just tell her DO NOT call you back. If you are still concerned past this point then only deal with SPs who's reputation you trust from this board. Most of us indys have reputations to protect and we would never do something that could cause potential harm to a client, and therefore to our business, on purpose. I personally never call clients, I do not want to take the risk that just that one time their phone is in the wrong hands. If a client wants to speak with me they must call me. Many of my clients use their work cellphones.
 
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Really, for the most part, a whore doesn't give two shits about your phone number other than for the hour or two your parking the beef bus in tuna town. It's for their safety. Unless you plan on robbing, raping, or hurting the girl, your number means very little to her. It's not like she is going to be sitting around bored on a Sunday night and think, "I should call John up and see what he's watching on television."
There have been a couple girls who have abused the privacy of the guys. Those girls usually get put in their place right away. However, 99% of the girls don't give a damn about your number after you pull out and get out.
 
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mikster777 said:
Newbie here, I'll appologize now in case this question has been asked before, or if is just stupid paranoia.....but I am hesitant to call from my cell phone (company phone) or home phone (married) in case the SP calls back at inopportune times, or uses it for the wrong purposes i.e. vindictive...Haven't yet contacted a SP, but am considering it and am a little concerned.

As the SP's seem to mandate unblocked phone calls, (and I can understand why) what's a guy to do. Has anyone had any negative experiences in this regard? Any comments are appreciated.
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You should stick to well-reviewed and higher end escorts and you'll be fine. No SP is interested in anything other than getting a safe date out of you.

Make sure you don't save her number with a name in your phone! That's much harder to explain. Most pros don't want to call you back anyway... they will do so usually once only to establish a date and make arrangments.

The other basic thing is not to use your real name with an SP, they don't care as long as you're polite, hygienic and not offputting in some way.
 
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If your really worried..
go to 7-11, get a pay-as-you-go
and keep it for pooning only. simple easy to use, no bill statement.
Or
you could give me your money..
and I'll fill you in on all the details when I'm done:D :p
 
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DQ Guy said:
If you're really worried..
go to 7-11, get a pay-as-you-go
and keep it for pooning only. simple easy to use, no bill statement.
Or
you could give me your money..
and I'll fill you in on all the details when I'm done:D :p
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I once called some girl off of CL to inquire about services. It turned out she lived in Coquitlam so I never saw her. A month later I received a text message from her telling me she had a special going and she was offering doing duos with a friend. She didn't know me or my situation. I sent her a text in return telling her that she should never call me again or text me again or I would seek vegence !

If you're in position where discretion is important I would highly suggest never giving out your phone number.
 
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Yman said:
I once called some girl off of CL to inquire about services. It turned out she lived in Coquitlam so I never saw her. A month later I received a text message from her telling me she had a special going and she was offering doing duos with a friend. She didn't know me or my situation. I sent her a text in return telling her that she should never call me again or text me again or I would seek vegence !

If you're in position where discretion is important I would highly suggest never giving out your phone number.
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And for every one story like this, there are 10,000 where nothing like this ever happens. If you're going to let this sort of paranoia run every decision, this is definitely the wrong hobby because no reputable sp is going to waste their time on you. If you are that afraid to talk to an sp, what the heck do you plan to do with her when you meet? Sps have a helluva lot more to lose from indiscretion than clients -- this is how they make their living, after all.
 
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Thanks all, and Anna, that's basically my frame of mind as well. I was looking up one SP that indicated she wanted to see photo ID upon arrival matching the name and # given, and that seemed a little extreme. I just basically want to be nice, respectful, pay for good service and remain basically anonymous. I do realize that the SP's do take a huge risk (with a certain portion of society), but I'm not one of them, and just want a friendly, no-risk meeting that both can enjoy.

I'll let this thread sink now, think I've heard what I wanted to, appreciate all the comments and thoughts.....

Mikster, aka Bono, Sting, Moneyman.....(one suggestion was to hide your real name lol)
 
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FortunateOne said:
And for every one story like this, there are 10,000 where nothing like this ever happens. If you're going to let this sort of paranoia run every decision, this is definitely the wrong hobby because no reputable sp is going to waste their time on you. If you are that afraid to talk to an sp, what the heck do you plan to do with her when you meet? Sps have a helluva lot more to lose from indiscretion than clients -- this is how they make their living, after all.
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FortunateOne said:
And for every one story like this, there are 10,000 where nothing like this ever happens. If you're going to let this sort of paranoia run every decision, this is definitely the wrong hobby because no reputable sp is going to waste their time on you. If you are that afraid to talk to an sp, what the heck do you plan to do with her when you meet? Sps have a helluva lot more to lose from indiscretion than clients -- this is how they make their living, after all.
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Nice extrapolation on my comment...very creative. :rolleyes:

So to anyone who might have something to loose by someone else finding out you've visited an SP.... speak to FortunateOne for reassurance :rolleyes:
 
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Beautiful_Anna said:
Agreed. I absolutely NEVER call any gentlemen unless he has specifically asked me too. If I am ever in doubt whether to call back, I just don't.

I have the number of many PERB-ites here and they can all tell you that they've never received an uninvited call from me.

Just do your research on this board, send PMs & emails to the women and other PERB-ites, and play it safe. That's what this board is for.

Best wishes in your search.
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Aaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhh..Anna. Thats means that you still have my real name and Number LOL....Its all good. Be good to ladies, respect and have fun with them and you'll be fine.
They're cool.;)
 
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Yman said:
Nice extrapolation on my comment...very creative. :rolleyes:

So to anyone who might have something to loose by someone else finding out you've visited an SP.... speak to FortunateOne for reassurance :rolleyes:
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Like I said, some people have to learn the hard way :cool:
 
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