It’s no secret that I began working as an Escort 10 years ago, transitioning into 'Sensual Massage only' for the last several years.
Earlier this year, I transitioned a step further out of the industry by retiring as ‘Sarah’, and now provide a ‘G’ rated, more ‘clinical’ type of Massage, while continuing to specialize in helping clients with ED and Stress related issues.
Recovering from prostate surgery - a true story from several years ago …
One day I had a new client who was recovering from surgery to remove his prostate a few months previous. His session with me would be the first time he’d attempt to have an orgasm post-surgery, and he was pretty apprehensive about what might or might not happen.
I’ve had many clients come to see me for this same reason. No matter how much information you get from your surgeon, he’s can’t guarantee that you’ll be able to get an erection, feel any pleasure or achieve an orgasm, and he’s not going to help you find out!
Some guys don’t feel comfortable attempting to have sex with their SO after surgery, especially if they haven’t had a fulfilling active sex life in the recent past. When a man knows that he might lose the ability to get hard and to have sex, it can have a profound impact on his sexual confidence and self image.
Well, I started the massage as usual and we had a great conversation along the way. He seemed pretty relaxed until it was time for ‘the flip’, then I could feel him begin to tense up again when he realized we were about to find out if his equipment was still working.
Normally I would remain silent at this point in the massage, but I kept up the conversation to try to distract him from what my hands were doing.
His penis was pretty unresponsive at first, so I spent some time gently caressing his inner thighs and groin area for a while, held his testicles lightly, then absentmindedly put my hand on his penis without trying to stimulate him. It reminded me of how I would teach a shy puppy that it’s ok for him to trust my touch and not to be afraid of my hand.
He talked about how nervous he was feeling and he seemed to be experiencing the same type of anxiety you’d feel just before jumping out of an airplane while skydiving, or as you climb the final few inches at the top of the first big hill on a rollercoaster.
I poured warm oil into the palm of my hand, then slowly began to rub his penis and balls, using slow strokes from just underneath his balls up to the tip of his head, then back down again ... and I could see the blood flow starting to improve.
I climbed on the table and sat on top of him in reverse CG position, resting my buttocks just under his belly, so that his penis was in front of me. I began to stroke him a bit harder as I slid slowly along his stomach and pelvic area, mimicking sexual movements and rhythm as if we were actually having sex and he was buried deep inside me instead of being held in my hand.
He was still only slightly hard but I could tell by the sounds he was making that he was becoming highly aroused. Suddenly I heard him say,”ok ... I don’t know what’s going to happen here” ...
I watched in delight as his whole body began to shudder and shake as he experienced wave after wave of intense orgasm. I kept my hand on his penis, gently squeezing and stroking, responding to the spasms surging up and down his body from his head to his toes, prolonging the sensations for as long as possible. He was gasping and moaning and I think he would have levitated off the table if I hadn’t been holding him down. After a few minutes, I could tell he was reaching a point of sensory overload, so I bent forward a bit to hug his legs, calming him down with the sound of my voice, then we just stayed there motionless, breathing deeply, both of us shaken from the intensity of what just happened.
He began to sigh and chuckle with relief, and told me that it was as if the weight of the world had been lifted off his shoulders as he felt all the stress leave his mind. He was profoundly relieved to know that he could still experience orgasm, even though he could no longer ejaculate. He’d only been able to get semi-erect, but I told him that ‘practice, practice, practice’ would help heal nerve endings and restore blood flow and I believe his erections will continue to get stronger as time goes by.
I climbed down off the table, gently cleaned him up, made sure he was dressed properly, and gave him one more warm hug on his way out the door.
He encouraged me to write about his experience, and left with a euphoric glow on his face.
One of my most rewarding sessions ever!
Therapeutic Relaxation Massage: I'm a petite, mature (55) Masseuse, with 10 years of experience providing therapeutic relaxation massage for men. Dim lighting, soft music, laughter and light conversation enable deep relaxation, with relief from pain and stress through my intuitive healing touch.
Therapy for ED (Erectile Dysfunction): I also provide Therapy for ED if you're interested. Common causes of ED include aging, Prostate surgery, chemo, health problems, medications, relationship issues, obesity, porn and stress.
We'll discuss any issues while you're enjoying a relaxing massage, and I'll teach you about techniques to help with maintaining an erection, premature ejaculation, etc. I combine counseling with the massage session as most men find it easier to discuss their issues while relaxed on the table.
- Wilderness-themed private home Spa
- Located near Downtown Chilliwack
- Professional Massage Table
- Open 9am - 7pm daily
- Free Bottled Water
- Shower Available
- Non-scented Oil
- Free Parking
Regular Rates:
1/2 hr Massage ~ $75
1 hr Massage ~ $120
Senior Rates:
1/2 hr Massage ~ $60
1 hr Massage ~ $100
Call Lori at 604-391-1314 to schedule your appointment in advance, with a minimum of one hour's notice. (Landline - no texts.)
Please view my Website
www.escapefromstressmassage.com , Email
escapefromstress@outlook.com or PM for more information.
(Formerly 'Sarah’s Therapy for Men' & 'Escape from Stress Massage Kelowna', positively reviewed on perb.)
I look forward to reconnecting with my Sarah massage clients! xo
"The Spa Designed with Men in Mind"
