Where to go........What to do? HELP

[GangsterDante]

I need some advice please from my fellow perb members. I have just gotten out of a 5 year relationship, and I have no clue as to what is happening in the singels scene in Vancouver.

Where are good places to go? I am not much into the club scene though.

Do you guy's have any tips or ideas on how to approach a girl that for example you may see in the street or a coffee shop etc......

How do you ladies liked to be approached? Iwould love some insight from the Ladies.

It has been so long for me that I am have no clue what to do or say.

Thanks everyone any help or advice would be appreciated.

Dante

 

[hitrack]

Well I can tell you "will you do a blow job for 20" is no the best opening line for normal chicks.

You have to do all that eye contact, buy her a drink, make small talk, blah.....blah......blah, etc.....

Bullshit I say, if you met a chick fukked her right away and evaluated her "in the sak" abilities you could at that point make and educated decision if it was or was not worth asking her name.

 

[LonelyGhost]

Stay single and buy a dog!!!

IMO a much much better way to go....less grief and generally happier to be around than a woman (no offence to the ladies on PERB....I'm sure some of them feel the same way about men).....if you want to get laid read the review section!

HFS

better yet, volunteer to be a doggie walker at the spca ...

1. you will get bonus 'chick's dig this' points for volunteering

2. chick's dig guys with dogs way more than any other guy except those with kids.

3. the exercise will make you feel better and attitude counts for everything.

4. lots of chicks seem to hang out at the spca ...

5. nothing like making a new best friend every day ... and doggie's (like kitties) will listen to your crap without being judgemental.

6. taking doggies out for walks will also let you figure out what kind of doggie you might want for your own ...and ...

7. if you are not allowd pets where you live, then you can still have the joy of pet companionship without making the commitment ... and ...

8. this is good practice for dating!

 

[sierraguy]

sound advice planetman

 

[Morrigan]

Personally, I like to be approached in a friendly manner by guys. When a guy walks up and seems blatant about what he's approaching me for its a turn off. Be friendly but not brazen. Easy going but not overly flirtatious. I like guys who show that they are into a good time (outside the bedroom) by dancing without grinding or doing the nasty, guys who don't get all macho when there's other men involved in the scenario. Be relaxed, be yourself and be open. Don't be a Chachi and she'll at least like your company, if not be attracted to you. You can't change whether or not a hot chick is attracted to you or not, but you can do your best to make her feel comfortable around you and that you are not a creepy perv. Yes, that means you will have to refrain from peeking down her shirt, making inuendoes and "I'm a horny bastard" comments. But again, this is just how I prefer to be approached. Don't offer to buy her a drink. It comes off as being a little too strong. Do offer to walk her home if she is herself walking alone (driving her home is again a little too strong, since that would require some trust on her part, and considering you just met...). Although conversations can be hard in a bar/nightclub, make attempts at getting her to laugh. Women love funny guys. Best of luck, Gangster Dante.

 

[Afterdark]

I use my cock as a bottle opener, never fails to impress the hoochies.