Its my turn now,
1)RobBc- Thank you. I enjoyed our time together as well as the great conversation. I am looking forward to seeing you again!
2)captainbob- I am sorry you weren't satisfied, but I at no point tried to rush you out. On further note, I do share the appartment with two other ladies, and they have appointments as well. Pm me if you wish, and give me the oppertunity to make this up to you.
3)dufferin- I would love to be the bigger person and apologise to you, but it is you who owes the apology. My version of the story is different than yours. I am sorry if you felt I was distant, I am a very cuddly person. As far as the "boygerms" comment, it was said very jokingly, not meant to put you off. Now, as for the cold hands, they were freezing and the suggestion to rub you wrists together is a trick I learnt when I was trained in massage. As for the comment of no touching, we had a great banter going so I again apologise if it was taken out of context.
Now for the good stuff, if that is what you think happened...its not.
Your version said you were leaning in to nibble, in my opinion, you pushed me down aggressively. It freaked me out and I did say that I would like to be treated with respect and not as a posable doll. I also said that it made me uncomfortable to be pushed. Also that, I am more than willing to try all positions, just not be 'put' in to them. Just ask, or move me gently and I will always comply. You looked at me coldly and said that you didn't think that this would work out. I apoligised if I had offended you by saying that, but in my line of work I need to feel comforitable and safe not scared and threatened.
You said that we had a chat about 'boundries'. I thought that I was just explaining why I was uncomfortable. Regardless of how I was feeling, I did try to finish the appointment and with our chatting (which I thought that we both enjoyed) I was surprised when you were insistant on leaving. I felt that you had rudely offered me the 80 dollars, and since, as far as I remember the appointment was closer to half over that wasn't really fair. I did offer to give you half your money back which you took and explained that we had only just started that part of the appointment and again was more than willing to make ammends and finish the appointment. I gave you half the money back and put the rest on the counter and you said that was 'fair' and that you understood. Then you stood half way to the door and half way to the money on the counter. You seemed agressive and agitated and looked as though you were going to grab for the money on the counter. Not to try to reveal anything personal, but because of your physique, I was quite intimidated. I still moved up towards the door, gave you a nice hug and did say that I was sorry that it didn't work out the way you had planned which I thought was more than fair considering what had just happened in the room.
I realise now that you are a prominant poster, but even if I had known before, your treatment towards me would still have been unexceptable.
To all the others that have posted (that have never met me) and now don't want to see me based on this one review, I would hope that it would be taken with a huge grain of salt. If anyone expects that they will be able to pin me down or be forcefull, please don't call me. I think that if someone wants that type of service, they should ask if the SP is submissive first, on the phone. This wasn't a cash and dash or a bait and switch, so I would prefer not to be refered to as a 'rip off', especially by someone who hasn't seen me. I realise that to some of you it doesn't matter whether or not I respond, you have already made up your mind. And yes, I am sure it will hurt my business, and already has, but no matter what my state of mind, safety and sense of security are far more important to me. I would hope that you would all want the same for SP's so that we are able to be here to see you again. I would think that your decision not to see me would be based more than just on this. I have more favorable than negative reviews. Also, in all honesty I am 32 and when my clients ask me how old I am, I do tell them, I have nothing to hide. It is hard to advertise that age when there are women in this business far older than me who advertise as the same age I do. . Dufferin, I don't believe that I could 'make this up to you' in your opinion, and see no reason why we should try again due to our 'lack of chemistry'. I thought that we had settled things on a nicer note than what you implied in your review, and don't understand why you are now trying to destroy my business. I agree that bad things should always be posted, that is what this board is for. Maybe next time, you should be more forthcoming on your actions, as well as mine.
~Gillian~
1)RobBc- Thank you. I enjoyed our time together as well as the great conversation. I am looking forward to seeing you again!
2)captainbob- I am sorry you weren't satisfied, but I at no point tried to rush you out. On further note, I do share the appartment with two other ladies, and they have appointments as well. Pm me if you wish, and give me the oppertunity to make this up to you.
3)dufferin- I would love to be the bigger person and apologise to you, but it is you who owes the apology. My version of the story is different than yours. I am sorry if you felt I was distant, I am a very cuddly person. As far as the "boygerms" comment, it was said very jokingly, not meant to put you off. Now, as for the cold hands, they were freezing and the suggestion to rub you wrists together is a trick I learnt when I was trained in massage. As for the comment of no touching, we had a great banter going so I again apologise if it was taken out of context.
Now for the good stuff, if that is what you think happened...its not.
Your version said you were leaning in to nibble, in my opinion, you pushed me down aggressively. It freaked me out and I did say that I would like to be treated with respect and not as a posable doll. I also said that it made me uncomfortable to be pushed. Also that, I am more than willing to try all positions, just not be 'put' in to them. Just ask, or move me gently and I will always comply. You looked at me coldly and said that you didn't think that this would work out. I apoligised if I had offended you by saying that, but in my line of work I need to feel comforitable and safe not scared and threatened.
You said that we had a chat about 'boundries'. I thought that I was just explaining why I was uncomfortable. Regardless of how I was feeling, I did try to finish the appointment and with our chatting (which I thought that we both enjoyed) I was surprised when you were insistant on leaving. I felt that you had rudely offered me the 80 dollars, and since, as far as I remember the appointment was closer to half over that wasn't really fair. I did offer to give you half your money back which you took and explained that we had only just started that part of the appointment and again was more than willing to make ammends and finish the appointment. I gave you half the money back and put the rest on the counter and you said that was 'fair' and that you understood. Then you stood half way to the door and half way to the money on the counter. You seemed agressive and agitated and looked as though you were going to grab for the money on the counter. Not to try to reveal anything personal, but because of your physique, I was quite intimidated. I still moved up towards the door, gave you a nice hug and did say that I was sorry that it didn't work out the way you had planned which I thought was more than fair considering what had just happened in the room.
I realise now that you are a prominant poster, but even if I had known before, your treatment towards me would still have been unexceptable.
To all the others that have posted (that have never met me) and now don't want to see me based on this one review, I would hope that it would be taken with a huge grain of salt. If anyone expects that they will be able to pin me down or be forcefull, please don't call me. I think that if someone wants that type of service, they should ask if the SP is submissive first, on the phone. This wasn't a cash and dash or a bait and switch, so I would prefer not to be refered to as a 'rip off', especially by someone who hasn't seen me. I realise that to some of you it doesn't matter whether or not I respond, you have already made up your mind. And yes, I am sure it will hurt my business, and already has, but no matter what my state of mind, safety and sense of security are far more important to me. I would hope that you would all want the same for SP's so that we are able to be here to see you again. I would think that your decision not to see me would be based more than just on this. I have more favorable than negative reviews. Also, in all honesty I am 32 and when my clients ask me how old I am, I do tell them, I have nothing to hide. It is hard to advertise that age when there are women in this business far older than me who advertise as the same age I do. . Dufferin, I don't believe that I could 'make this up to you' in your opinion, and see no reason why we should try again due to our 'lack of chemistry'. I thought that we had settled things on a nicer note than what you implied in your review, and don't understand why you are now trying to destroy my business. I agree that bad things should always be posted, that is what this board is for. Maybe next time, you should be more forthcoming on your actions, as well as mine.
~Gillian~