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To Tell or Not to Tell.....That is the Question

Calgary69

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Your opinion guys/gals....

Hypothetically speaking...

Say you met a lady/guy that you really really fancy. You dated her/him for a short while (say a few weeks) and think that this is 'THE ONE'. The two of you are really into each other and are becoming as one. Marriage may be on the horizon.

The topic of your/her sexual experience starts to float to the table as a discussion focal point. My question is.....

Would you tell her/him about your 'other' life? Life pooning that is.
 

oppai

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First of all, how, after only a few short weeks would you know that marriage is on the horizon? Or even love for that matter. What you have is defined as lust in my opinion.

Have you had sex with her?

And why on earth would you want to tell her about your "other life"? That is definitely a death nail becase she will know that the first time she is "too tired" for a romp, or has a headache or you have an argument you are going to go running to an SP. Also the question will arise of whether you had ever been with an SP while with a girlfriend. So, unless this girl has no backbone she will leave your ass.
 

Hit Man

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First, I don't think a few weeks would be enough time for me to form an opinion of a lady that would lead to marriage. That being said, and knowing that everyone has different ideas about love, I would probably come clean. I don't think I would be involved with someone that thinks so conservatively, sexually speaking, that it would have any effect at all. Just my 2 cents.
 

countryguy

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Been there myself. But it was more than a few weeks more like 5-6 months before we both started thinking about marriage being on the horizon. In the end we broke up after about a year and half. Anyone I never said anything to her about seeing sp's in the past. I just left it that of course I dated other women. To be fair I never pried about her sexual relations with previous boyfriends.

Also I believe that when you start feeling serious about some one that is time to stop seeing sp's.
 

Calgary69

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You guys are right, a few weeks is too short of a time period to base a marriage decision on. Remember that this is a hypothetical question. I am not in a relationship and if I was I would stop seeing SP's.

It was my curiosity that brought this question to light. Someone close to me is getting married soon and with the rise of STD's, divorces rates and other crap, I just was reflecting on myself. If asked, would I tell my S/O of my full sexual life? After all, it may affect her in the future.

Thanks for your comments and I look forward to hearing more.
 

oppai

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My previous ex asked me if I had ever been to a massage parlor in a fun joking sort of way, figurin gthat I had. She is from an Asian country where it is quite common to do that so I figured I would give a semi honest answer and see what she says. I told her I had been taken to an MP whilst on a trip in Japan as well as visiting once or twive at home when I was really horny and was girlfriendless. She didn't really care. Tried the same honesty on another girl and she thought I was a perve....she thought right. Anyhoo....I think if you ARE going to do it better to get it out of the way earlier on. And better to make sure you have some documentation of your cleanliness as far as STD's go.

I probably wouldn't do it again unless it was with an Asian girl who didn't really care as long as I didn't go whilst with her. BUT, with the girl I told and was ok with it, the topic came up again when we were having troubles towards the end of the relationship. She was saying that I still probably go because I'm not happy with her sexually blah blah blah....which was bullshit.

It can be a ery touchy subject but I think as long as you are not seeing SP's while with a partner the past is the past. Everyone has skeletons in the closet and there is nothing wrong with them staying there.
 

oppai

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dufferin said:
Would i tell a woman who i have been dating for a few weeks, where it seems we are moving forward in the relationship, that i have pooned?

Absolutely.

Have i? Yes, always.

Have i gone into any more details? No.

Am i still with any of these women? No.

Is it because i had pooned? One for sure, one i am not sure, the others, no.
Are you very precise and to the point? Yes.
Do you ask yourself questions and then proceed to answer them?
Yes.
Do I like reading your posts? But of course I do.
 
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