BCBOY said:
Firstly I sure hope that the other thread being closed had nothing to do with the actual first topic there, and that I'm not in violation of anything.
I just wanted to say to this person that I think that a central factor is simply the amount of your time and interest you have invested in this SP. Even though we sit here and trade SP stories as if they were poker hands, with many different ones being the highlights, there is still a whole lot to be said for enhancing a personal familiarity (on any level, really) with ONE person (yes, even an SP) than to keep tossing all 5 cards back and wanting an entirely new hand.
Another point, is that any SP who has seen you 4 or 5 times will naturally let her guard down a bit more, where it concerns her personal safety. Just that alone, along with her natural will for experimenting business-wise with daring herself to be the active partner even though she might be more passive in her personal non-business relationships, can really make an SP seem special.
These women have to skate fairly near to the edge in terms of making someone feel sooooooooo special, and they do so with very few elements protecting their immediate safety. How can you help but to be drawn to them (at least the ones who are drug-free anyway)?
On top of that, most women share initial sexual encounters with men who are in a constant state of sexual-negotiation (I.E. "how far can I get with you tonight after I took you out on the town?" etc.). These negotiations are quite tiresome for most any female over the age of 14. In the arena of prostitution, the negotiations are generally monetary and at a certain point a woman gets to feel the relief that is a "sure thing" already packaged and on the way. She doesn't have the "tense", "braced" feeling of someone who might do best to resist a while longer. She lets herself seem to give-in (for the money)... and that too makes her seeeeeeeeeeem more refreshing than the typical real-life *dates* we might know.
In general terms, I suspect that the actual pursuit of anything beyond paid sexual encounters isn't going to go very well... but I would advise you to later consider how much less it was about how ideal she might/could/would have been for you, relationship-wise, and how much more it was about your own natural interest and will to keep giving and giving to your familiarity with the same female target.
That yearn for continuing to build upon something with one female... will be a great asset to you before long.
