TO BC Boy - re: feelings for an SP

[georgebushmoron]

I was in a favourite AMP of mine, knew the girls, and knew that some had BFs and even a husband. Next door to the room I was in was the SP who had the husband at home. It was noisy in there, and then came a very loud, truly-felt authentic "F**K ME!!!!!" from deep in her throat. Startled me and my temporary ladyfriend, whose face bore the look of someone who knew next door some gal was getting what she really wanted at the time. While I certainly do not fall into the category, it is not unusual for SPs in AMPs to get a little excited about the good-looking johns.

The gals in the business do it for the money, no doubt. And, assuming that they are not being forced by some pimp or worse, they have chosen to do the job. It is for many the only way to make serious big money due to lack of language skills, education or job opportunities. It's still a choice which others in the same position did not make. I do not knock SPs for their choice in work; without them, I might be taking huge risks with SWs; I consider that SPs provide a valuable social service.

It is also not unusual for Asian gals in the biz to look for someone who, one way or an other, will provide them with money or assets, even while they are working (cuz $15k to $30k per month is just too hard to give up). And if they are to leave their work for you, then you may be expected to make up the lost cash.

Are there exceptions? Yes, I'm sure. Is yours one of them?

This SP has clued in to the fact that no normal person's income would match that of a popular SP. If in fact she had someone like that who was interested in her, she states, it would be someone who would be troublesome for her. This is an astute girl in many respects. I am not expected to earn $15K to justify her quitting. In fact, that she would consider living with me (her idea) was automatically followed up by, "I'll quit, of course, but you'll have to support me until I find something else to do". After ongoing pressure from me, she has finally understood that her job is neither good for her personal health, mental health, welfare of her kids, nor future direction in general. She has stated that this job has warped her mind. She has stated that she had never envisioned herself ever doing this, but look at where it has taken her. Sobriety is often painful.

 

[wilde]

Mark Twain went on a speaking tour in his seventies to pay his debts and avoid bankrupcy---from all accounts he had a very happy wife and family. My friend.maybe it is you who should do some reading.

Unless Mark Twain was thinking of hooking up with an SP for a girlfriend, I fail to see any relevance of your post to this thread.

But then again, that "maybe it is you who should do some reading" comment made me think that you must be the alter ego of a member here. Busted? We'll see.

 

[H.Miller]

Busted

Unless Mark Twain was thinking of hooking up with an SP for a girlfriend, I fail to see any relevance of your post to this thread.

But then again, that "maybe it is you who should do some reading" comment made me think that you must be the alter ego of a member here. Busted? We'll see.

The relevance is quite clear,maybe the guy has fallen on hard times much like M.Twain did,does that mean he has a zero chance with the girl as you stated? Because he lacks money could he still not be making a large contribution to the world as M.Twain did that doesn't show up in the thickness of his wallet.Like M.Twain could he not raise a family and have a loving wife etc.? Maybe that is what she wants too,SP's do turn over rather quickly-- Sp doesn't mean Sp forever. I know of one who met a guy with NO DOUGH, ditched the bus. and now lives a quite happy normal life. Isn't that what this guy is also after? Maybe she is too, how do you know she isn't?
The maybe you should do some reading comment is a plagiarism of your own post on the ,Sex and drugs thread. I quote,"So if anyone needs to some reading it is you my friend." Posted shortly before my own.
I really don't see the point of telling the guy he doesn't have a chance monetarily with her, why rub his face in it.
Lastly, bust away--no alter ego here,as you will see.

 

[tobi]

BC_Boy, go after her buddy. Don't wait like I did and then find out she left the business before you got her contact info. Looking back, I think she dropped hints that I was too stupid to pick up. Maybe I was fooling myself but we did things that she said I was the first guy she did it with and these were things that I didn't even ask for. Again, maybe I was a fool but looking back I should have been more aggressive. Who knew she was going to leave so soon. Anyway, go for it before it's too late; otherwise, you'll never know.

 

[ScottyTwoHotty]

Man, this thread has become redundant.

 

[FuZzYknUckLeS]

Man, this thread has become redundant.

And somewhat superfluous. Judging from his posts, BC Booooeeeeey is gonna do whatever he feels regardless of anything posted here. So do it BCB. Save up yer coin and yer courage, take that plunge, and we'll see ya back here for a nice big round of "I told ya so's" sometime down the road.

 

[n2supersymmetry]

You guys and gals are still on this ?!?!
This horse is beaten,tortured, died a horrible death, rotten, picked clean, fossilized, dug up again, carbon dated then reborn again through genetic engineering then beaten to death again
Leave it alone .. the guy already told you all he is gonna do the charge of the light brigade in a few weeks. Let him make his peace with whatever and see what happens.

 

[SeekSteadyRegSP]

So what ever happened between BC_Boy and his SP interest???

A whole month now and no updates !!