Greeting At The Door.
(I preface this thread by saying: I don’t want to sound apologetic, but I did try to search and research this topic but couldn’t see any threads. But still, if you think this topic has been discussed or beaten to death, I would humbly suggest that you ignore it.)
I am sure it has happened to many of you one time or the other. You book an appointment, you get there, you knock, the door is opened. You get in, the SP looks away and just gets busy locking the door. No eye contact, just a plain, mechanical and formal “Hi”.
“Shower?” “Yes”. “Here is the towel.”
What follows may or may not be what you expect. Heck it could be a memorable experience. All I am talking about is the welcome at the door.
In my case, it has happened in 18.75% of my sessions. (3 out of 16 times.) One of those three SP's is a well-reviewed and well-known veteran and she was fantastic afterwards. Second is a younger, but again, well reviewed girl and I enjoyed rest of my time with her. Third was … well, I don’t want to talk about her, because she gets riled when I do. She told me that she had been in business for a about a year.
So, my theories are:
1. The SP is just new or too shy and reserved.
2. When she sees your face thru the peephole, she doesn’t like what she sees. (Makes you feel great, doesn’t it, fellow perbs?)
3. This is what I think could be a good reason: The SP just wants to stay detached. For her you are just another client and face doesn’t matter. You are a body and she knows why this body is there. She has just gone numb overtime and doesn’t care who the F is there.
There could be more reasons too, but those are the ones that I could come up with.
I am only into true good GFE's. BnG, quickies, hh’s aren’t my things. For that, one has to feel the connection. Personally speaking, there could never be a connection between me and an SP, when she opens the door, doesn’t even make an eye contact, closes the door after I come in, ushers me to the bathroom/bedroom, tosses me a towel and leaves. I would hate to be treated as if I am there just to fix her cable.
“First impression is the last impression.” Feeling unwelcome is a very crappy feeling. Especially when as a male, you are spending a lot of money to be with that SP trying to imagine her as your (albeit one hour-no strings attached) gf.
For all of those SP’s who threw their arms around me and welcomed me with a smile and a kiss, “Thank you.” It kicked off the sessions off so perfectly. Keep it up.
I would love to hear from SP’s too, especially on point no. 3. I mean, do some of you just go numb or have gone numb and don’t give a rat’s backend?
T8E
(I preface this thread by saying: I don’t want to sound apologetic, but I did try to search and research this topic but couldn’t see any threads. But still, if you think this topic has been discussed or beaten to death, I would humbly suggest that you ignore it.)
I am sure it has happened to many of you one time or the other. You book an appointment, you get there, you knock, the door is opened. You get in, the SP looks away and just gets busy locking the door. No eye contact, just a plain, mechanical and formal “Hi”.
“Shower?” “Yes”. “Here is the towel.”
What follows may or may not be what you expect. Heck it could be a memorable experience. All I am talking about is the welcome at the door.
In my case, it has happened in 18.75% of my sessions. (3 out of 16 times.) One of those three SP's is a well-reviewed and well-known veteran and she was fantastic afterwards. Second is a younger, but again, well reviewed girl and I enjoyed rest of my time with her. Third was … well, I don’t want to talk about her, because she gets riled when I do. She told me that she had been in business for a about a year.
So, my theories are:
1. The SP is just new or too shy and reserved.
2. When she sees your face thru the peephole, she doesn’t like what she sees. (Makes you feel great, doesn’t it, fellow perbs?)
3. This is what I think could be a good reason: The SP just wants to stay detached. For her you are just another client and face doesn’t matter. You are a body and she knows why this body is there. She has just gone numb overtime and doesn’t care who the F is there.
There could be more reasons too, but those are the ones that I could come up with.
I am only into true good GFE's. BnG, quickies, hh’s aren’t my things. For that, one has to feel the connection. Personally speaking, there could never be a connection between me and an SP, when she opens the door, doesn’t even make an eye contact, closes the door after I come in, ushers me to the bathroom/bedroom, tosses me a towel and leaves. I would hate to be treated as if I am there just to fix her cable.
“First impression is the last impression.” Feeling unwelcome is a very crappy feeling. Especially when as a male, you are spending a lot of money to be with that SP trying to imagine her as your (albeit one hour-no strings attached) gf.
For all of those SP’s who threw their arms around me and welcomed me with a smile and a kiss, “Thank you.” It kicked off the sessions off so perfectly. Keep it up.
I would love to hear from SP’s too, especially on point no. 3. I mean, do some of you just go numb or have gone numb and don’t give a rat’s backend?
T8E
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