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The Emancipation of the Hobbiest / Pooner.

Poseidon

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The Emancipation of the Hobbiest / Pooner.


Why do we have to pay for sex? If both parties participating truly enjoy their experience together, why does the hobbiest always pay for this wonderful experience. I could see many hobbiest getting addicted and broke for such an expensive hobby and with prices increasing, it can only lead to a faster down fall. Conversely, being an SP has all the benefits. You get sex and get paid for it. I wouldn’t be surprised that the high profile SPs after retirement, are millionaires for doing a job they love and at the expense of addicted and broke hobbiest. I know that not all SPs enjoy what they do, and only do it to survive, and that some SWs do it for money to supply their addictions. But for those SPs that do it because they enjoy sex, give the hobbiest a break. Give us the odd specials and discounts, and lower your rates. For those hobbiest that give the SP such an enjoyable encounter, consider the good sex as payment for your services. Us Hobbiest / Pooners should start a movement. We should all go cold turkey and put our dicks to hibernation. After a few months, who knows, SPs will start calling us to pay for sex. Or with business being so slow because of a mass protest / movement from us hobbiest, they will eventually decrease their rates or provide their service for free because they miss the sex. So c’mon fellow hobbiest / pooners, join me in this movement and protest!!


You Horny bastards got to hold out and go cold turkey!!! Do it for Emancipation of the Hobbiest.


The dreamer and visionary,
Posiedon
 

Big Trapper

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A dude by the name of Aristophenes wrote a play called "Lysistrata" on this very theme.

By midway through the play, all the males are walking around with these enormous representations of an erect phallus sticking out in front of them, to the great delight of the audience!

Eventually the broads win out.
 

Poseidon

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Lets do what the Hamster did

The Hamster was a good example of his self-protest (masturbation) to the high rates charged by the SPs and his lack of cash for them. The Hamster is setting a trend. I think we should all be inspired by his actions. Hey Hamster we're all supporting you buddy and keep holding out!

As Martin Luther King would say:

"Keep the Dream Alive, Keep the Dream Alive"



The Dreamer and Visionary,

Poseidon.
 

oberon1999

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I think you have paying an escort for sex and having a girlfriend confused. Sure I like to think some (hell all) of the girls I see have a great time, thinking they do is part of what I enjoy. Making me think they do is part of their job!

A good escort is concerned about you, now sometimes I might want to talk about her she should pick up on that, sometime I might just need to get off, she should pick up on that. She has to be paying attention. Sure I'll do my best to insure she has a good time I want her to enjoy herself but that is because it makes ME feel good. Going to an escort is and should be a sort of selfcentered thing... A good escort makes you feel like you are a great lover and an interesting man and she does it to your schedule.... I pay for that ... I like that ... Damn can you tell I had a bad day today .. .I think writing this post is going to end up costing me money tonight ....

Seriously Wives and girlfriends are great the sharing the give and take even in sex some days you win somedays they win (ok some day you both win) and that is just fine but with a (good) escort everyday you win, and hey maybe she wins too but if she is good you will never really know for sure because it will always look like you both win ... Am I making any sense here???

oberon

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oberon1999

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Ahh Squirrel you bushy tailed little devil, i think your problem is a matter of supply and demand with probably a bit of instinct thrown in...

Us guys are designed to have sex with as many partners as possible the girls on the otherhand are suppose to want one guy to stick around, increase the chances of childbearing success yadda yadda yadda...

I've said before who or whatever created men and women and decided they would both be needed to continue the species had one hell of a sense of humour...

oberon
 

spaceghost

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Lol...

Supply and demand is right.

Walk into a bar. Girl says... "I wanna get laid" and 20 guys line up for the chance.

Guy says, "I wanna get laid" and 19 other guys rush past him (apparently falling over each other in a mad dash towards some horny chick on the other side of the bar) saying "me too" and offering to buy the girl free drinks.

How long before one of the 19 other guys says, "screw this sh*t, hey girl how about $$ for a f*ck right now?

Supply and demand.
 

oberon1999

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Re: Oberon ...

Squirrel said:
... one will do!

I just want to have one experience as the provider ... just once. After that ... she can post a complete and accurate review of me ... that's fair. :)
Hey I'm on your side buddy, I wish you all the best ...

Personally I think men would make good escorts:

You know we aren't faking it
Every woman makes us happy
We promise not to call you afterwards

Sounds ok to me LOL

oberon
 

PiL

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Poseidon said:
The Emancipation of the Hobbiest / Pooner.

Why do we have to pay for sex? If both parties participating truly enjoy their experience together, why does the hobbiest always pay for this wonderful experience.....

.....You Horny bastards got to hold out and go cold turkey!!! Do it for Emancipation of the Hobbiest.

The dreamer and visionary,
Posiedon
For the love of all that is good, why does there have to be a West Coast version of Tbill? I dare say you're getting far better treatment here than you would if you brought up such foolish drivel up on TERB. It's not about a dream or a vision, it's about holding on to your money and the power that engenders in yourself. Personally, I value the companionship of the women I meet more than money because you can always make more money, or even get by without much. Besides, have you never heard the saying that you don't pay for them to come play but to go away when you are done? It's a fundamental truth of The Hobby that we all would do well to remember more often.

Allow me to stop you here by pointing out your dream is really a nightmare unending.....cease now before it is too late to turn back. ;)

PiL
 

gymguy

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Supply & demand

Fellow hobbyists;
SP's charge.....because they can! Supply and demand.
Unlike a wife or girlfriend, we can have fun, variety and not have to try to pleasure them, although I like to do so because it's more fun for me.

After a few decades of this hobby I still get weak knees and shortness of breath when spotting hot women, especially in summer skimpy outfits. This hobby allows me to partake of some of those fantasies.
Cheers all. Have a great long weekend coming up.
 
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I wholeheartedly agree with gymguy. I think those of us in this (esp. those in it hardcore) do it because they think it's fun or honestly...just don't want to put in the effort to find a woman at the bar.

I came to that realization recently after doing some work for someone. In that line of work, I had the opportunity to meet some of the most beautiful women in Vancouver. I'm not kidding you either.

I had to ask myself the same question Poseidon is asking. I came to the conclusion that as much as the thrill of the chase is exciting, rejection sucks. Which brings to why do guys see SPs/etc.?

Because they/we don't want to put up the work involved.

Or...

you could just be a sex addict. (seriously).
 

Saffire

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The bottom line:

You don't have to pay for sex. You choose to.

I don't have to be paid for having sex. I choose to.

Saffire;)
 

oberon1999

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Granola Boy said:
I wholeheartedly agree with gymguy. I think those of us in this (esp. those in it hardcore) do it because they think it's fun or honestly...just don't want to put in the effort to find a woman at the bar.

I came to that realization recently after doing some work for someone. In that line of work, I had the opportunity to meet some of the most beautiful women in Vancouver. I'm not kidding you either.

I had to ask myself the same question Poseidon is asking. I came to the conclusion that as much as the thrill of the chase is exciting, rejection sucks. Which brings to why do guys see SPs/etc.?

Because they/we don't want to put up the work involved.

Or...

you could just be a sex addict. (seriously).
Hmm you know I'm not sure it is the work involved, ok it sure might be for some, but to me there is work and risk in seeing an escort too, nothing worse than expecting the best and getting something a lot less. I mean we are not talking about just sex for money because I can get sex for a lot less than I pay a good escort, but it is just that sex, mechanical sex (sometimes that's all you need or want).. I want to feel good after, read my previous post again, I think I was right on when I wrote it. I also don't want the emotional baggage that can be part of the bar scene. Escorts just work for me in both those respects..


Sex addict sure ... could be .. you say it like it's wrong????

oberon
 
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In some cases yeah, being a sex addict is unhealthy...just like any addiction.

As for the work & risk...yeah, there is risk involved...but you know...if you don't feel comfortable...you can leave...as politely as possible. It's tough for the big head to win out over the little head, but it can be done...

GB
 

oberon1999

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Jesus I'm working out as much as I can ...

oberon
 

sirlickheralot

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Julia if you can figure out a way to create a demand for this the supply would quickly follow. I'm sure if there was a demand, there would be so many horny guys lined up on the street it would look like a parade route. :)
 

Poseidon

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intheknow

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I have to laugh at you, you seem confused.

In my humble experience we pay the provider, because they really have limited choice.

They decide to accept you tall / short, fat / skinny, they ay restrict your involvement, but you represent cash to them and a way to pay rent / mortgage.

Some get the added benefit of pleasure, sometimes. But imagine the life of a provider, trying to make the best of a horrible no click "date". It has to suck.

Poesieden I want you to be able to perform with a 45 year old over weight, good conversationed lady, who is a little lax on the personal hygeine, who really likes it when a guy goes down on her.

You are not really willing to do it, and so you could never be the pro. These ladys have a shitty job, and probably aren't paid enough. For every great date there are probably 20 average to terrible ones.

Plus you sound like you are really looking for something you will never find.

If you get to kiss a provider think about the way it feels, emotionally compared to the first time you kiss someone in the real world. The one thing you can never buy from a provider is that SPARK or that CLICK. Men tend to replace that click by blowing their load (me included).
 

oberon1999

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intheknow said:
<<<SNIP>>>
If you get to kiss a provider think about the way it feels, emotionally compared to the first time you kiss someone in the real world. The one thing you can never buy from a provider is that SPARK or that CLICK. Men tend to replace that click by blowing their load (me included).
Now that made me smile ... it's true, if it was not the world's oldest profession would not exist (as we know it at least).

You are right you can't buy that CLICK but sometimes to comes along for free ...

It is all a matter of degrees, no escort kisses like my wife :) but she has had over 20 years to practice with me :) some escorts kiss with passion and joy and it can be pretty darn good or quite frankly I would not see them again, there is nothing more depressing than a emotionless kiss..

oberon
 

vinnie

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Very few things in life are free. A senior coworker once said to me, "We are all prostitutes to somebody." At first, I was offended by this statement, but it's true. We satisfy someone's needs in exchange for money or goods. Even when you are dating, isn't often the guy (or gal) is paying for meals, entertainment, and gifts?
 
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