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Little Alex

Afficionado
Mar 5, 2003
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This thread was accidentally deleted and I've been asked to post it again. I appreciated all the comments made by other posters in the original thread and am taking this time to reflect on the incredible group of men and women who participate in discussions here.

I haven't been contacted again by my harasser since my posts were deleted. If, as I suspect, it's a business rival who hoped to capitalize on exposing me, second thoughts may have been prompted by the very abrupt disappearance of the 'evidence.'

With some hindsight I wish I had been able to prune more selectively as there were many posts that did not include any personal details, but my greater concern was that by monday it would be easy for someone to send an anonymous message to work colleagues with a link to some of the more revealing of my posts.

So, my apologies to all of you who have lost posts yourselves in threads that I started as the entire threads are now gone. The one I miss the most is the one where so many posters explained the backgrounds to their handles. Although yesterday I felt that I would never post again, I have been encouraged by many to keep my handle and simply avoid posting any info that could link Little Alex to my real life.

I feel much more able to deal with this situation having had such support from my friends on the board. Will keep my head down for a while and think about what to do next ... LA

Little Alex Says Goodbye - November 2, 2003

Recent events have brought me to reconsider my involvement here on perb. A lurker recognized me from some info I posted about myself and contacted me by phone to say he was going to out me to family, friends and co-workers. I do not know who this person is on perb and cannot offer explanations to you on why he would want to out me without giving away even more personal info. (Regrettably I do have enemies in my real life and this is probably one of them.)

I have taken the threat seriously and had the Mod delete all my posts so it is not possible for others to read them. For some reason my handle still shows on many threads but the actual posts are gone.

It may be that removing the posts will make it pointless for this person to out me as the personal info I shared that identified me is now gone. However, If I am outed I am prepared to accept the consequences of being associated with perb. I have enjoyed my time here, particularly since retiring from active participation in the hobby in July and made many friends who I consider to be among the finest people I have known.

I will keep my pm function active for a while and friends have my e-mail, but I will not be posting any more.

This is a warning to others to be careful about sharing personal info in our public posts as, for most of us, there are risks associated with being part of this community.

I'm sorry if this is all a bit melodramatic. I felt it was wrong to just disappear and have everyone wondering what happened.

LA signing off Nov.2/03
 

Little Alex

Afficionado
Mar 5, 2003
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New York state of mind
Saffire ... that's pretty much what I said too when I first got the harassing phone call ... *fuck* then *what the fuck* then *you fucker* then *I'm feeling fucking exposed*

Much calmer today. Usually deal with conflict better but this one was way too close to home.
 

Massagegirl

Banned
Mar 25, 2003
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Yay you're staying!!!

Be sure to let us know who the creep is so we can harass him with spam! Mwahahhaha.
 

Poseidon

Mr. Controversy
Jul 21, 2003
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Your place or mine?
Hey LA,

If you leave, you will relinquish your posts title to VM. Do you really want that to happen?

You're right, I guess we all have to be careful what we post on a public forum.
 

makuro

Porn God
Apr 19, 2003
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Glad you're at least considering staying LA. It'd be horrible to lose another prolific poster on perb. Dang say that last part 3 times fast!

Anyway just keep your head down, keep the personal info out of the posts, but stay! Well at least anything that would tie the post to your real life. Change nicks if you need to. There have been too many good posters disappearing.

Hope you stick around.

Even the SPs want you to stay... how can you say no to sooo many women? :)
 

Big Trapper

Sr. Member***
May 13, 2002
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That's more like it...

Yer number of posts is now back down closer to mine.

Maybe that's what is needed every so often - kinda like pruning an apple tree. Heh heh.

BT
 

regal1947

Can't Re-Member
Jun 2, 2002
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There is always someone to piss in your corn flakes

See you around my friend!!
Perhaps in a new disguise but keep your sense of humour!!
 

Kev

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May 13, 2002
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What you need LA is a new username so let me help you with that............how about.......

Little Pee Pee.............:D --- Kev
 

HowieMeeker

Guest
Mar 26, 2003
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Here
Alex....

....just remember...
 

sirlickheralot

Gold Member
Mar 10, 2003
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Kev said:
What you need LA is a new username so let me help you with that............how about.......

Little Pee Pee.............:D --- Kev
Perhaps that user name should be reserved for the impotent loser who threatened Little Alex. As I said in my original post if this jerk gets the karma he deserves he will get a severe case of necrotizing fasciitis on his penis then we can just call him No Pee Pee.
 

chuck1561

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Oct 19, 2002
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Welcome Back LA...

Glad to have you back LA..as has already been said I do hope that this jerk gets what he deserves..maybe something like this..
;)
 

Little Alex

Afficionado
Mar 5, 2003
46
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New York state of mind
Hello friends

I'm been quiet lately partly because of 'the incident' and also because strangely enough as one part of my life dissolved in a puff of smoke when I nuked my posts, a door opened in another part of my life to have a more fulfilling time offline. So, I'm not forgetting about all of you but am just a little preoccupied with other pursuits. Elvis is still in the building. He's just taking a break.
 

williewheeler

Bionic Member
May 30, 2002
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Yeah, still here!!!

Yes, LA, the King will live forever!

Glad to see you are still among the living, even if mortally wounded.

Nil illigitamae carborundum!!!!
 

sanityclause51

New member
Oct 16, 2003
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Alex,
I'm also glad you have made a safe return to the fold, it jsut seems we can't get along without you!

Of one thing I'm sure, as most of us have learned (or will learn) at least once... dabbling in the hobby has it risks and tremours... but an ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure! Be careful in here and bust your balls in the field... and, as Jerry Springer's producers say.. "tell us about it!"

SC
 
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