Here is what makes me a regular customer with certain SPs:
- if I am meeting you for the first time, first impressions always count.
- being a bit shy at first is OK and natural. But having a cold, distant attitude is a no-no.
- For subsequent meetings you're always happy to see me, and you show it with at least a hug.
- good hygiene: if chances are good that parts of your body will be kissed/licked/etc then you ought to wash it
- smoking is cool with me, but please wash its smell off yourself.
- brush your teeth after eating
- wear something sexy...lingerie is always a bonus!
- warmth, friendliness and sexy is a potent and highly attractive combination of attitude traits.
- physical contact is always important. If you've got a "can't touch this cos I'm too hawt for you" attitude then it's not gonna happen.
- Service-wise, the more open you are, the better. Some things like no DATY on the menu are not deal-killers. However, I go to SPs for the FS, so that better be on the menu. If I end up walking out with just a HJ to show for it then it's a waste as far as I'm concerned because I could have stayed home and done that myself.
- Eye contact. Quick peeks at ourselves in the mirror is OK, but if you never look at me during the entire session then it can be a mood-killer.
- Complements to boost my male ego is good, as long as you're not going overboard with it.
- Fun, engaging and intelligent conversation. Venting about personal problems is OK with me because you'll have a sympathetic ear, as long as it's not something that you keep dwelling on during the entire time that's going to turn the whole session into a downer. Maybe save that until after you're done. Silent service is not very comfortable either.
- Do not keep me waiting too long in the room.
- Remember to bring everything you need with you the first time. There's nothing more annoying than an SP who keeps running in and out of the room to get condoms or whatever. C'mon, you're a SP and you don't have rubbers??
- Let's get all of your clothes off when the session starts, and let me help you do so. I hate being the only naked person in the room.
- If we are doing a hot tub session, come in with me and play!! Do not sit on the edge of the tub with your clothes on and dip your toe in, or just sit there with your hands to yourself, or fret about getting your hair wet - what's the bloody point of the hot tub then?? Also, wasting half the time fiddling with the water faucet instead of me is no good either.
- Do not bark orders at me like some drill sargent: "Lie down!" "Turn over!"
- Tell me what you like doing during a session.
- The penis is a highly-sensitive body part, and you need to keep that in mind during the session, especially immediately after "completion time".
- For the FS, ask what positions I like and I'll ask you likewise. Missionary-only is no fun.
- If I am paying for a full-meal deal, then I expect at least an hour of your time. Do not rush me through the session and out the door, do not be a clock-watcher. I know that a SP enjoys my company if we're going overtime.
- things like getting me a drink, washing my back and drying me off, although not required, are good examples of nice small touches.
- interpersonal chemistry is always a factor that makes me a regular. There's really nothing you can do about this...it's either there or it's not. But that can be overlooked by outstanding L/A/S.
In conclusion, enjoy the time you spend with me. Treat me like you would your boyfriend, even if I'm not really your type. If I am a regular client then do not take my patronage for granted and start phoning it in with me or go thru the motions.