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leesalewis

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Hi guys.

Just wanted to open up a thread to see what you guys really like when u are in sessions. What do you like us to do in the room ?
Cause i know i talk to much sometimes? ha ha ha...

Some girls don't do exactly what you like, but its because we dont really know what you like?

So I "LEESA" from MMC have opened up this thread for all you perbsters to let loose, tell us what you like, what you dislike. So that when us Mp's read this thread we know what not to do and what to do in a session to make your stay more enjoyable.

Since I am pretty much kinda still a newbie in the biz, I think this will make a good thread could be a cute and fun thread.

Thanks Guys

Leesa
 

Commander Chode

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A few quick points.

Make eye contact instantly, and seconds later physical contact. Grab my hand and drag me into the room or give me a hug. It's the best way to break the ice.

Spend time in the room. It takes about 3 minutes for me to shower well, so hurry on back because I want spend time with you, not some dog eared magazine (or listening to some other couple).

Stroke my ego, but don't go over board. I'm paying for the illusion you like me but that illusion is flimsy. Keep the complements as real as possible.
 

leesalewis

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Cool Thanks for the tips

I so agree with what you said, I think I am doing good so far :)
Thanks for the tips...
Common guys what else should us girls be doing? start signing away :) I know your reading this right now he he he.

leesa
 

Commander Chode

Old school Chode
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And don't worry about making mistakes.

Just this past week I saw a veteran MP lady. She forgot my drink, had to go out to borrow condoms, didn't know where the oil was, and spent 30% of the time out of the room.

But I'll be back because of her attitude.
 

Commander Chode

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hifisex said:
-give a proper massage....don't just dump a bunch of oil on me and move it around like you're marinating a chicken
Some good points Hifi. I would rather have no massage, or give a massage, then a recieve a weak one. Communicate your massage style to your client. If it's light, hard, deep or if you've had training and real experience tell us.
 

wolverine

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Here is what makes me a regular customer with certain SPs:

- if I am meeting you for the first time, first impressions always count.
- being a bit shy at first is OK and natural. But having a cold, distant attitude is a no-no.
- For subsequent meetings you're always happy to see me, and you show it with at least a hug.
- good hygiene: if chances are good that parts of your body will be kissed/licked/etc then you ought to wash it
- smoking is cool with me, but please wash its smell off yourself.
- brush your teeth after eating
- wear something sexy...lingerie is always a bonus!
- warmth, friendliness and sexy is a potent and highly attractive combination of attitude traits.
- physical contact is always important. If you've got a "can't touch this cos I'm too hawt for you" attitude then it's not gonna happen.
- Service-wise, the more open you are, the better. Some things like no DATY on the menu are not deal-killers. However, I go to SPs for the FS, so that better be on the menu. If I end up walking out with just a HJ to show for it then it's a waste as far as I'm concerned because I could have stayed home and done that myself.
- Eye contact. Quick peeks at ourselves in the mirror is OK, but if you never look at me during the entire session then it can be a mood-killer.
- Complements to boost my male ego is good, as long as you're not going overboard with it.
- Fun, engaging and intelligent conversation. Venting about personal problems is OK with me because you'll have a sympathetic ear, as long as it's not something that you keep dwelling on during the entire time that's going to turn the whole session into a downer. Maybe save that until after you're done. Silent service is not very comfortable either.
- Do not keep me waiting too long in the room.
- Remember to bring everything you need with you the first time. There's nothing more annoying than an SP who keeps running in and out of the room to get condoms or whatever. C'mon, you're a SP and you don't have rubbers??
- Let's get all of your clothes off when the session starts, and let me help you do so. I hate being the only naked person in the room.
- If we are doing a hot tub session, come in with me and play!! Do not sit on the edge of the tub with your clothes on and dip your toe in, or just sit there with your hands to yourself, or fret about getting your hair wet - what's the bloody point of the hot tub then?? Also, wasting half the time fiddling with the water faucet instead of me is no good either.
- Do not bark orders at me like some drill sargent: "Lie down!" "Turn over!"
- Tell me what you like doing during a session.
- The penis is a highly-sensitive body part, and you need to keep that in mind during the session, especially immediately after "completion time".
- For the FS, ask what positions I like and I'll ask you likewise. Missionary-only is no fun.
- If I am paying for a full-meal deal, then I expect at least an hour of your time. Do not rush me through the session and out the door, do not be a clock-watcher. I know that a SP enjoys my company if we're going overtime.
- things like getting me a drink, washing my back and drying me off, although not required, are good examples of nice small touches.
- interpersonal chemistry is always a factor that makes me a regular. There's really nothing you can do about this...it's either there or it's not. But that can be overlooked by outstanding L/A/S.

In conclusion, enjoy the time you spend with me. Treat me like you would your boyfriend, even if I'm not really your type. If I am a regular client then do not take my patronage for granted and start phoning it in with me or go thru the motions.
 

leesalewis

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Wow

Now if that doesnt help out MP's wolverine I don't know what else will. Thats really cool of you. I like your outlook on sessions. :)
So when you coming to see me, ha ha. :)

Leesa
 

Bugs

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Lots of good feedback so far. A simple rule is to treat people the way you want to be treated. If you were walking into a high end spa yourself wihat sort of welcome would you want? Respect and a genuine smile are always appreicated. If you are going to keep me waiting for 20 minutes then tell me so and let me decide if that fits my schedule.

Much has been said about the touching, teasing and other forms of initial contact. My view is, if its the first session lets play a little game of "lets get to know you". I've had first time sessions with anattendant who was up front about being more careful and reserved on the first visit. I was was okay with that and in fact visit 2, 3 and more with have been increasingly earth-shattering as we got to know one another.

The best session that I've had are the ones where the climax happens about half way through the session and rest of time is post-coital play, massage and conversation. I've left those sessions so relaxed and happy that I definitely returned for a repeat.

We know that any girl can't be on her A game every session and its okay to let us know if you are not feeling up to par. I've had someone tell me that right at the door. I did leave and returned another day to an incredible session. I've also had sessions with an attendent would let me know that she wasn't feeling great but it sure would be nice if I could give her a massage. A little TLC turned her mood around and it ended be a great session and she remembered me next time for the consideration that I gave.

Now I've had more than my share awful sessions, but experience (and these boards) has taught me initial signs of a session going nowhere and to get out before the losing my hard earned pooning $.

Let be honest adults, play fair, and have fun!
 

Da_Slick

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thus my signature!

Bugs said:
Lots of good feedback so far. A simple rule is to treat people the way you want to be treated.
That's why I chose it as a signature. I firmly believe in that statement. I consider myself a newbie since I only started last month and may stop for a while, but I have a few suggestions that will hopefully make a session more enjoyable.

I agree with everyone here about the wait time. Less is better, especially after the shower. I have no idea what I'm suppose to do. Walk around naked? Place the towel on? Sit on the couch? Lie on my stomach on the table? Fall asleep?

I don't know if the other guys agree with this but I think it is better to know before a session starts what is in, or not included in, the "menu". Instead of saying, "These are the restrictions -- no ..., no ..." or I don't do...., and I don't do...." Maybe address it in a form of a question, "Would you like to know what's on the menu?" It's better to know what the guy can do in the beginning so that there are no "akward" moments during the session itself. Newbies will appreciate this.

I remember in my first session, I wanted to kiss the lady but she turned her face away. :confused: I did not know kissing was "forbidden". :eek: On the 2nd session at another MP, when I asked the lady to go on top, she said, "I don't do cowgirl." What the ****?? :mad:

That's why I try to make it a point to ask in the beginning so I know how to "behave" during the session. ;)

Have fun with your clients and make sure YOU are enjoying yourself too! Make suggestions to make to session better. The more memorable sessions I had were the ones the ladies were enjoying themselves too. Makes me want to come back for more!

Lastly, if you are ok with it, offer to take a shower with the client. ;) Just remind him (or her) to be careful about your hair.

Those are the things I can think of for now. Hope they help! :)
 

Flogger

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DON'T talk about other clients! i don't want to know if some other guy likes you in heels or a cowboy hat (not a bad idea actually) or whatever.
 

leesalewis

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Thanks for the Great Response

Hey guys.

Thanks for the great response to my thread. I thought it might help some other mp's that are new to the business. I will officially be 1 year in the business May 23rd :) he he...........

Luckily most of your tips I already do.... As I don't know any other way to act but nice... I enjoy myself in the room and for all you that have stayed with me, I don't think a guy has ever left unhappy. :) So Me very happy :)

But this thread rocks, great tips and you guys I hope you come check all us girls out at MMC... we have a great set of girls I think... me being bi and all I should call up nikita and have my own private fun session just me and her... she's probably reading this right now, ha ha.....

Anyway bye for now guys.

Leesa
 

irishmic

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Nov 11, 2004
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As usual Wolverine provides great input. In my case the only thing I would add is if I meet a girl for the first time afterwards I ask permission to return please answer honestly as this indicates to me if you enjoyed your time with me as well.
 

Webster

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Flogger said:
DON'T talk about other clients! i don't want to know if some other guy likes you in heels or a cowboy hat (not a bad idea actually) or whatever.
It depends on the guy. Part of what I enjoy about the whole experience is being with a woman who is so, um, available. My fantasy is not about someone who's only for me, it's more about getting some time - and other things - from someone who has their own life...and an interesting and dirty one. The woman on my pedestal is a liberated libertine I guess.

I guess it's a problem identifying what can be done: asking about what's out of bounds in a conversation can pretty easily end up in an out-of-bounds conversation. Sex is an oddball thing, turn-ons and turn-offs tending to be uncontrollable. Stepping too far in a direction can be a scary or repulsive turn off, not going far enough can be a boring turn off. In a case where someone has some definite no-nos, making those plain in as kind a manner possible at the outset is pretty important.

Since people seem to be taking some stuff away from this, something that I think is valuable is this. A variety of women's fantasies presented in a fairly plain way in their own words, without a lot of Penthouse Forum-style window-dressing. It's helped me in some circumstances, and I think it's helped a bunch of other people too.
 

NikitaMMC

Alyson has a hot ass!!!
Apr 11, 2005
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some pretty good tips, why was there no thread on this when i was a newbie?? heres a question for you guys: do you really want me yapping about my day while you are trying to relax or are starting to get excited? i know when i go for my weekly theraputic massage i wish that guy would shut up so that i could relax and enjoy the massage. however, i have been told a few times that i am too quiet in session. any thoughts on this? Thanks!
 

Da_Slick

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yapping

I think some conversation is good, especially in the beginning to break the ice. But when it gets down to "business" you can switch the topic to the session itself. :D

I don't like an SP-Client experience. Too cold! I rather know the person and maybe find something common. This takes away my nervousness and makes the session more enjoyable.
 

TOFTT

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NikitaMMC said:
however, i have been told a few times that i am too quiet in session. any thoughts on this? Thanks!
I love your smiles. I love your hugs. I love your embraces. I do love when you talk to me before the session, and after the session. In between is the time for passion and excitement, and your soft cries and sighs. But, afterwards, when you're showering, or when I'm showering, and when you're tidying up, yes, please, do talk to me about any and everything. I like hearing about the little details of your life. Otherwise, I get the impression your mind is far away. See you again soon. :)
 

TOFTT

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Some things I like.

After the event, hold me close, hold me tight against you for some time. Let me cuddle next to you. Kiss my eyes, my cheeks and my ears. I hate it if you shrug me off and run to the shower.

If there's still time remaining, I like to linger and chat. I also love if you give me a rub down afterwards (if there's still time).
 

leesalewis

Cute Slim Athletic Alyson
Jul 28, 2004
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Im so glad I posted this thread.

I think its a good conversation thread for Sp's Mps and who ever wants to put there two cents in to make things better :)
Thanks for all the tips everyone

Leesa
 

wolverine

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And if there are any SPs who are reading this and thinking that we are asking for too much...you would do well to remember that the bar was set by the top SPs in town, not us. They are the ones whose shifts are spent with a booked-solid schedule and not spent killing time in the SP lounge watching TV.

I forgot to add that I appreciate a good hard massage, as opposed to just simply rubbing oil on me.