Need2Know, and any other concerned parties:
To automatically start arbitrarily listing somebody into classes, and then showing Bailey (or any other person, not just SPs) "all the respect that you'd treat an A class SP she'll treat you with respect". My interpretation of that is that when you treat Bailey (and most other humans on the planet) with respect, you will get it in return. If "you treat her like the C grade SP she actually is you'll get the resentment and attitude everyone has such a problem with" I interpret as if you do not respect her, she will not react well. Is this something other than what anybody would expect? Is this something that you would expect in your own life? If not, why should any other person accept it?
As an aside, I have met Bailey on more than one occasion, and have yet to meet her "dark side". I'm not denying that others have not gotten along well with Bailey. But there are enough people who have, that this seems to be a real YMMV type situation. It must be understood that people are different, and even though two people have good personalities, they may not get along. Welcome to the human race. The calling of Bailey "HUGE attitude, no class and an all around bitch" when there is just a lack of compatibility between the two people involved is going a little far. It could have been stated as "I did not get along with 123" or "I did not like/enjoy my experience with XYZ". or "I found ABC unattractive because ..." would have been just as effective. Blatant name calling, with no details to back those words up is a little extreme and more than a little derogatory to the person who is being addressed.
I can only relate the experiences I have had, others can relate theirs. PERBites can make up their own minds with respect to spending time with Bailey from the reports, or not. I know I will be repeating.
Kinman