SP's are real people for sure!!
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I won't let you down. Perb will be the first to know, then my therapist and then my sexaholics group....if they will still let me attend, I'm not showing much improvement.Hey, HB40, still waiting for that review, don't let us down!
Just an educated guess, but I'm thinking her name starts with a B and ends with Y?
Nina! When you're right, your right! I love to hear you talk assertive, its sexy.
We are just people, thats it. Simple really, same as everyone else. Only difference, we suck cock for a living, thats it!
We are just people, thats it. Simple really, same as everyone else. Only difference, we suck cock for a living, thats it!
SP's are real for sure
I am an infrequent visitor, to this board, but allow me to relate what happened to me.
Met an SP in another city, while travelling, hit it off great, after a short time, she was meeting me, and working other cities, when i was in those same cities, on business. Gee it was great the great sex in those hotel rooms, through the night. I had a wonderful spouse at home, but the excitement over ruled any thoughts of what was happening, when i came to my senses a year or so later, and informed the girl that provided all of my sexual wants, that we should sort of end it, she became pissed off, called my wife at her workplace, informed the co-workers what had been going on, called all of my family, just something you want young nieces, and nephews to hear, from a stranger.
So here i am during the Christmas season, lost my share of a beautiful home, will be making large alimony payments for an undetermined time, have not seen the lawyers bills as yet, and most of all have lost the most wonderful person, 25 years gone, like that.
Guess where i will be spending my Christmas day?
In a movie theatre watching Marley, and Me, tears running down my cheeks, as i think what i did to myself.
So think long and hard, about what you are doing, and what you are prepared to lose.
Merry Christmas
I am an infrequent visitor, to this board, but allow me to relate what happened to me.
Met an SP in another city, while travelling, hit it off great, after a short time, she was meeting me, and working other cities, when i was in those same cities, on business. Gee it was great the great sex in those hotel rooms, through the night. I had a wonderful spouse at home, but the excitement over ruled any thoughts of what was happening, when i came to my senses a year or so later, and informed the girl that provided all of my sexual wants, that we should sort of end it, she became pissed off, called my wife at her workplace, informed the co-workers what had been going on, called all of my family, just something you want young nieces, and nephews to hear, from a stranger.
So here i am during the Christmas season, lost my share of a beautiful home, will be making large alimony payments for an undetermined time, have not seen the lawyers bills as yet, and most of all have lost the most wonderful person, 25 years gone, like that.
Guess where i will be spending my Christmas day?
In a movie theatre watching Marley, and Me, tears running down my cheeks, as i think what i did to myself.
So think long and hard, about what you are doing, and what you are prepared to lose.
Merry Christmas
That is brutal! It's harsh when reality becomes real, I truly hope you find some happiness and kindness during this holiday season.
What I am most impressed by and understand completely....you don't blame anybody, it takes a real man to accept his own responsibility for the choices he makes. You don't deserve what happened but the result is what it is.
I would suggest some wonderful SP's who would put a smile on your face and help you forget things for a few hours, it is so hard dealing with such a disaster. Maybe there is hope for reconciliation, 25 years is hard to forget. I wish it were true that time heals all wounds but reality is eternal.
There is nothing wrong with crying, what you lost is irreplaceable....I hope you get it back. Take care of yourself Bud.
At the end of the day.....
well whatever happens, at the end of the day I cant say I wasn't warned if my life goes to shit!
Still not sure what direction this is going for me or what I am going to do, sure is great hearing from all of you!
Thanks all of you!
well whatever happens, at the end of the day I cant say I wasn't warned if my life goes to shit!
Still not sure what direction this is going for me or what I am going to do, sure is great hearing from all of you!
Thanks all of you!
Best advice so far...
You normally have to pay a good hourly rate to hear that from a family therapist.The solution is simple.....GO TO YOUR WIFE and QUIT POONING!!!
100% of relationships that accelerate quickly end even quicker. What goes up fast, goes down even faster. This chemistry between you and the sp is a temporary fix to something that is lacking in your life whether your conscious of it or not.
Go to your wife and don't ruin your life. (I didn't intend on it rhyming
SPs and out of studio experiences
All I can say is "stay away" from these situations, its not your fault or the ladies fault but when a relationship begins as a client /sp one, it cannot work out.
Ladies have their thought perceptions feelings and generalizations of us as we do of them. Dont get me wrong, there are a lot of wonderful people on both sides of this equation but the outcome can be disasterous for either one of you. It may not even be either of your fault, how about a jealous coworker on either side calling wives / relatives / friends / etc.
Keep it real here guys, we have some of the finest ladies (Sp's) in the country and we should respect the studio experience as should they respect our outside lives. If you want to fall in love, this really is not the place for either party to do so. just my two cents
All I can say is "stay away" from these situations, its not your fault or the ladies fault but when a relationship begins as a client /sp one, it cannot work out.
Ladies have their thought perceptions feelings and generalizations of us as we do of them. Dont get me wrong, there are a lot of wonderful people on both sides of this equation but the outcome can be disasterous for either one of you. It may not even be either of your fault, how about a jealous coworker on either side calling wives / relatives / friends / etc.
Keep it real here guys, we have some of the finest ladies (Sp's) in the country and we should respect the studio experience as should they respect our outside lives. If you want to fall in love, this really is not the place for either party to do so. just my two cents
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you hit the nail on the head
I never try to have sex with someone in the beginning month if I am interested in dating a lady, I prefer just to go out and talk and have fun together
only light kissing and hugs at first
better make friends first
maybe you should take a sabbatical on the sex, and just get to know each other for a few months on casual dates
that might be a good test
this is the only way to see if you have things in common, and can actually stand each other for the long haul
I never try to have sex with someone in the beginning month if I am interested in dating a lady, I prefer just to go out and talk and have fun together
only light kissing and hugs at first
better make friends first
maybe you should take a sabbatical on the sex, and just get to know each other for a few months on casual dates
that might be a good test
then again
Topper is right
really man, you are a fukin shit bag for fooling around on your wife
and you should do one of the following:
1. leave your wife
2. quit pooning
being a single man (which i love) I can feel guiltless every time i go into a session with a new hottie
P.S. what if you caught a disease from a SP and gave it to your wife
The solution is simple.....GO TO YOUR WIFE and QUIT POONING!!!
100% of relationships that accelerate quickly end even quicker. What goes up fast, goes down even faster. This chemistry between you and the sp is a temporary fix to something that is lacking in your life whether your conscious of it or not.
Go to your wife and don't ruin your life. (I didn't intend on it rhyming
Topper is right
really man, you are a fukin shit bag for fooling around on your wife
and you should do one of the following:
1. leave your wife
2. quit pooning
being a single man (which i love) I can feel guiltless every time i go into a session with a new hottie
P.S. what if you caught a disease from a SP and gave it to your wife
