SP's are real people for sure!!

[wannabe]

|I have been pooning off and on for a lot of years and have met many fantastic girls and had wonderful sessions, but as wierd as it sounds I had always considered myself happily married and just needed a little excitement in the sex and attention department.
Now after all these years I am falling for an SP and her for me! Now before all you cynics and critics get going, let me tell you, our first session was great in all aspects, so after paying her for F/S I said here is some extra for such a great time! She handed it back saying save that so you can visit again. I couldn't help myself to my surprise I was back 3 days later, this time after the session she wouldn't accept payment and finally agreed on the room fee only. We have been seeing more and more of each other, chatting on the phone and computer and getting more hooked on each other.

Now here is the problem, we both have spouses! I have always considered myself happily married but lacked the amount of sex and pampering that i craved. This is a whole new issue.

I am writing this just to show that SP's are real living normal people and also to say........what do I do now?
She is amazing and when we are together it is amazing... i know i should turn and run...but i dont have the will power. I want so much more of her!

 

[SexyBoy]

Just make sure if you make a change it is something that can last. I say get to know each other more first.

 

[mm_ll]

hmmmm - I would point you to this article (a three part series no less) that was published in the ottawa citeizen.
poouner + sp = true love ? YEAH RIGHT

http://www.ottawacitizen.com/health/Dream+Grifter/1071441/story.html

seriously wannabe - take a careful look at that article. looks like that pooner was falling in luv too.

 

[SexyBoy]

It is a risk for the SP as she probably makes more money.

 

[wannabe]

Thanks for all the genuine replies people, I'm not really looking for someone here to have the answer since only time will tell which is right.
Mostly thought it would show that every session, 2 real people are getting together and anything can happen.
I know this is something her and I are going to have to deal with carefully.

 

[Markl]

If you take it further Wannabe, someone will get hurt in the end.
You, your wife, or her.. maybe all.
Be sure it's not just infatuation.
Wish you all the best though, hope everything works out for the best.

 

[Aeiyah]

Well no advice or opinion here, other than to say, I've recently realized that I have room in my heart to love more than one person. Yes, life is a very confusing journey.

I've been down there myself. I never expected it to happen and struggled with it at first.

|I am writing this just to show that SP's are real living normal people and also to say........what do I do now?
She is amazing and when we are together it is amazing... i know i should turn and run...but i dont have the will power. I want so much more of her!

The only way that a relationship could work is that both of you will need to be open with your respective spouses. If either spouse is not receptive to a polyamorous relationship, then nothing good will come with it. If you can't be open with your spouse, then you are heading for a disaster.

 

[Owudoin]

Try giving up the booty aspect of the relationship with the SP....will it still be as appealing then? Don't get me wrong, sex is a basic human need like food or water...but if you weren't getting the action would this even be an issue? The wife at home won't do "whatever sp does" so I go to an SP....what if the SP didn't do that for you? Would you be as enamored with her? Probably not. Not saying that she's not a great girl or anything. I've dated an SP and really enjoyed it...but the jealousy also does come into play when you pick her up from work and she tells you a bit about her shift....
Tread carefully little buddy...
How long have you been with the wife? Are there kids involved? Have you talked to her about your sexual needs? Does she know how important it is for you? Did she give it to you before and has now stopped? There are a lot of questions that need to be answered.

 

[wannabe]

You are so right!

If you take it further Wannabe, someone will get hurt in the end.
You, your wife, or her.. maybe all.
Be sure it's not just infatuation.
Wish you all the best though, hope everything works out for the best.

It is now unavoidable someone will get hurt, me, her, our spouses. We have to figure out if it is all worth it in the end!

Still too new to see how this is going as this has all transpired in the matter of a few weeks.

Always thought pooning was a safe way to have no strings attached fun but guess nothing is 100%.
I have had many great sessions with great gals and it all went without a 'hitch' not sure what happened this time.

I will try to update the progress or our solution as soon as her and I figure it out.


Nice to have a place to unload some of this,
Thanks all!

 

[jim]

It is now unavoidable someone will get hurt, me, her, our spouses. We have to figure out if it is all worth it in the end!

Still too new to see how this is going as this has all transpired in the matter of a few weeks.

Always thought pooning was a safe way to have no strings attached fun but guess nothing is 100%.
I have had many great sessions with great gals and it all went without a 'hitch' not sure what happened this time.

I will try to update the progress or our solution as soon as her and I figure it out.


Nice to have a place to unload some of this,
Thanks all!

If you are dealing with something that is a matter of weeks then please do not make any hasty decisions. What you are contemplating is serious and cannot be undone. My suggestion is that you and the SP take a break for a month and see how you feel about each other.

 

[Annalise Lane]

It is now unavoidable someone will get hurt, me, her, our spouses. We have to figure out if it is all worth it in the end!

Still too new to see how this is going as this has all transpired in the matter of a few weeks.

Always thought pooning was a safe way to have no strings attached fun but guess nothing is 100%.
I have had many great sessions with great gals and it all went without a 'hitch' not sure what happened this time.

I will try to update the progress or our solution as soon as her and I figure it out.


Nice to have a place to unload some of this,
Thanks all!

I believe you both where unconsciously open to the emotional interest of someone else before you got together. You meet, and it filled in the need without working for it. If you where not open to it emtionally, before you even met, this would never have happened, it does take two.

Regardless of where you met.

 

[HB40]

I had always considered myself happily married
Now here is the problem, we both have spouses! I have always considered myself happily married.

I am writing this just to show that SP's are real living normal people and also to say........what do I do now?

The first thing I noticed is twice you say you consider yourself happily married, yet both times are in the past tense. Have you already given up on your marriage? If so then any hasty new relationship is a terrible idea. Perhaps your feelings for this SP are a subconscious way of you justifying a way out of the commitment to your wife, compounded by the fact the SP has feelings for you. I am not saying stop seeing the SP but I would seriously consider the relationship with your wife, all the time and effort and love you have put into that may be too much to waste. What you could lose may be far more than what you may gain.

Well no advice or opinion here, other than to say, I've recently realized that I have room in my heart to love more than one person. Yes, life is a very confusing journey.

I love you too Bud!

You did mean me right?

 

[xinvaderchrisx]

Well no advice or opinion here, other than to say, I've recently realized that I have room in my heart to love more than one person. Yes, life is a very confusing journey.

You might have room but I'm willing to bet they don't have enough room for you and that decision.

It's a two-way street.

 

[wannabe]

The first thing I noticed is twice you say you consider yourself happily married, yet both times are in the past tense. Have you already given up on your marriage?

I say it that way because now I am doubting myself
I still love my wife that I am sure of!

I am not new to this scene, either is she. I am not hard to look at but I am no Brad Pitt. She has seen a lot of men and I am sure many more attractive than I, so what is it that has made us both so drawn to each other!

There just seems to be a chemistry that is hard to deny.

 

[wannabe]

If you are dealing with something that is a matter of weeks then please do not make any hasty decisions. What you are contemplating is serious and cannot be undone. My suggestion is that you and the SP take a break for a month and see how you feel about each other.

Nice to see you have a sensitive side Jim.

Thanks for the good advice!

 

[HB40]

I've recently realized that I have room in my heart to love more than one person.

I love you too Bud!
You did mean me right?

I can't believe it. You promised you wouldn't tell anyone. That's it. It is over!!!

I'm sorry luv, can't we get past this?
Besides, I bet you got room in there for 1 or 2 more.

I say it that way because now I am doubting myself
I still love my wife that I am sure of!

I am not new to this scene, either is she. I am not hard to look at but I am no Brad Pitt. She has seen a lot of men and I am sure many more attractive than I, so what is it that has made us both so drawn to each other!

There just seems to be a chemistry that is hard to deny.

Well, some things you just can't deny...love for your wife and chemistry with an SP.
Jim gave you good advice, much the same as mine but at least I said you could keep seeing the SP.
You know whats best for your own situation.

Perhaps me and Novasss have the answer, maybe you have room to love more than one person.
Me, I got plenty of room....but I try to limit the number of guys, they're way more jealous than the ladies.

 

[wannabe]

Sorry HB I should have noted you also....I did generalize earlier and thanked ALL

 

[jim]

I can't believe it. You promised you wouldn't tell anyone. That's it. It is over!!!

Tough break there HB40 .

Don't worry you can always go get some of the loving novasss was providing you by going to see sugar on her strap on days.

 

[HB40]

Tough break there HB40 .

Don't worry, I'll get over it.

 

[Kashs]

HB40 needs some backside lovin'

Tough break there HB40 .

Don't worry you can always go get some of the loving novasss was providing you by going to see sugar on her strap on days.

I'll come see you soon Sugar, sounds like I need to save up some ammunition first.

Hey, HB40, still waiting for that review, don't let us down!