say it like it is

[matty31]

I know alot of sp's say they offer light dom etc... so why don't they actually advertise it? All of the sp ads are very similar they all offer the same and say the same things. Any thoughts?

 

[matty31]

nice thought gina but I don't know how to move it

 

[matty31]

what do you want to have done to your hole??

 

[matty31]

oh gina your insatiable but I think this convo is not what these review boards are for

 

[Violet]

I think you are right about there being quite a few SPs offering "light dom" who don't necessarily advertise it, my guesses on some of the reasons being perhaps: 1) that they don't want to have to go into detail explaining exactly what they are & aren't willing to do & would rather discuss it on a case-by-case basis; 2) perhaps if they work for an agency they are not really in control of what is promoted or advertised - in this case I'm sure you could just ask the receptionist when inquiring about a specific lady; 3) maybe they don't want to give the wrong impression & have people thinking, for example, that they offer more "extreme" domination/torture, or that they have a full dungeon, or that they offer sub services as well (many ladies would be comfortable tying someone up & flogging them but would not necessarily be comfortable having this done to them); and 4) possibly they do not want to be seen to be trying to "steal" business for the self-described "real" pro dommes, who may see it as a threat to their business if SPs are offering dom & FS? As I said, these are just my guesses... I'm sure you can always phone or pm any SP & ask whether she offers dom, fetish, role-playing etc.