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lookatyouall

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Hey, this one is for the ladys. Why don't we start reviewing the men that come to see us!!! I mean they give responses like "she just laid there" well obviously the guy couldn't be to great if he couln't get any reaction. I am a very sexual girl and if someone said that about me then they obviously sucked!!!
 

Pandora

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There are many good reasons why we shouldn't review the men. One being that they are paying us. If you don't like seeing them, then quit the biz, honey. For two, we are in the service industry and we have certain obligations to our clients. You wouldn't like it if the waitress was rude to you and you heard her talking about you to the bus boy or whatever. Confidentiality is a must in this line of work. If you don't like doing this for work, then get a real job!!
 

bananaboy

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There IS a place for it...

Talk to the wonderful Gina about ladies-only boards.

And I'd love to be a fly on the wall for some of the threads I'm sure get posted... But as Pandora said, confidentiality is a must. Start describing tattoos, looks, etc, and all of a sudden it's right out the door.

However, I don't think you should lay the blame on others shoulders alone for reviews you didn't like... It may have something to do with chemistry, but at worst that should make for a mediocre session. In all honesty, the guy is there as a customer, and the customer is always right(within reason). I've given negative reviews before, when warranted, and it is because of bad attitude, poor hygene, or as you put it, "she just laid there." (lack of enthusiasm)

BTW: Just so you know you were at the very top of my "To see" list until you started posting.

Another girl on this board was nowhere near it. After seeing her posts, she's now at the top.

Just something to think about the way you communicate...
 

oberon1999

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Re: There IS a place for it...

bananaboy said:
Talk to the wonderful Gina about ladies-only boards.

And I'd love to be a fly on the wall for some of the threads I'm sure get posted... But as Pandora said, confidentiality is a must. Start describing tattoos, looks, etc, and all of a sudden it's right out the door.

<<<SNIP>>>

BTW: Just so you know you were at the very top of my "To see" list until you started posting.

Another girl on this board was nowhere near it. After seeing her posts, she's now at the top.

Just something to think about the way you communicate...
I agree I'd love to see what the ladies actually think .. hell even about me... can't get better if you don't know what your doing wrong .. of course bananaboy makes a good point about confidentiality...

He also makes some good points about knowing your audience... Some ladies who post here have done their business a world of good, some have not... Sometimes it would be best to keep quiet .. i'm sure some ladies have decided there are guys here they would rather nto see as well (not me of course;-)...

oberon
 

bananaboy

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Yah, but it's that girl stuff I'm talking about! ;)

Sorry Gina, I didn't mean to infer that the ladies-only boards are indiscreet or anything like that! I meant it as a comment for Lesley, stating that once you start talking about descriptions etc on a public board like this, you start killing the confidentiality.
 

lookatyouall

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yes that is true has anyone ever thought that maybe the escorts would be concerned with confidentiality. I know we do choose to put ourselves out there on web sites and such, but I personaly keep this life a private one and I would be devistated if a friend or family were to come accross this board or my website. I do enjoy my job but that doesn't mean that I am going to enjoy every session. It does take 2!!! At leat I don't fake it. Yes these guys are paying customers and I give the services that I say I am going to, I have no extra or hidden costst, and my pictures are acurate. Oh and good post oberon. I think that pandora says to get a real job , well aren't you doing the same thing??? Correct me if I am wrong. Also, if I was to hear a waitress talking shit then I would ask myself what I did to piss her off. In all actuality, the customer is NOT always right.
 

bananaboy

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Hi Lesley,

First, I have zero against you, so this isn't an attack. I would PM this, but it's a max of 1024 chars.

However, I truely believe that the biggest difference between the MUST SEE SP's out there and the rest is about service.

It's not about enjoying every session. I don't always enjoy my job. But you know what? Every single client I have truely believes they are my favorite, and that I'd drop everything else I am doing to make them happy. Do I? No. Does it seem like it to them? Definitely. Do I have to go out of my way to make it like this? All the time.

Know what? They're all happy, they call me all the time, sometimes just to chat, and none of them would even think of calling another company.

I think that being a believable(key word here) fake would give a guy more pleasure than letting him think you're not having a good time.

There's another thread on the board all about this right now, that maybe you should check out.
 

oberon1999

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lookatyouall said:
yes that is true has anyone ever thought that maybe the escorts would be concerned with confidentiality. I know we do choose to put ourselves out there on web sites and such, but I personaly keep this life a private one and I would be devistated if a friend or family were to come accross this board or my website. I do enjoy my job but that doesn't mean that I am going to enjoy every session. It does take 2!!! At leat I don't fake it. Yes these guys are paying customers and I give the services that I say I am going to, I have no extra or hidden costst, and my pictures are acurate. Oh and good post oberon. I think that pandora says to get a real job , well aren't you doing the same thing??? Correct me if I am wrong. Also, if I was to hear a waitress talking shit then I would ask myself what I did to piss her off. In all actuality, the customer is NOT always right.
You know you leave me in sort of a tough spot here, I mean I like to think everyone I see enjoys being with me, I certainly want to feel that way after and during the session, BUT I know some must not have to had the best time (I'm not THAT good;-) face it sometimes I see ladies when I am not at my best and I see them because I am not at my best, I want to use them to help me get back up the emotional ladder (that make any sense?) I always give 100% but 100% varies day to day... Yesterday would have been a good example if I could have found anyone, I'm sure I would have sucked, I had a long annoying day and just wanted some no strings attention, sure I would have done my part and who knows with the right woman maybe I would have surprised myself (has happened before)...

Now the other side of the coin is I expect that the lady alway be on and giving 100%, OK I've done repeats with people who I did not feel gave 100% the first time but usually for reasons like I still theough we clicked or they did something that really got my attention :)

The customer may not always be right but he should think he is....

Unrealistic yeah hell sure ... just saying what I want, not always what I get ...

Oh on a personal note (like this was not) if any of you ladies find me with you sometime please feel free to let me know how things are going you know say thing like:
right there
faster
slower
have you ever tried...
YES
how about...
you're gonna like this

As some of you have recently shown me it's not to late to teach an old dog new tricks......

oberon
 

Lolita

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There is a right way and a wrong way. Create Balance.

An SP can discuss about certain expectations from a client but start posting about appearances and descriptions of any of your clients and you can kiss staying successful in this business goodbye!
It's unfair to assume that just because you're paying for the ladies' time, that it's a green light for poor behaviour and manners.


Safe sex is the best sex!
 

lookatyouall

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Good advise banana boy, good advise. Sometimes there is no chemistry though and thats tough. I have clients that I see and acctualy look foreward to seeing them. I think that in the future if I realy had an unenjoyable session with someone I will "fake it" (hehehe) and choose to not see them again. I realy doon't want to lead anyone on. I just wish that my clients that see me regularly would post something nice but I guess it's human nature to only talk about the bad rather than the good. Everyone on this board seems to think that bad reviews ruin my business but I am getting calls just like I always have???? What's the name of this thread you were talking about I would realy like to read it...thanx.
 

lookatyouall

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I am just being honest and saying that when I do see a client (or anyone) They seem to find it more enjoyable when they know that the woman is satisfied. I think sex is about two people not one thats all.(if they are paying or not)
 

bigdman

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stop lecturing the clients

Lesley (I think people in this board just call you Lesley instead of the one you made up for this board...)

You quoted:
"I do enjoy my job but that doesn't mean that I am going to enjoy every session. It does take 2!!! At leat I don't fake it. Yes these guys are paying customers and I give the services that I say I am going to, I have no extra or hidden costst, and my pictures are acurate"
If you enjoy your job so much why don't you enjoy every session, and again, if you don't enjoy every session, then you should simply tell the clients that you are not interested to be with him, you don't feel that that client can create any chemistry between each other, so, refund and wait for another phone ring...


BTW, no one here is accusing of your pics are not accurate, they are complaining about your services, attitude, treating clients like shit (in LAG case...)

again quoted:
"Correct me if I am wrong. Also, if I was to hear a waitress talking shit then I would ask myself what I did to piss her off.."
If I were you, I do really need to think very hard, what had you done to piss the customers off...and that they had to post such reviews about me..., I should really self correct my fault before blaming on others...

last quote:
"In all actuality, the customer is NOT always right..."
If you have this quote in your little screwed up head..., then you might just kiss the biz "GOODBYE". In this biz, the daily cash flows are from the customers and networking. In the most extreme cases, all you need to do is simply politely return the money to the clients and tell them sorry you are not feeling well for the day.

......more to counterback on your comments...
 
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bananaboy

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lol, they find it much more enjoyable when they THINK the woman is satisfied.

I'd like to think that every woman I've been with was as satisfied as they seemed... but if that's the case, I'm in the wrong career!
 

bigdman

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Lesley,
your quote:
"I realy doon't want to lead anyone on. I just wish that my clients that see me regularly would post something nice but I guess it's human nature to only talk about the bad rather than the good"...

You do not need to wish that your reg clients would post good reviews about your services, IF your SERVICE is as good as you had described or at least tried so hard to describe, then you don't have to wish anything, your clients would be posting positive reviews about you...BUT, so far, we haven't seen any positive reviews about your service and all you are trying to do here is more harm to your biz than good...
there is no doubt that you might have created a bit of reg clients who you think you clicked with them (or have the same chemistry). But its not just a few reg. clients that can write cheques for your living, how many time can these so-called reg. clients see you in a month?? once? twice?? I will make it fair to you and them, let's say twice... and how many clients do you have???to be honest..., you don't need to tell us here, just tell yourself...
 

Hamster

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Hey Lesley

Lesley, the Hamster would like to give you a try. If the Hamster gives you the thumbs up, your phone will ring constantly...

What do ya say?

Can you handle the Hamster?
 

Pandora

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I think we all agree then that reviewing the men would be a privacy/confidentiality issue. On a side note, I don't know this city very well, and I am getting hungry.....anyone know a good place for some home cooking-style grub??
 
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You've got mail, Pandora...
 
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