Request for advice

[OldBuck]

I got this request for advice:

Hey OldBuck,

Sorry to bother you...

I'm not known on the boards as I don't post but I have read a lot and appreciate your posts.

I've noticed you have experience with the more mature providers so if you have the time I'd appreciate your advice.

I've done some research and have been looking at a few mature providers who I am attracted to based on their pictures. You don't have to go into any detail if they told you not to but if you could let me know if any of the following you would recommend. I recall you seeing 1 or 2 of them. Or if there are any I didn't list you feel are better please let me know.

Quinn/Jill (Quinn on BP and Jill on Kingdom99)
Stefanie (BP - she has pictures of her tied up)
Sensual Porscha
CapitalCforCougar

If there are others you've seen in addition to the above please let me know in order of your preference.

I appreciate you taking the time to read this and replying if you so choose.

I told him I was reluctant to reply since he had been a members of the board since 2012 nad had never posted. I thought that since he was not and probably would not be a contributor, that I was conflicted about complying with
his request. He did not reply.

Comments? Was I wrong?

 

[mrwhite]

OldBuck, I think you did the correct thing, I have not been a member long and I don't post much, but I try and contribute when I can. If asked the same questions I would have responded as you did.

 

[bigben]

I think you answered respectfully. I would have asked his reasons for not posting to the board out of curiosity.

 

[Coach_Wpg]

Perfect answer!

 

[SpeedStick]

you should have replied with "screw you and anyone who looks like you!"

 

[wpgman69]

Personally, I would have just answered his question.

 

[lets_rock]

I've messaged guys from here before asking questions. I think there was only one asswhole who actually didnt answer. I'm not active on here all that much but I do chime in when I can.

 

[zaap]

I am the one who wrote to OldBuck because I felt he seemed like a decent guy that would have responded in 2 ways -

(1) I would highly recommend her or her or her.
or
(2) Sorry, I don't feel comfortable in replying to a newbie.


I felt his reply was decent, respectful, to the point and I didn't want to waste any more of his time. I told him I appreciated him taking the time to read and reply - if he so choosed to reply.

I took several psychology courses that really helped me learn a lot about people, which I ultimately used to help develop my business marketing strategies. Although, what I learned also comes in handy in real life, and on the internet as well.

The interesting thing is you learn a lot by reading what people post. The way in which they post and the manner in which they interact with others. Even something as simple as the words they use. You can see the replies above and I am fine with each one of them - yes even the negative ones. They help determine a lot about the posters. OldBuck was the first and very likely the last person I will bother, if you can call it bother. I very much appreciate him taking the time to respond. I even understand his concern and why he would post my message in here. Again, you learn a lot about people by reading their posts.

In regards to the LE comment, I can guarantee they would not be contacting one random person in a one off message in the manner that I phrased the questions. They can get more information purely from what is posted on these boards and would be better served interacting on a regular basis with the members, in the open, on the boards over a long period of time. A one off random message to one person is not a very effective use of LE time.

I'll finish off by again saying all posts - postive and negative - are useful.

Enjoy your time on the boards and I respect your freedoms to interact, or not, with any one you may choose be it newbies or not.

To answer your question OldBuck - Were you wrong? No, not at all. Regardless of which way you would have replied. Although one of the ladies might have appreciated it a bit more if the answer went the other way praising one of them.

 

[westwoody]

None of which explains why you do not contribute or post openly.

This board would have no use if nobody contributed, or if all advice and reviews was through back channels.

 

[zaap]

None of which explains why you do not contribute or post openly.

This board would have no use if nobody contributed, or if all advice and reviews was through back channels.

I apologize. I was naive in thinking that it was easy to read between the lines and come to a conclusion on that.

There was no use in me flooding the board with questions that I have easily been able to research and find answers to on my own and only ask for recommendations on things as a last resort. (Which is why I kind of wondered about the "lazy" comment above since I haven't bothered anyone up until this point and I have researched everything on my own) The only reason I asked OldBuck is because I couldn't answer that question on my own. Only he knew who he liked the best. I would have appreciated his advice on the matter. Didn't feel the need to ask anyone else but OldBuck. I also didn't want to openly make a thread calling on OldBuck. That wouldn't have been proper etiquette in my honest opinion.

This is not something one such as myself just jumps into. I could be waiting for something in my personal life to happen before partaking and I am close to that point. Going into detail on that would divulge too much information in a public forum that wouldn't contribute anything of value to the forum.

I don't even feel these replies from me contribute anything of value to the forum, but I am only replying as a courtesy to you since you took the time to direct your comment to me and I wrongly assumed the answers were already there.

If I had something I felt would benefit the forum. I would have posted it. I don't like to waste people's time, because I frown upon that in my business life when people do that to me, and I feel I have wasted too much of everyone's time already with these replies. Although I hope I answered your comments.

 

[westwoody]

Do you acknowledge that the board is useless if nobody contributes?

It is a bit of an issue when there are so many posters who bring nothing to the table but want others to provide information that is sometimes difficult and always expensive to get.

Part of the culture of entitlement.

 

[SpeedStick]

can you really get to know a person from reading there posts? like looking into their soul?

also i think you write really really gooder, be interesting to see a review and expose your freaky side bruh.

wish i was wicked smaht and took dem pyhschocomlogy khorses twooo

btw this thread is turning me on, i think i will cancel my session and fap to this instead reggers:

 

[OldBuck]

To Zaap thanks for joining the forum.

Now I do feel obliged to reply to you:

I have no experience with Porscha, Stefanie or Quinn, so I cannot comment upon them. Capital C for Cougar is great and also occupies a niche with her services. I also give very high marks for for Felina Curvy Woman, and Lacey in the mature provider category. I must also compliment Riley, though she is a bit younger.

And, by the way, I now will be happy to answer your next or even last PM with a PM.

 

[Zarhan Fastfire]

Do you acknowledge that the board is useless if nobody contributes?

It is a bit of an issue when there are so many posters who bring nothing to the table but want others to provide information that is sometimes difficult and always expensive to get.

Part of the culture of entitlement.

I know the type of posters you are talking about, WW, the ones who start threads with "Anybody seen dis one?" and then just wait for other people to do all the work, even the TinEye or GoogleImages ... I don't think if's fair to judge this one as if he belonged in that category. He queried one and only one person about established SPs because he wanted an opinion from that one person. Not that I blame OldBuck for being reticent one bit. When you know nothing about the person asking the question, it comes down to your gut feeling whether you feel like sharing any info.

Reading between the lines, it sounds to me like the Formerly-Quiet Man has yet to actually visit an SP. I imagine something along the lines of someone in a failing/fading relationship who joined years ago with the idea that he might do it one day, but to date still hasn't, and that maybe that day is dawning. If so, that means he can't post about personal experiences. Taking your point again, WW, sure, he could find other ways to contribute, say, by offering ideas or comments about related to issues (legal, safety, otherwise). Maybe he just hasn't thought of that. A fresh, articulate point of view is welcome.

 

[SpeedStick]

i would recommend jersey, i did a review a while back. quinn - i know as jill, also wrote about her in previous post, however to her credit shes putting accurate pics of her but the ones with the freckles shows her true skin tone, the nice ass shots must be the lighting. not knocking her just stating as i remember. services was good but i was not pleased with the pics she used when she was younger.