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question of protocol when contacting independents

1adam12

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Here is my question. I have an unlisted home phone and a pay-as-you-go cell phone. The cell phone comes up on caller ID as "Private Name - Private Number". My unlisted home phone number shows up on caller ID as "(No Name) +NNNNNNNNNNN". I tried calling one of the Victoria independents and without a phone number which shows up with a name on caller ID, it's no go.

Most independents don't seem to list an e-mail address where you could contact them. I appreciate they would get buried in junk mail. I don't mind providing them with my name, BCDL or other identification. They are trusting me so I feel it's courteous to trust them.

I'd appreciate one of the independents or someone in the know, advising me how you can make and appointment with a Victoria independent if you have an unlisted home phone number. I don't want to name names, but I heart has been stolen by someone on www.bcdarlings.com.

Before my phone number became unlisted, I did visit Gina 3-4 times a couple of years ago when she was first setting up her web site. I'm certainly unremarkable, but I could likely get a reference from Gina as she might remember me if I reminded her of some of my foibles.

Thanks.
 

spaceghost

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1adam12 said:
I don't want to name names, but I heart has been stolen by someone on www.bcdarlings.com.
Sorry to break this to you but Trudi is going to be a huge disappointment bud!

But seriously... I do believe if you press *82 on your cel phone and then the phone number you are calling, it should reveal your number to the person on the other end.

If you have call display at home, try calling yourself with your cel to see if it works.

PS... Adam-12, I loved that show as a kid.
 

6nanaimo9

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the night that gillian and jenna did their webcam show they held up a card saying call them so i called gillian with my cellie and she answered and it says no name no number.
 

1adam12

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Spaceghost:

Thanks for the suggestion, but *82 does not work for my cell which is with Rogers. However you have my attention, who is Trudi, I don't see her as an independent on bcdarlings. Also, loved your badger web site.
 

spaceghost

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1adam12 said:
You have my attention, who is Trudi? Also, loved your badger web site.
Hmmm... *82 didn't work? Perhaps someone else out there can make a suggestion.

As for Trudi... fawk.

Like a fly to the nightlight, they are irresistibly drawn, aren't they Hipster!

Beware little fly... the nightlight is a bug zapper (lol)

I am sure 'others' will give you some input about Trudi.

And... beware the badgers.... they are just as addicting as Trudi!
 

1adam12

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Thanks Gina:

If I had any brains, I'd just come and see you some more as the few times I spent with you a couple of years ago was perfection for me. You were very patient and respectful of my hesitation.

XO
 

Massagegirl

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Pinhead has it right, I am one of the ladies who won't book Private Numbers only because of prank callers that set up bogus appointments. Giving her your number so she can call you back is what you should suggest, it proves you are legit! When you have seen her, I'm sure she won't ask for a number to come up again, it's just a first time thing. Good luck!

P.S. A lot of people are afraid we want your number so we can blackmail you later but once you meet us, you have the same power if not more as you will know where we live and/or work! We just need to be cautious, it's no offence when we don't take private numbers!
 

vicplay

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PinHead... has a good thought - here's another - email the "keeper of the board" at BC Darlings and ask him / her / or whatever is the keep of the board to send a note to the the Lady that has capture your attention.

Gina has offered and I suspect if you PM'd one of the "senior" members here one of us would make the call and pass on your number....

Now - about the real name thing.... just try to book an agency girl when you're in a hotel in most cities - they want your room number and your name - so they can call the hotel and ask for you by name and "GET THROUGH" - this is normal practive.
 

1adam12

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Thanks for the suggestions which are all useful. My difficulty is that my visits are often somewhat spontaneous and so it's more difficult for me to make an appointment on short notice with an independent. I appreciate that one must be patient if one wishes to visit the very best. I must be simple minded as it never occured to me that someone might want to blackmail me.
 

vicplay

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The key is making a "first" contact with the lady that caught your eye - once you've done that, you can be plenty spontaneous.....
 

Lurker 123

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Right on vicplay! The first time is always the most difficult.
1adam if you can plan the first date couple of days ahead ,it would be easier. You leave your message at her answering machine what you want and ask her to call back. On the other hand ,you too have to follow up. Sometimes it may take the lady couple of days to return your call. You can never know!

It happened in the past I called a lady and she did not return my call until a week later. What happened was, she was away for a week.

So don't give up!Once she recognises your phone number,she will answer your call!
 

Jennabc

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I personally answer private number, but I know lots of girls don't.

I don't know a lot of girls who won't answer or book calls from payphones though. Although, that would most likely mean that you would have to go to her place. Maybe try that!

Also, I know a lot of girls who don't return messages unless it is that same day. I don't either, because I don't know who will be around the next day or a few days later. This business is all about discretion, so I am not sure that the message will work either, but it is worth a shot!

Hope that helps,

Luv, Jenna~
 

Saffire

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I added a feature on my phone which automatically blocks unlisted numbers - I don't even hear it ring. To complete the call, pressing the '1' un-blocks your number and puts you through. For girls who don't accept blocked calls, it's a part-time secretary, and men aren't calling endlessly, wondering why you haven't picked up for days....

Now, if I could figure a way around the payphones....

Don't be offended, don't think of it as an annoyance, and don't think we have an alterior motive of some sort. Instead, think of it this way....

I (in the collective sense) am giving you, a complete stranger, my address, buzz code, apartment number and entrance into my home. Add to that the expectation of an intimate physical encounter, and I'm alone. Displaying a phone number isn't too much to ask. Many of you talk of the possible dangers we are exposed to in this business. This is a simple precaution. If you aren't going to trust me, I shouldn't be expected to trust you (flip it - if you can't trust her with your phone number, do you really want her around your yummy parts?)

Leaving a message is a definite advantage. State clearly if you don't want her to call you back, and just as clearly if you do and when she can. Example: "It's not a problem for you to call me at this number all day today/all week/whenever you get the chance." OR "You can only return my call at this number within the next 15 minutes/2 hours/until 6pm, tonight, but not after that. (Give yourself a window - women are always late).
Even a simple message stating the time/day/service you had in mind and that you will call back later. She'll keep an eye out for your number and maybe arrange her schedule a little bit differently.

Finally, if your call wasn't returned the same day of your message, you probably won't hear from her until you phone again. While some people do plan ahead, most are day to day, hour to hour, even minute to minute and we govern ourselves according to what you tell us - just be specific and clear, hopefully she'll do the same.............and then...........

you'll be shaggin in no time..... ;)
 

Massagegirl

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Likesdeladies, that shouldn't happen with a serious SP. She is the kind that wants to see the most people in a day, and is in it for the $$$. I betcha none of the girls here do that, they're too friendly and classy! If you insist on seeing someone who opperates that way, then call when you are in her neighborhood, with 15 min notice. Maybe once she's seen you, her protocol will be different?
 
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