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Question for SPs - what are the reasons you block a clients number?

Nerd69

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Aside from the obvious reasons like being a no show, a stalker or generally rude I’m wondering if there are additional reasons why SPs would decide to not answer or block a clients calls.

I know there are obvious reasons for this but in certain instance I have experienced this i I honestly don’t think I did anything out of the ordinary. I’m always polite and make 99.9% of my appointments. I also communicate well in advance if I have to cancel and don’t ask a lot of questions via text etc.

Curious to know about other angles I may not have considered.
 

stamina

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Let us know who it is (or who they are). In solidarity, I will take a pass on this lady/ies.
 

Mrmotorscooter

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Let us know who it is (or who they are). In solidarity, I will take a pass on this lady/ies.
That’s the correct thing to do (taking a pass), trying to figure out a females motives is a WOT and you would be foolish to persue it further. You could sound like her father or someone she knows, it’s all irrelevant just move on!
 

badbadboy

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Who are the holders of these so called "black lists"? They are not posted on the 'net' so to speak. Are they a network of emails between one another or is there some sort of 'members only' site?

Seems odd to me to get on someone's dark web Black List arbitrarily unless you are a constant no show, negotiator of a lower price or a misogynistic asshole or merely if you just had a disagreement with one of them?

I haven't been declined a date in a very long time. Last one I recall said she didn't think we would be a good match.

I moved on, no biggie I thought since there were so many others out there who would welcome my company.
 
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Along with NCNS (no call no show), if a client is rude, demanding, aggressive or impatient they will not receive a text back. Also if clients repeatedly book and cancel, never keeping their appt, they are blacklisted as WOTs. imho
 

jgg

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Likely for all the above reasons. It is their business and they don't have to have a good reason. Some times it may just be intuition. As for where the list resides, I have no real idea. Speculation would be their contacts through group email and Twitter DMs. The lounge on here maybe to some extent. There could also be some locked down log in web site too.
 

badbadboy

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WOW really kinda over the top reaction . It is not dark web black as in black hat or whatever but there are lists , on the Net .
I highly doubt a person is listed arbitrarily anymore then warnings about Sps would be , and you are correct a misogynistic asshole would bea good reason , as with other reasons .
As for personal whims, I think most sps decide for themselves if they want to meet with someone .... 1 persons trash is another persons treasure :) so to speak .
Sorry but I am not here to each you how to operate as an sp, so no need for me to give you anymore details then I already have .

As for my black list I should have called it blocked list. sorry my bad
It wasn't over the top. I was purely being a bit facetious with a dash of sarcasm thrown into the mix. One can read a paragraph but looking at a paragraph and understanding how the author is conveying the message are two separate things.

I was in a round about way, trying to sort out if there are published list put on another website / ladies forum where SP's can view the Good the Bad and the Ugly?

Or are the lists held privately and when someone enquires "is such and such ok?" Each individual SP would respond with their input.

Just curious, that's all.
 

Claire Monet

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I was in a round about way, trying to sort out if there are published list put on another website / ladies forum where SP's can view the Good the Bad and the Ugly?

Or are the lists held privately and when someone enquires "is such and such ok?" Each individual SP would respond with their input.

Just curious, that's all.
Yes and yes. There are public disclosures of undesireable people and of course ladies keep their own lists. Someone on my DNS list may be perfectly fine for another lady so everyone has to use their own judgement.

Don't:
- waste someone's time with back and forth texts/emails and never book
- be rude
- repeatedly cancel without compensation
- push boundaries
- question a lady's screening process

Do:
- provide all screening info if asked (or better, before she has to ask)
- read her ad and website
- request her time in a fashion where she feels respected
 

sybian

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Yes and yes. There are public disclosures of undesireable people and of course ladies keep their own lists. Someone on my DNS list may be perfectly fine for another lady so everyone has to use their own judgement.

Don't:
- waste someone's time with back and forth texts/emails and never book
- be rude
- repeatedly cancel without compensation
- push boundaries
- question a lady's screening process

Do:
- provide all screening info if asked (or better, before she has to ask)
- read her ad and website
- request her time in a fashion where she feels respected
An awful lot can be answered and avoided if you read her entire add, and / or website.....not having a cell signal or landline tends to make me gravitate towards email contact.
I will usually include a comment that mentions the last sentence in her info, just to let her know I have read her bio to the end. Any questions are always respectful, and courteous ......which is in my nature anyways.
Once you reach a certain level of maturity, you realise that ladies don't enjoy dirty talk in the opening sentence of an email from a complete stranger....some rate that behaviour right up there with a random dick pic.
 

Caramel

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maybe she is not fond of a particular service you enjoy
maybe she is only seeing certain clients
maybe you remind her of her father/brother
maybe she got a new phone and doesn't recognize your number

I bet I could think up more, but yeah, could be any reason.
 

ddcanz

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Question for SPs - what are the reasons you block a clients number?
Maybe because said client asks an irrelevant and meaningless question that is ultimately the SP's personal business or preference? :hopelessness:
 

SkinnyJohn

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maybe you take too long to cum. I know certain micro girls cannot stand this at all. Imagine seeing 10+ clients a day and all of them take up the whole 45 minutes to cum? just sex from the get go, no breaks in-between? Girls will start screening the clients they want to repeat. It's just the way it is.
 

Nerd69

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Maybe because said client asks an irrelevant and meaningless question that is ultimately the SP's personal business or preference? :hopelessness:
I fail to see how the question is irrelevant. Your comment on the other hand...🤨
 

Nerd69

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Thanks to the ladies for shedding a bit of light. It’s alwsys very interesting to get the point of view of providers because your perspective is really unique.

The situation I had in mind was recent. I had made an appt. with a visiting lady and all the communication was appropriate and to the point. She ended up cancelling her trip but rescheduling it. So I made a second appt. her last communication was something to the effect of, “see you soon babe.” Texted to confirm the day of and no reply so I assumed she didn’t arrive again, but then found out through the board she did. So I texted again to say sorry I missed you maybe you overbooked. Happy New Year... nothing creepy about that and I did want to keep the lines open because I was very interested in seeing her so I thought it was not untoward.

I’m neither very young or old. My dink isn’t huge and I usually cum in a reasonable amount of time if not super fast when I’m really excited. I wonder if perhaps clients can get blacklisted for just being really awkward or boring...?
 

ddcanz

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I fail to see how the question is irrelevant. Your comment on the other hand...��
Read between the lines, Nerd. It doesn't matter the reason why......she didn't call back. If she ever does you can ask her specifically to this situation.
You aren't shopping at Best Buy for a new gaming console or the hobby store for fresh booster packs. Standard consumer rules and/or rights don't apply here.
The reasons you seek are mostly pretty much common sense, or have been asked/answered more times than just about any other, in repetitive threads 2-3 times annually. You've been around for at least a couple of years - you should know the drill by now.
And yes- you can be blacklisted for something as innocuous as calling her at a time that upset her puppy during its regularly scheduled toe-nail clipping duty.
 

mrman848

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Don't:
- waste someone's time with back and forth texts/emails and never book
- be rude
- repeatedly cancel without compensation
- push boundaries
- question a lady's screening process
Do:
- provide all screening info if asked (or better, before she has to ask)
- read her ad and website
- request her time in a fashion where she feels respected
Lol, I had to laugh at the part highlighted in red. What does that even mean? ....if I'm questioning her screening process its usually in my head and then she goes on my black list because she probably cra cra. I guess its for those guys who just don't get it.

Oh and I wanted to say that sometimes its hard to go view the ladies website. Some of the places you ladies advertise don't let you post your web link. I usually laugh when I see SP post about getting texts with questions that are answered on their website - then don't throw an add up on sites where you can't link your website! Lol. Also if your website doesn't CLEARLY list your rates most guys will not bother to read the rest of it and just text you. ....and please ladies, don't try to hide the 'rates' in a fancy name section, just makes browsing the add annoying.

Good do's and don'ts list though. :)
 

Nerd69

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Read between the lines, Nerd. It doesn't matter the reason why......she didn't call back. If she ever does you can ask her specifically to this situation.
You aren't shopping at Best Buy for a new gaming console or the hobby store for fresh booster packs. Standard consumer rules and/or rights don't apply here.
The reasons you seek are mostly pretty much common sense, or have been asked/answered more times than just about any other, in repetitive threads 2-3 times annually. You've been around for at least a couple of years - you should know the drill by now.
And yes- you can be blacklisted for something as innocuous as calling her at a time that upset her puppy during its regularly scheduled toe-nail clipping duty.
I was asking ladies for insight not for life lessons on “common sense.”
 

Claire Monet

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Lol, I had to laugh at the part highlighted in red. What does that even mean? ....if I'm questioning her screening process its usually in my head and then she goes on my black list because she probably cra cra. I guess its for those guys who just don't get it.

Oh and I wanted to say that sometimes its hard to go view the ladies website. Some of the places you ladies advertise don't let you post your web link. I usually laugh when I see SP post about getting texts with questions that are answered on their website - then don't throw an add up on sites where you can't link your website! Lol. Also if your website doesn't CLEARLY list your rates most guys will not bother to read the rest of it and just text you. ....and please ladies, don't try to hide the 'rates' in a fancy name section, just makes browsing the add annoying.

Good do's and don'ts list though. :)
Every sp has his/her own method of screening. We are literally opening a door to a complete stranger. So, if he/she is worth seeing in the client's view then it is worth following through with their preferred vetting process. Our profession requires discretion on our parts and for the more noble of us ensures yours. Not providing enough information about yourself to ensure the provider feels comfortable opening that door would likely lead to end of communication and possibly being blacklisted.

To the OP: I'm sorry to hear your plans fell through. Perhaps something detained her from getting back to you. There are many reasons why an sp might not return messages... I hope you find what you're looking for.
 

westwoody

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Challenging or questioning her reasons is reason enough.

Challenging her screening process might lead to challenging her boundaries. For ladies, a good way to avoid a bad encounter is to not have it in the first place.
 
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