Question for Guys Only Please - What Do You Do? I didn't know reviewing was so tough

[Urbanites]

Put yourself in my shoes for a second. I promise they are smelly, I get off on other people wearing my smelly shoes...

I am a fucking troll who has been banned about 5 times already under other names, ralf, rodent and a few more I cant remember. I keep coming back and posting the same shit about the same girls, trying to provoke them and make myself feel clever and important. I am really a complete asshole, I can't see SP's since when they see my weeping sores and smell my rancid BO, they run for the hills.

I have nothing better to do than register new ids here and jerk my rotten wart-covered cock while giggling about my 72 IQ.

I cannot even bother to try a new IP to pull my shit, I am just not very bright. Oh well, they will ban me again here and I will do it again next week.

 

[Hardatwork]

My responses are in red

Questions are :

Is this common treatment for new guys, specific to the chick I unfortunately chose or need I feel special? I won't say it was specific to the chick because I don't believe that it was the chick you reviewed that created all the Sh*t it was another one. This is getting more and more common unfortunately. The modus operendi is to create such a stink that the mod doesn't just lock the thread down, they usually delete it completely. Just be thankful that Moderator left your review standing so that others can judge for themselves.

Do some of you give the chicks that sort of information so they can figure out when exactly you saw them? I could care less if they figure out who I am, but why should you tell them when they are going to deny seeing you anyways. Maybe SP's should start handing out unique gifts to their clients so that they can identify/ verify them later should they give a poor review...

Are any of you as concerned as I am about having anonymous status when it comes to paying for sex? I'm a big enough boy that I don't worry about that. I don't have a SO so no worries there and I'm too old to worry about mommy and daddy. You don't have to worry about your anonymous status unless the SP starts asking for banking information, your work phone number and references

Has this topic been done to death on the board already? Probably, but so much stuff gets deleted because topics like this usually starts some flame war of some kind. I wouldn't be surprised if this thread goes bye bye.

BTW I read your review and thought it was tastefully done. It wasn't negative per se, but you basically said that things didn't click between you. No big deal, it happens. What I can't figure out is why another SP just had to jump in all over that thread when it had nothing to do with her, which incidentally/ coincidentally ended up locking the thread down.

 

[Randy Whorewald]

I would say this topic has been beaten to death and gotten more than a few people upset / overheated. IMHO, why don't we just drop it and get on with life??

 

[BS Detector]

I got a lot of good vibes from the guy posts but a bit weirded out by the chick attack. I am not fully comfortable posting reviews when they can read them and if they don't like it pick at it and private message me though I did find an ignore feature.

I appreciate the ladies feedback. I find many reviewers tend to think that because they pay a lady for her time, they 'own' her for the hour and can poke and prod anytime, anywhere and she has to put up with cuz wtf is doing in the business if she won't put up with it. Often that guy will give a lady a bad review and the lady really is not to be blamed.

Conversely, if a lady responds with a bad attitude, it could substantiate the review.

 

[Moose]

I would say this topic has been beaten to death and gotten more than a few people upset / overheated. IMHO, why don't we just drop it and get on with life??

I can't say I would agree with Urbanites' opinion about Szabina but I respect that is what he thought. His opinions are his right and he doesn't deserve to be flamed. My only thought is that the ladies ,though only one lady should have been concerned, maybe offended by the use of terms like prostitute, hooker, et all (another subject done to death recently). Randy is right, drop it. Next topic is ......

 

[Hardatwork]

I would say this topic has been beaten to death and gotten more than a few people upset / overheated. IMHO, why don't we just drop it and get on with life??

Usually this topic is raised in a review that inevitably gets locked down so many guys don't actually get a chance to have their say. This is the lounge where he can post a thread on any topic he chooses so long as it's polite, which his initial post was. We're supposed to be adults, so you'd think that we'd be able to have a civil conversation... I know, I know...

The bottom line is he's a newbie who asked some questions about posting reviews and he's done it in the correct forum. I guess Moderator will be the final judge, but it's all good from what I see. You want a different topic? Hit the back button on your browser bar and click on a different thread.

 

[50 Mile Radius]

I read your review and at first glance I had to question it and your motives. I did not comment at the time, because I wanted to give you the benefit of the doubt. Also, I watched the thread develop and several long term members chimed in with support.

The SP you chose to review with your first EVER thread has been the victim of some board harassment and I figured you may have a motive. I felt that way because I ALWAYS question a review that starts off with the basic premise that “I was surprised by her looks when she opened the door” when by your own admission:

and seeing her picture everywhere

I have seen this before in a review and have always wondered “What the fuck DID you expect?” Her picture IS all over the board. If I ever DID meet her there is no way I would be surprised by her looks. And if I was stupid enough TO BE surprised and was fucking DUMB ENOUGH to continue with the session, I certainly would not bring it up in a review (but that’s just me).

I also have to question your motive by the way you kept responding in the review thread. One “might” suggest you were bumping a negative review, with innocuous posts like:

Thanks Cock Throppled.

(ok, you could argue it was not completely negative, but it certainly was not glowing either).

THEN………you START THIS THREAD!!!!!!!!

So, I, for one question your motives.

Now to respond to your questions:

You see a bunch of them and you try and introduce yourself to the board by posting a review or two. On your first or second review, you choose one that seems to have a lot of board interest so you think that will be a decent choice and safe to avoid a shill label that I notice some of the larger post total guys will yell at newer posters like me.

Don’t worry about us…we’ll figure out if you are shilling or not….If your review was truthful and honest, you WILL get the benefit of the doubt.(and if not, so what? who cares?)

Well, then all hell breaks loose and the chick and friends start sending you private messages looking for details so she can figure out who you are and other chicks start posting all over your review until it gets a locked down status

I’m sure all they were doing is trying to figure out if your session was legit. My guess is that it was not, but I have been wrong once already this year.

Is this common treatment for new guys, specific to the chick I unfortunately chose or need I feel special?

I have no doubt you are special

I got a lot of good vibes from the guy posts but a bit weirded out by the chick attack. I am not fully comfortable posting reviews when they can read them and if they don't like it pick at it and private message me though I did find an ignore feature.

If you post the review, they are going to read them. You KNEW the rules before you posted the review.

Do some of you give the chicks that sort of information so they can figure out when exactly you saw them? I don't want my description sent out on some hooker hotline so that I get blacklisted or something for posting my honest opnions of an encounter.

I have NO problem telling the girls who I am. In fact, several sessions have started by way of PM on this board. I have no doubt when I make an inquiry or schedule a date, the girl will do a quick scan of my posts and posting style and review them before our date.(If they didn’t, they are crazy).

I guess you won’t be PM’ing girls for sessions now will ya?

[/COLOR]Are any of you as concerned as I am about having anonymous status when it comes to paying for sex? I don't want my neighbors or co-workers to know that is for sure. .

How the FUCK would your neighbors know? Ahhhhhh You think the hooker is gonna knock on their door and tell them. Ya I can see how that conversation would go:

Knock, knock…..
Hello….
Hi, I suck Cock and Fuck strange men for a living, and I just fucked the ugly fat guy in the apartment next to you. He couldn’t get me off. Do you have $250, an hour and a BED?

Here’s some advice if you are a LEGIT pooner and that is a REAL concern:


Use an INDY with incall or use an MP…..

DUH!

My opinion is that you have a motive. As I said before, I could be wrong, It HAS happened one other time this year. But, you DID ask for feedback!

 

[BS Detector]

Hi, I suck Cock and Fuck strange men for a living, and I just fucked the ugly fat guy in the apartment next to you. He couldn’t get me off. Do you have $250, an hour and a BED?

You been talking to my neighbours again 50

 

[sdw]

Urbanite is the troll Ralf

Just so that more of you don't embarrass yourselves agreeing with the, AGAIN, banned troll.

 

[Randy Whorewald]

Hey- that pic looks like DICK Clark.

OH NO NOT RALF AGAIN!!! Looks like he's been polishing up on his writing. He even had a few of the old timers fooled.

 

[Maury Beniowski]

Here's something I found that treats the whole issue of trolls in a rational manner, and suggests methods for dealing with them, with the ultimate objective of making a visit to Perb, for instance, the wrong venue to showcase their covert operations. I like intelligent trolls. They can be quite entertaining at times. Alas though, Perb hasn't been gifted with a clever one to this date.

Internet Trolls

 

[shak]

BTW I read your review and thought it was tastefully done. It wasn't negative per se, but you basically said that things didn't click between you. No big deal, it happens. What I can't figure out is why another SP just had to jump in all over that thread when it had nothing to do with her, which incidentally/ coincidentally ended up locking the thread down.

I totally agree with this. Urbanites can be a troll or someone with multiple handles(not like he is the only guy, i am sure of this). But I read the review and didnt see anything that was out of the line. The SP being reviewed did a classy act and leave it at that. I've exchanged a few PM with her, and she said in the PM that she did not ask another SP to jump in and contribute to the thread. At the same time, she does not deny the possibility that she may have seen urbanites and the events might have actually took place. I am not allow to post the PM here, but i can certain forward to anyone who is interested(this probably doesnt violate any perb rules, does it?).

Why would this other SP jump in immediately and start saying something is fishy How does she know whether the event actually took place or not? Does she have mod access and busted Urbanites with duplicated IPs?

 

[Hardatwork]

I have seen this before in a review and have always wondered “What the fuck DID you expect?” Her picture IS all over the board. If I ever DID meet her there is no way I would be surprised by her looks.

Ahhh, but what about the times you read in reviews "Her pictures do her no justice" or "She looks far better in person" ? Do we take these comments and dismiss them? If there's any truth to those comments then certainly the reverse is possible as well.

There is no point in letting negative posts, and trolls, etc. overwhelm the general premise here. Perbland should be able to handle discord without whitewashing, laundering and deleting threads. Crazy shit is interesting to read, just don't take it seriously!

Agreed.

 

[HeMadeMeDoIt]

I read the review in question and personally didn't feel that it was a personal attack on the named escort. The review was negative but thats what this board is for both positive and negative reviews. Personally although the girl in question has been often well reviewed I've chosen not to see her because she didn't seem "like my type". I'm not quite sure why the other girl felt the need to get so defensive of her "friend" but thats her perogative.

I do hope that the wagon circling is not a pattern that will be followed in the future and that the mods dont get conned into oppressing negative reviews; no matter how much noise the girls make about it. Mods need to remember that although us Johns dont contribute financially without our support this board would become meaningless.

 

[Sweetiepie]

I read the review in question and personally didn't feel that it was a personal attack on the named escort. I'm not quite sure why the other girl felt the need to get so defensive of her "friend" but thats her perogative.

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Even I could tell it was a bogus review and I'm not even in the business. Whether you think it was negative or not, the fact is that it was written by someone who has tried to pull the same stunt several times (I recognized the writing style and certain phrases right away) and this was confirmed by the mod. I dunno, maybe the females here all picked it up cause our spidey senses are stronger for that kind of thing. In any case, fakes don't do pooners a service either.

 

[pooner144]

Negative Reviews

I know this takes a bit of a detour from the primary focus of this thread but I got to thinking about negative reviews....what's the best way to write 'em or approach 'em.... and I think I came up with an answer.

I think it's more a case of what was asked for and what was received. If a guy goes to see a provider and she's not what he expects (didn't see any pics before) than don't give her bad review. It's your choice to stay or go, so don't fault her for it. If it was discussed before continuing in the session what's on the menu (after meeting) and she doesn't follow through, then state that in the review.

If it seems like she's got too many restrictions, and you feel jipped, I'd say it's your fault for not asking or communicating beforehand. state that your expectations were different in the review and move on.

When posting a review, the question to be asking is how well did she do with the services she did perform with what kind of attitude. I think that would be a lot more objective rather than simply bashing a provider cause she didn't give you the world.

If it wasn't to your liking, you can simply say that and state what you were looking for to substantiate a reference point, move on to someone else. This allows us to make our own conclusions.

Gentleman (Charles from MASH)

 

[Creole Lady Marmalade]

50 Mile answered the question so many of you asked "why did the other SP blah blah blah." Her pics are everywhere so no surprise.
Truth is Szabina didn't ask me to do this but I would've done this for anyone it just happened to catch my eye.

And sure enough it turned out to be a bogus review/session and Urbanites got caught.

 

[Creole Lady Marmalade]

I've exchanged a few PM with her, and she said in the PM that she did not ask another SP to jump in and contribute to the thread. At the same time, she does not deny the possibility that she may have seen urbanites and the events might have actually took place. I am not allow to post the PM here, but i can certain forward to anyone who is interested(this probably doesnt violate any perb rules, does it?).

I'm sure it doesn't violate PERB regulations, but it certainly negates the purpose of a Private/Personal Message if you post about it here for the world to see and inviting to forward the message from her on to anyone interested.

Why would this other SP jump in immediately and start saying something is fishy How does she know whether the event actually took place or not? Does she have mod access and busted Urbanites with duplicated IPs?

That "she" is me, Creole Lady Marmalade aka Stephanie. The red flag was his comment about her legs after making the comment of her pics being everywhere. There was/is enough information in those pics for him to make an informed decision, even with her eyes pixelated, and book an appointment.