I'm likely to have that problem too but I will try the DP one. I only have a harness one atmMy ATF bought the https://www.tantusinc.com/collections/feeldoe and she hates it. As soon as she gets aroused the thing slides out.
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TBH a lot of the issues come from pooner jealousy and SP guilt, so you gotta know it can go both ways. Drawing boundaries when necessary helps. I try to limit my regulars so it doesn't happen.






