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SashaStriker

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I just wanted to drop this here to remind people sometimes this is how we get to start our day.
I understand it comes with the territory of being in a vulnerable place where anyone can find your # but really no matter what the circumstances are no one deserves this. You can’t reason with people who think it’s OK to treat people like this but I can remind people that sometimes when ladies seem off or they’re not quite themselves maybe they’re having to deal with stuff like this. I can speak for myself and say that this has been a regular occurrence for me in receiving messages that are abusive or vile. I even received a message on Mother’s Day that was so disgusting it made me cry… honestly. These encounters can have shitty experiences on both ends and I just wanted to remind people that SPs are humans. I know at times I have not always been A treat to deal with and it’s hard to imagine that these unwanted occurrences can happen so frequently but they do.
 
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Langleydude

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I just wanted to drop this here to remind people sometimes this is how we get to start our day.
I understand it comes with the territory of being in a vulnerable place where anyone can find your # but really no matter what the circumstances are no one deserves this. You can’t reason with people who think it’s OK to treat people like this but I can remind people that sometimes when ladies seem off or they’re not quite themselves maybe they’re having to deal with stuff like this. I can speak for myself and say that this has been a regular occurrence for me in receiving messages that are abusive or vile. I even received a message on Mother’s Day that was so disgusting it made me cry… honestly. These encounters can have shitty experiences on both ends and I just wanted to remind people that SPs are humans. I know at times I have not always been A treat to deal with and it’s hard to imagine that these unwanted occurrences can happen so frequently but they do.
Nice he's an asshole and he doesn't know how to spell. I'm amazed he can use a phone.
 

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I just wanted to drop this here to remind people sometimes this is how we get to start our day.
I understand it comes with the territory of being in a vulnerable place where anyone can find your # but really no matter what the circumstances are no one deserves this. You can’t reason with people who think it’s OK to treat people like this but I can remind people that sometimes when ladies seem off or they’re not quite themselves maybe they’re having to deal with stuff like this. I can speak for myself and say that this has been a regular occurrence for me in receiving messages that are abusive or vile. I even received a message on Mother’s Day that was so disgusting it made me cry… honestly. These encounters can have shitty experiences on both ends and I just wanted to remind people that SPs are humans. I know at times I have not always been A treat to deal with and it’s hard to imagine that these unwanted occurrences can happen so frequently but they do.
Total piece of trash right there.
it a shame that there are messages like this that are posted by sad sad, very sad hurtful people
You look amazing and I am sure are a pretty good and fun person. It’s not easy to ignore that garage, but know that there are those of us out here that don’t think that and appreciate you
Thank you and know your so much better than any trash talker might think in their own small mind
😘
 

SashaStriker

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Total piece of trash right there.
it a shame that there are messages like this that are posted by sad sad, very sad hurtful people
You look amazing and I am sure are a pretty good and fun person. It’s not easy to ignore that garage, but know that there are those of us out here that don’t think that and appreciate you
Thank you and know your so much better than any trash talker might think in their own small mind
😘
My heart!!! Thank you for the kind words.
I just want people to remember sometimes were all fighting internal battles people cant see! I actually used this weapon of a message as my fuel for the gym!! Woop woop 🙌
 

Fiona

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I just wanted to drop this here to remind people sometimes this is how we get to start our day.
I understand it comes with the territory of being in a vulnerable place where anyone can find your # but really no matter what the circumstances are no one deserves this. You can’t reason with people who think it’s OK to treat people like this but I can remind people that sometimes when ladies seem off or they’re not quite themselves maybe they’re having to deal with stuff like this. I can speak for myself and say that this has been a regular occurrence for me in receiving messages that are abusive or vile. I even received a message on Mother’s Day that was so disgusting it made me cry… honestly. These encounters can have shitty experiences on both ends and I just wanted to remind people that SPs are humans. I know at times I have not always been A treat to deal with and it’s hard to imagine that these unwanted occurrences can happen so frequently but they do.
Happens too often 😞so many people out there (clients & other sws) get such a rush out of tearing other people down , I absolutely cannot understand how people actually take time out of their day to do this .
All I can do is know Karma will get that person when they least expect it.
It’s nothing to do with you , they just find a particular easy target . Very sad .
Put out good energy & get it in return .. easy ❤
 

Luciferlynn

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I'd love to post the voicemails I get from one abusive person I've never seen that I turned down. Ugh 😫
 

Hawker17

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I must be cut from a different cloth, i randomly text my favourite sps wishing them happy days and let them know how beautiful of a person they are inside and out, i love spreading positivity and sometimes just someones random message can brighten a day.

So please dont let losers like this get into your head.
 

3Chainz__

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I'm so sorry to hear this Sasha. People truly don't appreciate the toll and strain this kind of abuse takes on your mental health over time. It is personal, relentless, and erosive. Our brains and bodies are resilient but they are also not meant to be in a mode of constant anxiety which abuse can cause.

Yes, we all are aware that dealing with bad clients is part of any customer service job, including this one. However, a "bad day at work" dealing with the minor annoyances of the job or rude customers who called you an asshole.....is just drastically different than being a sexual services provider, where you are not just evaluated/critiqued on your service skills as relevant to the job, but your also a bunch of things that are far more personal to you as a human being outside work...demeanour, social and conversational skills, your face and all its features, your body/skin/hair, your hygiene, your weight, conformity to colonial beauty standards, even your choice of having tattoos or piercings. How many people could honestly say they could survive a job like that?! Imagine a "bad day at work" is compounded by your customers spitting abuse and insults about very personal things, and also nit-picky things you weren't even thinking about before they said it. I'm sure that hits different, especially when it is repeated behaviour.

People forget that just like in life, there is an SP out there for everyone. Just because you didn't *enjoy* the session, or there was no chemistry between two strangers hooking up, it doesn't mean the SP is bad at their job, or that this hobby isn't for you. Someone's beauty or talent isn't diminished by 1 external person failing to see it. People also need to have realistic expectations, and strong self awareness. I've seen several threads now where there was a huge discrepancy between the client's version of events in a bad review, and the SP's, who also has several other positive reviews (which completely contradict the OPs lol). Some accounts on here literally have 90% negative posting history as well....you do have to wonder what is the intent from the posters to begin with.

Keep your head up Sasha ~ there are haters out there, that are jealous of your success. They are jealous of the (positive AND negative) attention that beautiful women receive from all members of society. They wonder why they weren't the chosen ones lol.....Without realizing, they can also recognize their own talents and God given gifts if they let go of one standard of success (beauty, money, superficial BS). They are hurting inside and looking for a place to transfer that energy ~ people doing better than them, or who already have the things they are most insecure about, are usually an easy target. Just my two cents. 🙏 🙏
 
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SashaStriker

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I'm so sorry to hear this Sasha. People truly don't appreciate the toll and strain this kind of abuse takes on your mental health over time. It is personal, relentless, and erosive. Our brains and bodies are resilient but they are also not meant to be in a mode of constant anxiety which abuse can cause.

Yes, we all are aware that dealing with bad clients is part of any customer service job, including this one. However, a "bad day at work" dealing with the minor annoyances of the job or rude customers who called you an asshole.....is just drastically different than being a sexual services provider, where you are not just evaluated/critiqued on your service skills as relevant to the job, but your also a bunch of things that are far more personal to you as a human being outside work...demeanour, social and conversational skills, your face and all its features, your body/skin/hair, your hygiene, your weight, conformity to colonial beauty standards, even your choice of having tattoos or piercings. How many people could honestly say they could survive a job like that?! Imagine a "bad day at work" is compounded by your customers spitting abuse and insults about very personal things, and also nit-picky things you weren't even thinking about before they said it. I'm sure that hits different, especially when it is repeated behaviour.

People forget that just like in life, there is an SP out there for everyone. Just because you didn't *enjoy* the session, or there was no chemistry between two strangers hooking up, it doesn't mean the SP is bad at their job, or that this hobby isn't for you. Someone's beauty or talent isn't diminished by 1 external person failing to see it. People also need to have realistic expectations, and strong self awareness. I've seen several threads now where there was a huge discrepancy between the client's version of events in a bad review, and the SP's, who also has several other positive reviews (which completely contradict the OPs lol). Some accounts on here literally have 90% negative posting history as well....you do have to wonder what is the intent from the posters to begin with.

Keep your head up Sasha ~ there are haters out there, that are jealous of your success. They are jealous of the (positive AND negative) attention that beautiful women receive from all members of society. They wonder why they weren't the chosen ones lol.....Without realizing, they can also recognize their own talents and God given gifts if they let go of one standard of success (beauty, money, superficial BS). They are hurting inside and looking for a place to transfer that energy ~ people doing better than them, or who already have the things they are most insecure about, are usually an easy target. Just my two cents. 🙏 🙏
♥♥♥ that was very sweet. Thank you for taking the time to write that! I will definitely keep my head up. There are good people out there! Those are the ones to put energy into! 😘😘😘
 
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SashaStriker

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I would like to say thank you to everyone who has taken the time to say kind things and I really appreciate the community on here who respects us Sp’s.
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