The lady who just read about her daughter being a SP kinda made me want to "share" and hoping other ladies who have told there parents tell other ladies. Ya never know what mother is reading this one day.
Kinda a tips thread.
I know the worst thing for me when my parents found out was knowing it put a strain on there marriage. My mother telling me she had to go to the doctors and be put on meds because of stress only made me feel guilty. Not only was I worrying about my childrens welfare because neighbors and family all knew but I felt like I had to try and keep my family from breaking down. The guilt that everyone around me was breakin down because of me was unbearable.
A week or so later when things calmed down and I explained. No mom men dont come to my house. No mom I dont use drugs. yaddayaddayadda really helped, once they would sit and listen and shut out others opinions and realize what really happens was great. I had my mom back, the same mom that was my best friend for the most part of my adult years. I could look he in the eye and have never think twice when I see her number to pick up the phone. I dont have to worry about getting caught lieing. I never wanted to lie to her and I dont think Im a liar BUT before they knew being a liar was easier than hurting her.
Now its kinda funny, my 80 year old grandfather (old farmer) tells everyone he knows what kinda biz I own. He even calls and tells me where he thinks is gonna boom next. He called a few months back all excited because they were talking about me on rutherford.
I have a morol family, I have a mother and father that are old fashion right off the farm. It took them, there friends and neighbors knowing someone thats done this to change there minds. This job isnt all bad and I think Im living proof of this. I have taken more girls to addacc, I drug test. I let the girls keep there money AND Im not scared to say I am a mom of 2, Jayme is my real name and put a face to what 2005 typical working girl is. Indepentant!!!
Kinda a tips thread.
I know the worst thing for me when my parents found out was knowing it put a strain on there marriage. My mother telling me she had to go to the doctors and be put on meds because of stress only made me feel guilty. Not only was I worrying about my childrens welfare because neighbors and family all knew but I felt like I had to try and keep my family from breaking down. The guilt that everyone around me was breakin down because of me was unbearable.
A week or so later when things calmed down and I explained. No mom men dont come to my house. No mom I dont use drugs. yaddayaddayadda really helped, once they would sit and listen and shut out others opinions and realize what really happens was great. I had my mom back, the same mom that was my best friend for the most part of my adult years. I could look he in the eye and have never think twice when I see her number to pick up the phone. I dont have to worry about getting caught lieing. I never wanted to lie to her and I dont think Im a liar BUT before they knew being a liar was easier than hurting her.
Now its kinda funny, my 80 year old grandfather (old farmer) tells everyone he knows what kinda biz I own. He even calls and tells me where he thinks is gonna boom next. He called a few months back all excited because they were talking about me on rutherford.
I have a morol family, I have a mother and father that are old fashion right off the farm. It took them, there friends and neighbors knowing someone thats done this to change there minds. This job isnt all bad and I think Im living proof of this. I have taken more girls to addacc, I drug test. I let the girls keep there money AND Im not scared to say I am a mom of 2, Jayme is my real name and put a face to what 2005 typical working girl is. Indepentant!!!
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