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paigesplaymate

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The lady who just read about her daughter being a SP kinda made me want to "share" and hoping other ladies who have told there parents tell other ladies. Ya never know what mother is reading this one day.

Kinda a tips thread.

I know the worst thing for me when my parents found out was knowing it put a strain on there marriage. My mother telling me she had to go to the doctors and be put on meds because of stress only made me feel guilty. Not only was I worrying about my childrens welfare because neighbors and family all knew but I felt like I had to try and keep my family from breaking down. The guilt that everyone around me was breakin down because of me was unbearable.
A week or so later when things calmed down and I explained. No mom men dont come to my house. No mom I dont use drugs. yaddayaddayadda really helped, once they would sit and listen and shut out others opinions and realize what really happens was great. I had my mom back, the same mom that was my best friend for the most part of my adult years. I could look he in the eye and have never think twice when I see her number to pick up the phone. I dont have to worry about getting caught lieing. I never wanted to lie to her and I dont think Im a liar BUT before they knew being a liar was easier than hurting her.
Now its kinda funny, my 80 year old grandfather (old farmer) tells everyone he knows what kinda biz I own. He even calls and tells me where he thinks is gonna boom next. He called a few months back all excited because they were talking about me on rutherford.
I have a morol family, I have a mother and father that are old fashion right off the farm. It took them, there friends and neighbors knowing someone thats done this to change there minds. This job isnt all bad and I think Im living proof of this. I have taken more girls to addacc, I drug test. I let the girls keep there money AND Im not scared to say I am a mom of 2, Jayme is my real name and put a face to what 2005 typical working girl is. Indepentant!!!
 
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LonelyGhost

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awesome ... i am impressed that someone has the courage to come out and maybe drag this whole business towards legitimacy.

i am sick of the whole moral crusade around sex and sexuality and none of got here by any other means than dad throwin a leg over on mom and her taking it like a trooper!

once you toss out the morality you just have two people doing what all of us like and want to do every day until we die.
 

maverick73

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Great idea for a thread, but I think you meant to say "Our Stories" and not "Are Stories" - I was confused by the title until I started reading.
 

paigesplaymate

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LonelyGhost said:
awesome ... i am impressed that someone has the courage to come out and maybe drag this whole business towards legitimacy.

i am sick of the whole moral crusade around sex and sexuality and none of got here by any other means than dad throwin a leg over on mom and her taking it like a trooper!

once you toss out the morality you just have two people doing what all of us like and want to do every day until we die.
Yeah its hard to see the same people that are in the bars going home with whoever bought them a few drinks crusade ever other day of the week. Its shocking how many wifes are on a crusade yet there husbands are talking to the people they claim are wreaking there marriage.
I been in this long enough and have realized "more escorts save marriages than ruin them"
I dont know how many men I have talked to loved there wives just something was missing.


Thanks Mav, I really need to use the spell checker and reread what I type. I just get distracted by these new boobs, the phone, the TV, the new boobs..
*Thanks* :eek:
 

maverick73

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paigesplaymate said:
Thanks Mav, I really need to use the spell checker and reread what I type. I just get distracted by these new boobs, the phone, the TV, the new boobs..
*Thanks* :eek:
No problem, I find boobs very distracting, and I don't even have them. :rolleyes: I can't imagine I would be able to concentrate if new boobs were dandling in front of me 24/7.

I also noticed you spelt "asteam" wrong (esteem) in another thread as well as a bunch of other words, but I didn't want to bust your boobs too much. I tried going to your website, but I can't navigate anywhere past the phone number.
 

paigesplaymate

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maverick73 said:
No problem, I find boobs very distracting, and I don't even have them. :rolleyes: I can't imagine I would be able to concentrate if new boobs were dandling in front of me 24/7.

I also noticed you spelt "asteam" wrong (esteem) in another thread as well as a bunch of other words, but I didn't want to bust your boobs too much. I tried going to your website, but I can't navigate anywhere past the phone number.

Thanks Mav, going to go edit some more.
 

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The best thing I ever did was telling my family

To me honesty is an integral part of any sort of relationship. I don't believe you can have anything real without it. I want the people who are important to me (my family, partner and friends) to love and like me for all of me, not just what I am projecting and letting them believe me to be. This isn't about one lie, it is about a compliation of them. I simply couldn't live like that.

Now, I wouldn't suggest that any lady who is just getting thier toes wet should run off and tell their family. I would assume that most would be rather hurt, upset, stunned etc... Howerver, if this is something you see yourself persuing for more than six months, then I think they sould know. I honestly don't know how the ladies who lead double lives manage to keep everything straingt.

Yes, there was screaming, name calling and dish throwing. I just let them get it out of their system, and told them to call me when they were ready to reestablish the relationship. I reassured them that I wasn't into drugs, I was safe, and I was still the same person they loved the day before, when they were simply ignorant of the fact that I had another job. This doesn't define who I am. It is simply something I am choosing to do.

I am not ashamed of being a companion. I don't flaunt it, and I do keep it disreet. But I have the upmost respect for myself, as well as others. I don't tolerate any less in return. I truely believe that if you approach your family level headed, explain the business side to them, along with all the precautions you take to remain safe, they will get over it much quicker. For the most part they are concerned with your well being on a variety of levels. Once they are reassured of that, they are much more likely to overcome any moral issues they have with it.

My family and friends are my support system. I can joke with them about my job. I can answer questions they have regarding sensual, sexual, marital, personal and various other matters that most woman not in this business wouldn't be privy to. They act as my security for check in when I visit with clients, and I know that our relationship is stronger now than it ever has been. They know they can be honest with me about anything, and they know I am alwasy forthright as well.

It takes a lot of courage to make the step, but I beleive it has paid off ten fold. I can be true to myself, not have to live a lie and not have to worry about being 'outed'. I have a job, which I happen to enjoy, but that is somewhat less mainstream. They have all learned to be happy for the fact that I enjoy my life.